It just takes practice and exploring the site to find all of the ins and outs of it. Looks like you got some very good directions for the private messaging.
Crickets r not dumb & considered very lucky n some countries. Welcome to cutes cricket, I can tell by your no. of flowers U have already met a lot of us. We're very glad to have u. I see Mary has already contacted u, so heres another * 4U
Cricket, when you click on Mary's name, it'll take you to a page with her questions, and also her profile. The profile will be waaaaayyyy down the page, at the bottom of the questions. There will be a box saying 'private message' just under her name in the profile, click on it and you can PM her. But remember to scroll way way down, because it's at the END of the question list. Hope this helps, Marji
It never hurts to ask. The only dumb question are the ones that overly proud folks are ashamed to ask. Ask away we all like to help. *4U If you type in her name where it says "search for members" it will take you to her profile.
With this message, I'll bet she will contact you when she reads the message.
But, if you click on her icon, (picture that is by her name and flower number) it should take you to her profile, I think. Hope it works. *4U, tried it, it didn't work, maybe someone will actually help you! Sorry.