by lflanders 07 Mar 2009

They have her on morphine trying to control the pain but are only giving her 2 to 3 months. Actually, from I am hearing,it does not sound like it will be that long. It just happened in overnight or she has known and has been hiding it from everyone. She did not want to have to have cemotherapy again. It made her deathly ill when all this happened before. This has been several years ago. We are all shocked and hurting for her. My DIL is not taking it well at all!!! She can not quit crying nor can she sleep or eat. Her Mom is also very sick but it's not her sisters mom. Thanks, Linda

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by clawton 09 Mar 2009

Sorry to hear that. Prayers will be with her.

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by tinfriend 09 Mar 2009

I will hold you ALL in my Thoughts and in my Prayers! *

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by marjialexa Moderator 08 Mar 2009

You & all your family & Pat are in my prayers. This is truly sad for everyone. I hope Pat can be as pain-free as possible. Please don't be upset with her for what she "should have done", doctors, chemo again, etc. Some of us have more fight than others, sometimes it's just not worth it. It was her decision, I pray your DIL can accept that, and help Pat thru this. Big hugs, Marji

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by blhamblen 08 Mar 2009

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers:)

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by jrob Moderator 08 Mar 2009

Linda, I am so sorry. There is lots of sorrow in this world. I can't imagine something happening to my precious sister. I will be praying for Pat and and for your DIL.

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by shirlener88 08 Mar 2009

Linda, I will include your DIL's sister to my prayer list. Shirlene

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by sandralochran 08 Mar 2009

My throughs are with you all Take Care

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by bunnylane 08 Mar 2009

I pray the lord will watch over her and her family.If tears could heal ther would be no sickness,may God Bless her family and all the cuties who need help.

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by grannyo 07 Mar 2009

I pray that things will smooth out for all. Your DIL needs to keep strong for her sister so that she can help her through this. It's such a tough time for all. Last year we spent the last 4 months of my husband's brother's life with him and it was one of the roughest time of our lives. I can say that the strength of my husband helped us all through the ordeal. The best thing to do is to remember to keep your head and keep you health up. Each person is needed by the others.

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by minicow 07 Mar 2009

Prayers sent your way for your precious sister God Bless from minicow

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by adelmarie 07 Mar 2009

You can coun't on me, sorry to hear about the news.

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by meganne 07 Mar 2009

I am so sorry to hear this sad news Linda. I can only imagine how your DIL is feeling as I can't bear to even think of losing my Sister, it makes me sick to my stomach.

I will send you my special Angel to help watch over your DIL and her Sis. All we can hope and pray is that she does not suffer but that the Lord's Angels lift her peacefully and painlessly to his Kingdom.
God' blessings be with you all through this tough time.
Hugs, Meganne

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by mariahail 07 Mar 2009

Dear cutie, so sad to hear this, cancer is not a fun thing, I am in remission with the highest percentage of getting it back soon, but only God can put a date in our life...and even when we go to rest...it will be just that resting, sleeping, until He comes to take us Home and to be forever happy. His peace be with you and your family.Love.

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by lbrow 07 Mar 2009

Linda I am so sorry for this lady & for your DIL. My prayer will b for God's will to be done & for helping her with her pain. I'm glad your DIL has u she needs all the support she can get. I pray for God's Grace to help her deal with her sorrow & for u to give u strength & the words to say that will help & comfort those n need *4U

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lflanders by lflanders 07 Mar 2009

Thank you. It means alot! I was also raised in Macon. Been gone a long time. Left in 1963. I had just finished the 10th grade. A.L. Miller (Tapley)

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by caydebug 07 Mar 2009

Sure thing Linda. The prayers of many touch the heart of God. We all ban together here at Cute. Please let us know how she does. Hugs and Blessings

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by lflanders 07 Mar 2009

I can not thank each & everyone of you enough! It really means alot to me! May the lord bless all of you for your kindness. Linda in Ga.

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by pennifold 07 Mar 2009

Hi there Linda, never underestimate the power of prayer - I'll certainly keep her in mine. Also for you too and your family for the strength needed to be there. Love, hugs and blessings to you all. Love Chris - Newcastle Australia

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by manami 07 Mar 2009

Linda, you and your family have my thoughts and prayers too. Be strong for your family. Love&hugs,Yoriko.

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by gramsbear 07 Mar 2009

You are all in my Prayers, I Pray for Peace for all of you and healing in God's will. I am so sad for you. But God will be with you to help all through this terrible time of sadness and pain. Hugs...

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by nurselilly 07 Mar 2009

MY thoughts and prayers are with you and your extended family at this time. May you all have the strength to get through this difficult time.

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by cutiepie 07 Mar 2009

Of course you have my prayers, for her, for you, for the whole family.

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lflanders by lflanders 07 Mar 2009

Thank you and give those babies a real special hug for me also. May your life be blessed! Linda

nurselilly by nurselilly 07 Mar 2009

AWWWWWWW and a big hug from me :)

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by debrar 07 Mar 2009

I have just prayed for all your family. I know how terrible that news can be. I pray that you will find peace.

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lflanders by lflanders 07 Mar 2009

Thank you so much. It still seems so unreal. I guess she knew that she did not want chemo so she hid it from all of us until it was too late. She was in a bad way for a long time before. The Lord is her only hope for any peace now.

lflanders by lflanders 07 Mar 2009

Her name is Pat Craven and she has 1 grown son and a husband to help her through this. It is so sad because the Drs. possibly could have helped her if she had just let her family know. She did not want to go through all of it again.

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