by 02kar Moderator 20 May 2023

Hello everyone. I have now completed 11 of my 25 scheduled radiation treatments. I am having no issues with the treatments. And the staff and doctor have all been supportive and wonderful. I have been struggling with severe vertigo that is not related with the treatments. I have had this condition for almost 10 years, and it is because I am living in a new situation and having to assimilate new focal points for my brain. Rob and I are slowly retraining my brain and it's getting easier to get around. And I am managing to eat more and depending less on Ensure. Rob, my extraordinaire caregiver, has been tirelessly managing to get food into me, keeping me hydrated and where I need to be in spite of my fatigue and vertigo.

We have been meeting and praying with so many amazing people. They inspire me with their courage and experiences. As my husband said the other day, it has changed from dying from cancer to living with cancer now. And they do live. We have learned these folks live and laugh and love every day. And there is always someone to give a smile, advice and support.
We have been adopting anyone in the facility who does not have a caregiver and doing what we can for the staff.
We have been told that when I finish radiation, I will need chemo, but it will be every 3 weeks. And I will lose my hair. Again! I lost it after surviving covid pneumonia so not new territory. But I will get more info Thursday when I have the 2nd and last dose of chemo that goes with the radiation treatments.
BTW, I did have a good birthday. I laughed when my hubby handed me a KitKat bar with the flavor Birthday Cake. And the radiation staff all wished me a happy birthday. I call them my lifeline.
Because of my vertigo, I will continue to update once a week. So, I will wish a very happy birthday to all Cuties who will have a birthday this upcoming week.

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by tonilee 30 May 2023

God bless you

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by basketkase 29 May 2023

Oh my goodness, Karen.....it is so wonderful to hear from you!!! I have been kinda MIA a bit here as well so missed this posting by you. I am so proud of how strong you have been through this whole ordeal and know that Rob and prayers have also supported you along the way. Keep up the positive vibes and will continue my prayers for you........Much love...

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by airyfairy 29 May 2023

I have not been on the site for a while but how wonderful to see your post. I am thrilled that you sound so “perky” and more thrilled to hear that you are doing so well. You are just an inspiration to us all.
Love to you, special lady.

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by cfidl 23 May 2023

Prayers and hugs.

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by pennifold 23 May 2023

Thanks so much Karen for your PM. I pray that you will keep your great sense of humour and love of life. I'm thinking of you and what you have and are going through.

You are one very special lady. God bless you and Rob and thanks for your concern and prayers too. Love Chris

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by sebsews 22 May 2023

Karen, I often think of you and always praying for you and of course your extraordinaire caregiver! You always look for the light and look for the joy
under the most difficult circumstances. You are blessed. Sending hugs and flowers, Suzanna.

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by jrob Moderator edited 22 May 2023

We are praying daily for you. I'm so excited to hear that the radiation isn't causing you any more issues!

I'm glad that you are able to eat some, but what a wonderful caregiver you have in Rob to "ensure" you are taking in much needed calories to let your body heal.

Losing your hair seems like a big deal, until you hear you have cancer, right? Maybe we can sign you up to do shampoo commercials next year and show off your beautiful locks.

Keep looking up, I know where your strength comes from. Love you dear friend!

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by loriziegler 21 May 2023

Sending loads of prayers to you! Your strength and positivity are incredible! We will all look forward to all of this being in your rearview!

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by sdrise 21 May 2023

Glad to see you can post here again. That is an improvement. You and Rob are in my prayers . Take it from me the hair grows back. better than before. I am happy you are not getting any reactions from the radiation. Before you know it this will all be behind you. Hugs to both of you. Suzanne.

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by mary51 21 May 2023

Hi Karen, apologies for my absence. I just read your message and I'm glad to hear that you have a supportive husband. May God bless you both.

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by maleah 21 May 2023

Dear Karen, My hubby has finished his chemo and on Opdivo or a year - We are blessed that he has been cancer free...God has given us the strength to muddle through. You and your family will be in my prayers too.

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by dailylaundry 20 May 2023

Oh Karen - I just read this - having been so thinking about you and sending prayers your way. It is so good that the radiation treatments haven't been too bad - they should stay that way! Your positive attitude is wonderful and you are lifting up so many people around you!! Thank you - thank you for the update!! Hugs to you and your extraordinaire caregiver!!! Laura

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by dragonflyer 20 May 2023

Good news Karen... glad your treatments are working well.

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by graceandham 20 May 2023

So good to read all this and know how to pray. That vertigo of yours is like an unruly attention-grabbing two year old that acts up at the most inappropriate times. So glad you have a good guide who knows how to help you thru all this, plus good medical teams. I hope the time flies as you finish this up and get back to "normal".

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by toogie 20 May 2023

Glad to hear the treatments aren’t making you sick. I haven’t felt good yesterday or today. I told hubby may be my vertigo. I’m trying to pin point what’s wrong but I just feel bad.🤷‍♀️Head not right and kinda nauseous. Rooms not spinning but tried to sit on the porch with hubby and his rocking made me sick.🙄

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by gerryvb 20 May 2023

Karen, so good to read how everything is going and how wonderful you have Rob as your caregiver. great you had such a lovely birthday. Keep the faith, you will be in prayers and thank you for the update. Hugs/love, Gerry

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by asterixsew Moderator 20 May 2023

Karen thanks for the update. You always sound so positive. Glad you enjoyed your birthday and great to hear the treatment is near the end

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by dlonnahawkins 20 May 2023

Karen, you have a great support system. Having had to go through this with my husband (he had 45 treatments) and the chemo dosages, I know what you and hubby are going through. I found that the radiologist and his staff were great, and always supportive. Many of the other patients that we met and conversed with were very optimistic and gave us hope that we could make it through all of it.
Hoping the best for you and your great supportive husband.

Hugs

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by rescuer Moderator 20 May 2023

Hug your husband, thank the staff, and keep living! I know that vertigo can't help your appetite. You remain in my prayers.

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