How do you know what # you are when you vote for Cute??

Let me be the first to say, I have no idea. I thought I was voting because I read that all you had to do was go into "Enter This Site" and then leave. But then I read that you need to click on Cute, so have been doing that for a coupla months now, hope I am doing it correctly! The #'s don't seem to change! *2U, Gramsbear.