Has anyone heard from geruvyme?
I've emailed, sent private message and heard nothing from her.....
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I don't know about her but I know what it is like to have a Mother with Cancer. Your time is not your own. but you spend your time doing everything you can for you Mother while you can.
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by meganne
09 Dec 2008
Both my parent died in my arms, so yes i know what that is like.
My Dad had polio at age 2 and didn't walk until he was 16 and then only with the aid of his 'Iron Legs' and crutches, in the last ten years of his life he was back in a wheelchair and died in my arms, 28 years ago, aged 69. My Mum couldn't cope with his loss so her health just kept deteriorating until 4 years ago when she finally gave in to be with Dad she was 20 years his junior.... Thankfully she was without pain in the end.
I currently have 90 y.o. MIL living with us under my full time care for the last 3 years.
MIL actually surprised me while I was laid up by boiling the jug and making me a cup of tea, she did ask if she had to take the lid off to pour the milk out of the container and couldn't remember where she put the sugar after she had breakfast, but on her good days we laugh about those things as she doesn't remember them...
She even tried to make a cuppa while Pauline (Nonna) was visiting, God bless her. She still has a sense of humour and we can laugh together about the silly things she says, some days.
Thankfully, she is reasonably healthy as she loves my healthy food and eats well, but she is incontinent, totally deaf without her hearing aids, has advancing dementia and is going blind. She is soon to have cattaracts removed from both eyes so we hope that will help improve her eyesight.
So, yes I do know what caring, full time, for family is all about.
hnr M
16513Her Mother's cancer has recurred, so perhaps she is with her.
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by stitchship
10 Dec 2008
That is so sad, I have too many loved ones that have died from cancer, even my dear sweet mom. I will be praying for them. Thanks for telling us.
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109774Mystery solved, now see why digitising Cuties get so upset.
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Meganne, I am very sorry. I think that is very rude of her. She used my design.She asked for it on the 29th/11/2008.
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I sent her the completed design at 3.30 AM on 1/12, Aussie time.
I had even worked on it while i was flat on my back in bed, after my hospital visit and she knew i was working on it as i had written to her several times, sending her progress reports and photos, she never even bothered to answer me... That makes me so mad.
She offered to pay for it and i would have only wanted her to make a donation to Breast Cancer research.
That really sucks!
I am going to post this message for everyone to see just how rude, uncaring and ungrateful some people can be.
Thanks for letting me know, that's another one who will never get help from me again!!!!!!
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44254I digitised this very complex design for her and sent it to her over a week ago and I have had no response, NOTHING!!!
WHERE ARE YOU LISA???
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by mariahail
09 Dec 2008
lets pray that her mother is ok, and that she is too, she will answer you, may circunstances on her live are preventing it from doing it, I know when my mother had cancer all I could do was to be there for her and think on ways to help her out.She went home to the Lord almost 4 years ago and Iam still missing her so much. Hugs.
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