Can anyone explain dreams? Last night I had a dream that My SIL was having us over for Christmas Dinner. My husband had been away and was going to meet me there. When I got there he was already there but wouldn't talk to me. Eventually when he did talk he told me that he wanted a divorce. Now all of this to me is stupid as we had a really great marriage with no arguments. He never went away without me and My Darling Husband passed away 9.5 years ago. I woke up crying and have felt down all day. I have just lit a scented candle to make myself feel better.

What I'm getting, it was about the fact that you can't communicate with him right now and so it feels like divorce or separateness. Is that the pain you are feeling? Dreams can heal. I regretted that I had never danced with my previous DH and he suddenly died after six months' marriage. When he was gone a few weeks, I dreamed he came into our bedroom, got me up out of the bed and danced, holding me close. So, I got my dance and got over that regret. The other weird dream I had, I was sick in bed, and he came and sat patiently in the chair watching over me. When I awoke (in the dream) he silently got up and left the room. I never dreamed about him again. I thought he was just checking to be sure I was going to be okay. Both these memories still fill me with awe.

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by mi30kaja 21 Aug 2016

Funny you should mention not being able to communicate with him. My communication was either a dream or his favourite song coming on in the car as I drove. My car radio is down and I can not hear this song as I drive. Maybe I am thinking of that .

I agree with Lucy12345. I know you are missing your handsome hubby very much and miss talking to him. Remember to wonderful memories you have that bring a smile to your beautiful face. i know your hubby would not want you to be depressed.

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by mi30kaja 21 Aug 2016

I met him when I was 18. We were not interested in one another. Married others and then came back together in 1984. They were the best years of my life.

Maybe you were just feeling that you are divorced from him because he has been gone from you for so long????
It is difficult to be separated from the ones we love, or even ones we once loved (ex husband, partner, friend)
I often dream of my first husband, he passed away 16 years ago but we separated 10 years before that. He was a major disruptive force in my life and my dreams still have the power to hurt.
Our minds play tricks on us and sometimes there is no explanation for our subconscious thoughts when they rise to the surface.

If you feel it could mean something more significant you could try concentrating your mind specifically on your husband, just before you go to sleep, asking the questions you need answered.

But remember, no matter what you dream, they are just dreams and subject to dozens of interpretations
hugs n roses, Meganne.

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by mi30kaja 21 Aug 2016

Thank You Meganne. I am glad that so many of you understand. Only wish we had married when I first met him way back in1959.

I sometimes feel that dreams are the opposite of real life, so I think that is the case here. Just think good memories of your time together, and know what a wonderful man he was to you. Thinking of you

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by mi30kaja 21 Aug 2016

Thank You. Possibly I have been watching too much TV and have jumbled it all together and included my husband as I think of him all the time.