NEVER be afraid to ask a question here!!!Someone else may want to know the same thing! * 4 U
I would not call anyone a dumbo, and there aren't dumb questions either. I see you have the correct answer, so here's a flower for you.
Click on the name of the cutie you want to send a message to. The page that opens on the left side has a link saying "send a privat meassage". I believe it is right by the picture. The same box opens as in community where you can type your post but no one else can read it and it does not get lost in the multitudes. Hope this helps.