Congratulations on your Anniversary. Prayers for you and your husband during this difficult time. Susan
Continuing prayers for your dear husband. The head pain he must have makes me shutter as I have a brain malformation and the headaches are through the roof. Praying that he has times he can sleep through the pain and hope that the doctors are giving him all they can to help him through this difficult aspect of a very wicked disease. Your husband has a love and faith in Christ and he will be blessed, for enduring these trials and afflictions. I truly believe he will get to see glimpses into the families lives after he passes. Please continue to talk and share with him even if it does not seem he can hear you as the hearing is the last thing to go. Then once he is past over, continue to talk and share with him, as you never know what moments he will be right there with you, just on the other side of the veil. It will help you and continue the conversations you would have spent 52 years developing together. Death is not the end. The veil has just been pulled over our earthly eyes. I believe he will have opportunities to see his dear Lerrah at special times in her life, as well as knowing how she has treasured the time she has had with you both in her life. Letting a loved one go, is so difficult and my hope is that he can feel that you can let him go. My heart aches for what you both are going through. The scriptures say that these trials will be but for a moment and we will be blessed but oh how difficult of a time you are both going through. Please know that all of the Cuties who are reading your posts and praying for your family, we each are sending virtual hugs to help buoy you up so you can endure this most difficult of trials. (((Hugs))) and continuing prayers. Pam
You have said some things I never thought about - that God will allow him to glimpse us at special times. That would be wonderful. Also, he was not in pain at all from his brain tumors - only the last 5 days was he in pain - and Hospice kept him comfortable most of the time. I guess it was the type of tumor that makes a difference - glioblastomia doesn't usually hurt because the meds he was given kept the swelling down - the fluid swelling is what would have caused the pain. For that I am very thankful. Thank you for writing and caring!!
I've just prayed for you and your darling husband. I can't imagine what you must be experiencing. We are here if you need to vent, talk, cry. There's almost always a cutie online. Use this resource if you want or need to. Gentle hugs and hopes for some sweet memories to take you through the coming days.
Patricia thinking positive thoughts for both of you
Please pray a special prayer for husband today - he is in a lot of pain. Thank you all for all you have done for us. - Patricia
prayers are with you both.
I lost my husband of 50 years June 17th.
I wish i had my husbands voice on tape I would do almost anything to hear him say anything, I never thought of it when he was so sick I wouldn't have did it so knew . God be with you both
I am So sorry for your loss - I have recorded him some since he was sick but it isn't the same as when he was well. He just asks me to let him go - was told today he has a month at most.
Father God, Jesus' name is above every name and every knee shall bow and every tongue shall confess Jesus Christ is Lord To Your glory Father. By the authority of the name and the blood of Jesus Christ we command cancer to bow down to the Lord Jesus Christ. Father I ask that if they do not know Your Son as Savior and Lord, that Holy Spirit draw them to a personal relationship with Jesus, all for Your Glory Father, In Jesus Name
All you ladies are just amazing. Thank you so much for the prayers and support. Thank you for taking the time to respond and to pray for him. I will always remember this!!
May God be with you & give you both strength at such a difficult time
So sorry to hear this. Life is not always fair to us but I am satisfied that God is in control and gives us the Grace we need to meet our trials and troubles with Him by our side. You and your husband are now in my prayers. /Lillian
My heart goes out to you, it has to be a hard day. I hate cancer for taking our loved ones. Hang in there, I'm praying right now for you.
Hugs, Jan
There is at least one gift that comes with a terminal cancer diagnosis, and that is time to realize what is coming and have time to share and consider that. There is some grace in that gift of time, and of knowing. More hugs.
God bless you and your husband. Congrats on 52 years of marriage.
I love graceandham's idea of getting your sweet husband to record some of his favorite memories for you to listen to, for when he is no longer here physically with you, though I doubt he will never be far from your heart and thoughts of every day. If you have voice mail on your phone keeping a phone call message on it also would be treasured. For both of these be sure to make back up recordings as it seems like things tend to happen and messages are then lost, so please have these backed up like you would your embroidery programs. I hope you have an enjoyable day together for your special day and hoping that he will be as pain free as possible in the coming weeks and possibly months. Only the Lord knows his plan for both of you. Please continue to be reassured that both of you will be remembered by many of the Cuties here who faithfully remember their fellow Cutie's in need. Bless you both for the many years you both worked together to create such an awesome milestone together. Pam
Happy Anniversary, you two Love Birds and congratulations. I think you should start celebrating monthly anniversaries of the date you got married. Have you thought of recording his voice before it is lost to you! Just get him to tell some simple memories of Christmas or family times. Blessings on you both.
He told me just a wk ago that he wanted me to record our precious little 11 yr old granddaughter's voice so he could listen to it. He cries very little over this but when he does it is "that he will miss our little Lerrah" .
Wishing you both a blessed anniversary. My thoughts are with you both at this time.
may the Lord hold you close to his heart in this difficult time and a blessing for the 52 years you had together
I hope your day has been one free of worry but filled with love. I know each day is now stressful, but please know you are not alone. We Cuties are here 24/7 praying and supporting. What a blessing and a gift to have managed 52 years!
Happy Anniversary....52 years is quite a milestone...praying for you both...
52 years this is quite an accomplishment, congratulations. I am so sorry to read of your husband & of course he is added to my prayer list
You are truly blessed to have shared 52 years with your sweetheart. Seeing him so sick must be devastating. I can't imagine. I'll pray for him for comfort and peace and for you to find joy in the journey and peace with his last days. I hope you are surrounded by family and friends that you can share with, laugh with, and lean on. Big hugs.
Happy Anniversary to you. My thoughts and Prayers go out to you both.
Hugs from Maureen in South Africa
Congratulation on your 52nd anniversary. The Lord will bless both of you with love and happiness.
Congratulations on such a remarkable 52nd wedding anniversary. May God bless you both and I pray that the precious time you have left together is full of love, wonderful memories and sharing your life with your family. Luv Chris
I wish you both a very happy 52nd wedding anniversary, many congratulations enjoy your precious time together. Prayers and best wishes to both of you. Sandra (australia ).
Happy Anniversary! How amazing that you have been with your sweet husband for 52 wonderful years! I'll say a prayer for the both of you.
Caryn