Almost 3 weeks since my Darling Hubby of 54 years passed away.
Still finding it hard even though we knew this would happen. We had an extra 20 months together which we made the most of. He got to see his first Great Grand Child which made him happy. He phoned me just after midnight from the hospital to ask if I was coming to visit that day and then by 7 am had slipped into a coma. At 9pm he was gone from me forever. He never complained was always so concerned about everyone else. He would have been 75 on the 4th of July.
29726
I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. May The Lord keep comforting you. I know you miss your husband, he sounds like he was a wonderful man. God be with you I pray. lvU
7630
26116320244Sorry Barb, I just now read this. Such sad news. Please know you are in my prayers - no words can take away such pain. I send you many hugs and love and my prayers, Laura
96261Barb, I am so sorry your husband is no longer by your side. Grief is so hard and you are still in the early stages. Things are going to be hard, there are lots of adjustments to be made continually. I have gone through the hardest of grief in my life in losing my son. and I can tell you this, Love never dies. Love lasts forever. You will make it through one day at a time, even though that sounds trite, that its what you do. Every day you get up and you just do the best you can. After a while, probably a long while, you will have memories that make you smile and not cry. Love never dies, and you can depend on that.
59631My condolences and a prayer for you. I do not know what happens after. however I have hope that the love we share never goes away.
173690I am so sorry to hear this! It must be so difficult for you. Know that we all care and pray for you.
145302Barb, I am so sorry for the loss of your DH. Words can not express the emotions that you are going through right now. Just know that the Cutie family are holding you and your family up, ready and willing to support you ( even when you don't know we are.) full of caring and comfort. Hugs.
14637I am so sorry to hear of your dear hubbys passing. Your 54 years of memories will always remain in your heart. We Cuties will always give you caring heartfelt condolences and inspiration. Cuties were there for me and I am so appreciative to all of Cuties. I am glad he was able to see the first great grand child. My brother born July 4th always said the fireworks was a celebration for him. Keep us updated and God Bless you, Suzanna
18140Barb, I'm so very sorry. I know that words can't heal but know that the love behind them is sincerely meant. Please come here anytime you want, and share your happy remembrances or let us hold you up in your tearful moments. May you feel God's arms around you.
1 comment
15871411271My heart goes out to you. Thank the Lord I cannot imagine what you are going through but I hope you are finding comfort in our Lord's arms.
Lynne in Australia
1 comment
2023So sorry for your loss...I lost my Husband to Covid in September and still cannot realize that life has changed so drastically. Faith and Family will get us through. Prayers for you and yours.
V. Unger
3 comments
by babash
28 Jun 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. I feel for you having something happen so fast like Covid. We at least as a family knew we were on borrowed time and had the opportunity to do what we wanted with the time we had.
by toogie
30 Jun 2021
V Unger , I am sorry you lost your husband too. Covid has claimed many, I’m sorry to say and Cancer too. You both have my sympathy.
by arisann
06 Jul 2021
Sympathy and love to you in your sorrow. I hate covid and what it has done to you and so many others. May God be with you an enfold you in His arms . Lv to you n prayers.
36sorry for your loss, he will always have that special place in your heart. And how wonderful he was able to see his first grand child. keep these lovely memories in mind. i'm sure he will watch over you from above. Hugs and prayers are coming your way ...
1 comment
743266I'm sure you are heart broken and no amount of time will make that go away. I'm glad that he was able to meet his first Great Grand Child and that he had that joy.
1 comment
33641I am so sorry for your loss, I, too, have been through that. Mine was 8 yrs ago, and I still look to see if he is coming into the house...My Prayers and thoughts are with you, it will take some time, but every so often, you will feel better... Hugs and Prayers are coming your way!...from Judy...
1 comment
by babash
28 Jun 2021
Thank you. Yes I know what you mean. I looked at the clock the other day and thought better do something about getting our lunch ready as he will come looking for me at 10 to 12 as he always did. And to see what I was sewing or making and giving me encouragement if I needed it.
92391So very sorry to hear of your dear husband’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family
1 comment
255048My heart breaks for you to hear this sad news. I know your world will never be the same. But what wonderful memories you have to hold near and dear to your heart. Thank you so much for sharing these treasures. Don't be afraid to reach out to us when you need a loving word. how i wish we could give you real hugs, but know we are sending many prayers and cyber hugs your way.
1 comment
169064My sympathy to you and the family... SO hard to lose the one you love. it takes time to grieve and find a new normal. At least he got to see the great grandchild. take care and we are all here if you need us. Prayers for you and the family.
1 comment
111372So sad to hear this, Barb...my love and condolences to you and your family...so glad he got to see his great grand child...
1 comment
318398Oh! Barb, I'm so sorry, I've got tears in my eyes reading your post. I'm so glad you got to spend those extra wonderful months together and that he saw his first Great Grand Child. I hope you know that we are hugging you in your grief and can only pray that you can remember all the wonderful times you had in those 54 years together. My sincerest sympathy to you and the family, love Chris
1 comment
by babash
28 Jun 2021
Thanks Chris. At least my son from WA was able to see him on his last day. If it was to happen now it would be impossible with all the borders being shut to each other.
234478So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear hubby. It is so hard to lose a loved one. I lost a dear brother 2 weeks ago. We laid him to rest last Tuesday. Please take care and look after yourself. Hugs
1 comment
526862339Knowing ahead of time and being prepared of it does not make it any less painful. It is the finality of it all. I am glad you had the extra time together and hopefully he was not in too much pain. Maybe he waited to see his Great Grand Child. In my mind I am wrapping my arms around you and ask God that he send you the strength needed. Hugs
1 comment
by babash
28 Jun 2021
He kept the pain from me until the end wouldn't take the pain killers Dr prescribed he was so positive that he would beat this thing that he didn't want to get addicted to them.
109774Barb my heart goes out to you. I hate to imagine being in your place. I hope you feel the love I’m trying to express and find comfort in knowing we care about you. So sorry for your loss.
1 comment
109779I will be praying for you in the months ahead as you enter this new life without his daily presence. I'm proud of you that you made the most of your time together, as that is the best we all can do with our time. And so happy that the parents of that new baby will remember that he was there, then. Each day, fewer tears and more sweet memories, that is my prayer for you and all the family.
1 comment
66905So sorry to hear your sad news. Remember the great times that you had together. How good that you were able to meet your first Great Grandchild together what a achievement. Take care
1 comment
115738