to how a dummy might figure it out?

Glad I could help you out! Isn't it just dreamy thread? The best part is even my machine likes it hip hip hooray!!!

I finally found it with a little help from Mischarlie..I finally just decided to put my this scissors under the thread I thought might be the one an followed it to the bottom...I got the right one...

get a magnifying glass out you will see the thread running down the side womewhere I have used at least 12 of my 34 spools so far and there have been a few the thread was closer to the bottom and tucked GL