prayers send for both of you.
yes is is hard to understand that both of you suffer the same.
Sometimes I wonder if it is not the "air" or something in our food that trigger all these things..
You are in my thoughts and prayers and of course, your husband is too. You have so much on your plate - much more than any couple should go through. Please keep us updated!!
Bless you. That's a lot to even try to think about. I will continue praying for you and add him into my prayers as well. Ask lots of questions.