My world has been shattered........I have been given the news that our friends daughter has been murdered by her boyfriend who then killed himself. We are all reeling from the shock & I just don't know what to do or say......every time I try to talk to my friend I break down & can't seem to stop sobbing. Please pray for us I don't know how we are going to get through this nightmare

They are have gone to pick her up & bring her back home
to the funeral home...........

Oh Loralye, I'm just reading this post now. I am so sorry to hear this awful news. My prayers are with you and your friends. --Sharon

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by pldc edited 19 Jul 2015

thank you Sharon very much.

OMG I cannot imagine the pain that that poor mother and you are going thru. Please know that prayers are being said for both of you and your families

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by pldc 19 Jul 2015

Thank you very much, ~hugs~

It does helps to talk about it. Went thru much the same 11 years ago with a friends daughter by her husband's cousin. The pain will lessen but there are always little things that bring back those memories. God's blessings be upon your friend and her family and with you also. So sorry that you are all going thru this. Prayers

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by pldc 19 Jul 2015

Thank you very much, & I am sorry beyond words that you had to go through something similar...........~hugs~

OH, I am so sorry. I know this is truly a horrible time for y'all. It's always a trough time to loss someone, but in this way is just horrible. My prayers and thought are with you and her family. Again, I'm sorry for the lose. I'm sure she was a wonderful girl. Prayers and thought, Mechille

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by pldc 19 Jul 2015

she was both beautiful inside & out.............we will miss her every day.........

This is such horrible news, and you all will be in my prayers, I hope you will find the strength to help your friend through this.
Hugs Pam

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by pldc 17 Jul 2015

thank you Pam so very much...it has been a long week

Such sad news. Sending prayers for you, your friend & both familys to get through this ordeal.

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by pldc 17 Jul 2015

thanks very much

I read this before and just couldn't write anything! :.( You are in my thoughts and prayers along with everyone else who has to deal with something SO HORRIBLE !!! :'(

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by pldc 16 Jul 2015

thank you very much ~hugs~

Praying about this horrific hurting you are all experiencing.

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by pldc 16 Jul 2015

thank you very much Joan ~hugs~

Our prayers are with you, your family and friends. Hugs, Joyce

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by pldc 16 Jul 2015

thank you Joyce ~hugs~

I, too, will be praying for you and your friends. Lillian had such good advice. Remember, your heart is aching, too.
Cindy

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Cindy......hugs

Loralye, this is such a sad happening. I will add them to our prayer list at church and my prayers also. There is nothing to be said except, "I'm sorry". Just being there to listen and cry with them is something that helps, though nothing can ease the pain. Please know that you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Haley thank you so very much

Hugs and prayers for you and all involved in this terrible nightmare.
Hugs, Nadyne

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Nadyne thank you so much

My sincere condolences.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

Prayers are sent to the family and friends, too

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so very much

Prayers to you, your friends family, and all of those mourning such a terrible loss.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

Something like this hurts the lives of many and makes if difficult to respond the hurt is great to those even reading of this news. Know I am uplifting this in prayer asking for comfort, guidance, mending of hearts,strength etc. Trusting each and everyone hurt by this to be wrapped in Gods arms.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Mary just what is needed, thank you so much

Oh my God, What a terrible thing to have happen I'm so sorry, I will pray for all of you.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

Keeping you all in my prayers - I imagine that just being there for your friends and trying to help out with practical chores that they themselves may be too stunned to cope with at present is probably more helpful than words.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much.....too many of us there underfoot so I am home

How terrible!! Prayers are with you all.. Suzanne

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Suzanne

Absolutely horrifying! So many of life's struggles fade into insignificance after reading this. So many other sad stories among those who have commented, as well :( Thinking of you all in these tragic circumstances.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much my friend

Such sad news, my heart goes out to both yourself and your friend and her family.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Marian thank you so much

I am so deeply sorry for all of you, and your loss. I don't know what to say to help, as I guess there is really nothing you can say. Unfortunately, this happens all too often and over and over again. My husbands niece was killed by her husband and then he killed himself. Why do they have to take others, if they are so miserable and don't want to live? It's always the same state of mind, 'If I can't have her, no one can'. Unfortunately too, restraining orders are often just a piece of paper, useless. Live through it, you will, but life will be forever changed. I really am terribly saddened to hear this and know all of you need our prayers.-Toogie

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

we will never know & I too am sorry for your loss Toogie....so much heartache

Praying. So very sorry for the loss of lives and the heartache and pain it has caused to so many.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Nancy

You are all in my prayers.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

I have listened to my girlfriend & her sister-in-law & the dad I am drained but I listened & passed on all of these prayers........................thank you all for your support it helps get us through knowing so many really pray for all concerned

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by pldc 14 Jul 2015

I am drained...........

My pastor believes and tells families where suicide is involved that the person could not have been in his/her right mind and cannot be held responsible. Just in a terrible place of deep desolation. I am so sorry for their loss and will be praying for that family to hold their heads up and send their prayers to God so they can survive this terrible blow.

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by pldc edited 15 Jul 2015

Betsy you are so right but it feels surreal. I keep checking my phone for her to text me just waiting to wake up & see that it was only a nightmare but.........

My thoughts and prayers are with all at this very sad time. Such a terrible time for all, words cannot express how deep our sympathy is for you at this very difficult time. God Bless. Sandra.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Sandra thank you so much

What terrible news. I can only begin to think just what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Hugs Shirley

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Shirley thank you so very much

This is such sad news. I can understand not knowing what to say, as I do not have any words. I pray God holds you all in love and peace.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Christine

Dear Loralye, I'm just running out the door. I can't believe this! Prayers and loving thoughts being sent your way to you and all the families concerned. Love Chris

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Chris, we need them

You have my prayers. Words are insufficient, just be there.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Jerrilyn.....

