For those that were wondering what do some people refer to when they write PM. It is the private messages. Upps, should have specified earlier.

yes make sure you are in private do not do my boo boo that i did a couple of days ago lol

at the top of this Q&A area there are 2 tabs one says public the other private if there is a number in the private that means there is a message for you click on the private tab and you will see the message and who sent it to you. It is right above all the questions cuties submit. It is directly above the sort by, which is directly above the cuties icons (avatars)