Today I will think about my husband, Blackie. It has been three years since he passed. Greif is tough. I find myself more understanding and caring of others. We gave each other the greatest gift, Love. I think about what he wanted for me. I continue to receive and recognize signs from him and others. The signs are peaceful to me.

Agreed. It is wonderful to have folks thinking about you especially when dealing with grief.

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you. I feel I will always deal with the grief but I am becoming a better person through it all.

Praying for peace and comfort. God bless you.

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you for your prayers.

You are a strong woman. Maybe the love for each other helped you be so sensitive to others and given you this strength. I know time is nothing when you grieve, but it hard for me to believe its been 3 years already. May your days continue to be better and better. -Toogie

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thanks Toogie. I am so much stronger today than three years ago. Hugs, Suzanna

Suzanna, reading your post gave me such a special blessing. I truly believe that our loved ones who have passed away visit us all the time. As you say you receive these affirmations in people you meet and it makes my soul sing with joy when I read of the love you had for each other. What a wonderful lifetime of memories you made together and how beautiful it is that you can share your story with us. God bless you and may He continue to give you peace. Love Chris

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you for those beautiful words. I really feel I can open up feelings to my Cute friends. On cute I am not judged. I love the positive reinforcement from all Cuties. Grief is hard, love is forever. Love, Suzanna

Suzanna, what sweet remembrance of your love for your Blackie. You are a diamond and although you've been under great pressure in, and past your loss, you still shine. Big hugs to you!

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you. I try to shine, even more now than ever.

Suzanna......I am so impressed by how in tune you are to recognizing the continuing love and care you feel from Blackie...it speaks volumes about your life together and the love you shared and continue to share.....Blessings on you as you reminisce........

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you so much.

I hope today you will be blessed with more peace and more love. Your courage, strength and devotion are a beautiful reflection of the love you have for each other -- especially now. You inspire me to be stronger and to find peace and happiness no matter where I am. I am certain you inspire others as well. Thank you for your example of love.
Hugs!

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you for your beautiful words.

Oh, Suzanne - wonderful to read you have recognized signs from him. But grief does have a way of creeping up on you - however, I think at some point gratitude overtakes it somewhat. How blessed you were be married to Blackie. Lots of love to you!! Hugs, Laura

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

I like that, gratitude. That is what it is coming to be. Thank you

There are certain days we think more about the loved ones we have lost. I hope you can remember the good times and look back on them not with sadness but with a smile. Hugs

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you. Lots of smiles today.

I hope your day is full of all of the happy memories you had together...and all of those special moments when you know he is with you, guiding you and watching over you...

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you. Thoughts of many good memories today.

Have a day of happy memories. So glad you are gleaning the lessons in your grief. You are moving forward into something new.

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Yes It has been a real learning experience. Thank you.

Praying you find comfort in your wonderful memories of that love. Sending hugs as you continue in what he would have wanted for you.

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

His words for me gave me courage. Thank you.

Patience is the best healing practice. God bless you

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

I shall practice patience more. Thank you

You are so strong and correct in remembering what he wanted for you. Be proud of yourself and I hope you manage to find something to do that you enjoy in memory of your beloved Blackie.

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you. It was a pretty good day.

Suzanna, you are right, out of sight but not out of heart. he will always keep that special place, and you will always feel and see his love in many special things. Hugs for you )))))

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you

Today was my grandma's birthday and although she died in 1974 I always think of her this day. So I can understand that this day is special to you. Happy memories, I am thinking of you.

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you. Thinking about you too.

Suzaanna thinking of you

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by sebsews 30 Jan 2018

Thank you