Loralye my heart aches for this family at this tragic time. All you can do is be there for your friends. They will need your support not only now but for a very long time to come. Hugs Marg

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Marg I try thank you so much

Oh Loralye my heart goes out o you and your friend my eyes are leaking reading your post many hugs....soozie

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Soozie thank you so much for your support

I am so sorry for you friend and family. Prayers for them and for you too.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Teresa thank you so much

This is terrible! I can not imagine loosing a child in this manner. I think a lot of girls 25 yrs. and under are in abusive relationships and fail to get help and it they try to break up, the boy thinks if I can't have her no one will have her. We as a society have some very sick young people out there. All I can say is to be there for your friends helping them in any way you can. Even helping them pick out clothes for the funeral as all this is most difficult being in the state of shock. Kay

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

her last text to me said she was so very happy..........& that makes this so much harder to understand

There is nothing you can say that will make a difference right now. Just be there and hug your friend. Let her know you are praying and have ask for other prayers. That's abput it right now. Maybe later you can come to terms with things, like the family. Your Cuties ate with you.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

that's awful, words are not enough for such a tragedy......I'm so sorry for your friend. prayers for all.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Gerry

thank you all so very much for your heartfelt prayers...........they bring comfort to us now in our time of crisis

A prayer for God's peace and calm spirit withing you as only he can do. Get alone with Him and tell Him exactly how you feel, the turmoil, the anger, the heart ache, the sorrow,He hears and understands. This is such an injustice, every emotion you feel, tell Him about it ./Lillian

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Lillian I have my faith & it is strong & I know that he hears what is in my heart. Many moments of my daily life are to give thanks to him for all I am

How horrible. It just leaves me speechless.
Hugs to you and prayers for all.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

Loralye, Such a senseless tragedy. I am praying for God's love and comfort for all of you. So sorry to hear of this. Hugs, Mary

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

yes it really is Mary & thank you so much

My prayers go out all of you who are experiencing personal tragedies. My God hold you in his hands.
Jan B

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Jan

I will keep you in my thoughts, we lost our first born 5 yrs ago to suicide and we are still trying to deal with it. My granddaughter is 7 now (his only child, my only grand) Minute by minute to find peace.

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by pldc 14 Jul 2015

I am truly sorry for your loss & saddened to see so many have suffered too

by jrob 14 Jul 2015

I, too, am so very sorry for your loss. Suicide is a cruel thief.

by hart 14 Jul 2015

HUGS and Prayers!

I AM SO SORRY.IT IS SUCH A TRAGETY..I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND HER FAMILEY. OUR FRIENDS SON MURDERED HIS X GIRFRIEND.HE IS IN JAIL NOW.I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.WHAT DO YOU SAY.I JUST PRAYED FOR HER.I AM SO SORRY..LUCY

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

THANK YOU LUCY SO VERY MUCH

I will keep all of youns in my Prayers, hoping God sends Peace to all concerned. Hugs, Judy...

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Judy

There are no words that I can write down about this sad news. i can only send you and everybody involved a big hug and will put you all ( everybody who had such a tragedy in their lives) I will put you in my prayers. Xxx linda

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Linda

may He be with u all in a very difficult time were there will be more questions than answers my prayers for u

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much & right now that is all we have.............more questions

Oh, Loralye........my heart breaks at this news.....bless you for trying to give your support........cry with them, it is part of the process.....such a tradgedy.......

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much

sending prayers for all concerned, suck a tragedy
hugs
Michelle

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Michelle thank you so much

So, so very sad...I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers...such a difficult time for everyone...

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you Kim so much

Oh Loralye what a ghastly thing to happen. My thoughts are with you all. I am so sorry. Hugs Sarah.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so much Sarah

That is so sad. Sending prayers to you and this girl's family.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Lynn thank you so much & his too I hope....

Loralye, the only thing you can say and do is prayers for everyone, including yourself and to let your friends know that you are there for them. Adding you all to my prayer list. May God be with you and your friends during this difficult time. Hugs to you.

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

thank you so very much

My prayers are being said that all may find comfort and peace. There are so many questions when something like this happens. I lost my son tragically in February, and still ask "Why?". Hugs! Cheri

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by tilde01 14 Jul 2015

Hugs and prayers for you also.

by pldc 14 Jul 2015

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TOO, it is heartbreaking

by designgirl 14 Jul 2015

So sorry for the loss of your son.Prayers for you and your family,also .

by brittanycooper 14 Jul 2015

God works in his own way. We don't know why. But faith is important.

by jrob 14 Jul 2015

Cheri, I'm so sorry. I know your heart is broken.

by cfidl 14 Jul 2015

God bless!

by hart 14 Jul 2015

Thank you for kindness and prayers. Cheri

This is such shocking news, the worst that could happen to any parent. You are all in my prayers.
Yesterday a friend's daughter was buried after she jumped of an apartment building last week - at her daughter's birthday. Everyone is still in shock, but this is even worse.

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by dailylaundry 14 Jul 2015

Oh, Martine - how sad..... how does a daughter manage after having that that happen at her birthhday party? Bless her heart!

by pldc 14 Jul 2015

oh wow such a tragedy I am so sorry to hear this news as well I pray for you & all concered

by jrob 14 Jul 2015

Oh, my, goodness. What torment she must have been living in to end her life in such a tragic way.

Oh my, Loralye - how horrid. This would be a parents worse nightmare - your friend, their family and you are in my prayers. Such sadness. Hugs to you, Laura*

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by pldc 15 Jul 2015

Laura thank you so much I really appreciate all the love & support from our cutie family