I have been blessed with family and friends that have all given me so much support at this time. I sit here trying to type thru my tears...I thought I had cried them all out....But please know that I have felt the love and support from YOU my cute family. THANX for your overwhelming kindness. I even put up the site to show the kids the posts that you have left for us. I can't tell you THANX enough. Barb
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Barb, My heart aches 4 u, just continue to let God b your comforter. cuddle up next to him, talk to him, tell him everything u feel n your heart, He will assuage the hurt & pain of your loss. U & your family continue n my prayers. Lillian
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11814Barb, please know that my arms and heart are wrapped around you and your family and are in my prayers. Know that all the Cute family is here for you, just to talk or listen.
46153Dear Barb. I can only say that Meganne is right. You can not avoid the grieving process. I can only pray that when one family member has a melt down that another one is able to comfort. Friends and family know that it is not weakness that brings you to tears. So grief dear sister, be angry for feeling abandoned and eventually you will be able to talk about all the memories the two of you have made with a smile in your heart. He would want it that way. Hugs Angie
109774Oh Barb, my heart aches for you and your family. Each loved one we lose brings a different kind of pain, but the pain is never lessoned, just different.
Losing your life partner, your companion and best friend feels like someone has cut the very heart out of you and cut your legs off at the knees.
Yes, i've been there, twice and all i can offer is that the pain does eaze, it takes a long time, but it does eaze.
Don't hold in your grief my friend, let it take you when you need to let go, just let it go.
Throw a tantrum, yell and scream. Find a pillow you can vent your feelings on, you need to do this, you need to let it all out, and then you need to let that go and try and get on with your life because your family needs you, now more than ever.
You will feel great anger, even with your beloved so please don't feel guilty, it is part of the process you will need to accept so you can heal.
If/when you need someone to talk to, to write to, to say anything you want to get off your chest, write me, I promise you ,I will understand how you feel and there will be no reprimand or judgement. meg_leo2000@yahoo.com
We will get you through this, as best we can in abstentia. We are all here for you and we send you all the love and support we can send across the miles, from our hearts to yours.
love and understanding, Meganne
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by meganne
13 Nov 2008
My daily prayer may help you get through these early days, Barb, it has been my comfort through my whole life as each line gives greater comfort in different times of need.
Right now you will find great strength and comfort in just the first line, whenever your resolve weakens, just repeat it over and over again until you find your strength returning.
God grant me the Serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change..
And if at first it doesn't help, throw a tantrum, then try again, seriously!
122864My thoughts have been with you today. There really is not much we can say - but please know that you are loved here at cute and you are in our prayers.
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18727Barb, I need u to know that my heart is breaking for u, to loose your best friend is something i cannot possibly comprehend. Try to hold onto those very precious memories as he holds you in his heart and is watching over you with tears in his eyes and pain in his heart seeing you going through such pain. To you and your children i send all the love and support i possibly can - you are constantly in my thoughts XXXXOOOOO
2796Barb for you and your children - know we love you and will continue to pray for you throught you difficult times:
Death
leaves a
heartache
only God can heal
Love leaves a
memory
no one can
steal!
211079My prayers are with you. We lost my mother in law the same way and although it was hard on us for loosing her so suddenly we took solace in knowing that she did not suffer
76409Barb, You and your family are in my thoughts and Prayers. I pray God will give you strength, peace, and family close to you. Hugs. Judy
92391Prayers continue for you and your family. We will always be here for you.
62461My prayers are with you and your family. I pray you will soon know the peace that God, his son, and the holy spirt will give you. Be good to yourself and know that it is alright and natural to grieve. We love you and we will continue to pray for you and your family.
5329Barb, when you need us, close your eyes and feel our arms around you and our prayers covering you.
158716I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and the pain you must be feeling. The suddenness adds an element of shock to also deal with. This is so painful to everyone who has lost someone so close and special. I pray that God will be with you, and help you through this time. The support of friends and family is so special and important.
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20582Oh, Barb, it doesn't get harder than this! Take all the support you can get, and don't be ashamed of the never-ending tears. I'm crying with you right now, probably getting salt in the laptop. I love you, my sister in grief. Marji
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33451stay strong God is there and he is listening to your prayers. I know he sends angels to watch over us.May he bless you and your family.
4292May all our thoughts help you through this sorrowful time! Hugs Salsabil
14775My prayers, love and support go out to you and your family. Stay strong in your faith....God loves you.
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145304My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. God Bless!
7384We all have tears for you. I hope something is said in the service to give you some comfort. He is with God now. We all care about you and please ask us if we can help even if it's to talk to some one. We love you. Kay
85867What would we do Barb without all the love that comes from this marvelous family of Cutes...we all love you and have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers...stay strong..hugs xxxx
270713054May all of your wonderful memories help to heal your sorrow. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
3439It's hard to say something to comfort you at this terrible moment but you have a family here. You have to be strong for yourself and for your kids. My prayers are with you and my heart is crying for you my dear friend. Flower and XoXo
44254Praying that God will grant you and the children peace. We care, and we're here to listen, anytime.
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30391Dear Barb, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Be strong and let the tears just come when they are there. Hugs
58029I don`t know what to say, other than I am so so sorry. Try to be strong for your kids. You have been in my thoughts. Please remember we all care and worry about you....Hugs Michele
23265Dear Barb, there is little anyone can say or do to stop the tears they will come at many a different time, but just know we are all thinking of you in your time of sorrow. Keep your faith strong and close to your heart.God bless you and your family.
3459Just know that we are all here thinking of you and your family we are all sending you the strength you need to get through take care ************s4U
5120I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your family.
20498LOVE...STRENGTH...WARMTH...COME YOUR WAY...WE ARE ALL WRAPPING OUR ARMS AROUND YOU.....
34246Dear Barb, I wish there was words to comfort you this moment. I am praying you will be strong, for your kids too. Have faith, my dear friend. If you need anything at all, let me know. God bless you.
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