have nothing better to do than pick on kind, generous and loving souls. When I log onto Cute I go to the Community tag, and read all the posts. I appreciate all the posts about free designs etc. What does it matter where things are posted, we all appreciate the help, I am sure. I was taught that if you can't say something nice about someone -DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. I was also taught the Golden Rule - Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated. I just want to say to those that feel they can attack other Cuties on this site, Please stay away and keep your opinions to yourself. You aren't welcome here, if all you want to do is hurt and upset others.

We will always have sick people out there!!

Oo la la. So terrible that Yoriko was harmed by something that was said on this board. She has been so kind to us.
Jacqueline

Again did i miss something? What the heck come on girl & boys. Lets get on & enjoy. Life is too short to niggle over silly things " whateva they be ". Remember we are family!!!

I love Yoriko's designs and am so pleased when she lets us know when she post something new .She is a wonderful lady . You keep up the good work Sweetie we love you Yoriko.
Lena mae

Jerrib, it was me, SSARNER, to make the comment. In the real business world, no one can bring any Pepsi products into Coca cola plants. If you want to ban me from this site, please do so. There is no Yoriko attack in the comment if you read the comment again carefully. If Yoriko did not do anything wrong, she does not have to worry. It is just that simple.

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by jerrib 19 May 2009

Hi SSarner: I apologize to you, I didn't see the original post,just all the comments that were being said. When I get home from work, the first thing I do to unwind is come to this site. I appreciate all who take the time to give us free designs and links to where new sites are. I don't feel there is anything wrong with giving out links, no matter the reason. I wouldn't know about any embroidery sites, if it weren't for everyone here posting them. I enjoy finding new places to look for new things. I am sure that Veronika would say something if she didn't want people to post other sites here.

Life is too short to argue & complain about trivial thing, I for one don't have time to go through more than one set of postings. It is much easier to catch up on all the news when it is posted in one location than spread around.

I have missed what ever was said about Yoriko ... I agree with you they should be banned!
People should learn to live in peace and harmony ... at least start here on cute!
*4U!
Hugs,
~S~

Dear Jerri,

I hope this is just a storm in a teacup. The majority of us love coming on here and reading or replying to the posts. I don't mind looking through all of the tabs - it just takes a bit longer - and we all have time, don't we? Ha Ha Ha!

The free help offered here and the many friendships that have blossomed are truly heartwarming. I personally think this is one of the great things about this website.

Let's all just learn to get on with it and go forward. Miss Veronika has been so kind in all she does and I am sure this little episode will eventually fade away.

Love and blessings to you all Chris

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I agree if you don't ahve something nice to say don't say anything. Thats what Mama always said.

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by pennifold 19 May 2009

I've said that all my life long. Even my children know it off by heart. God's blessing to you love Chris

I certainly missed whatever was said but it is hard for me to believe that anyone would say anything bad about such a wonderful person as Yoriko! She does nothing but give of herself and her talents all the time. She is the one of the first to try to help anyone that ask for help and she always hs a free alpha going for all of us. She answers questions and when someone misses a design that she has had for free, most of the time she goes out of her way to post it the second time. She a kind a generous person and never has a bad thing to say about anyone.
I like this group just the way it is and if it becomes too impersonal, it would not be the same! I was newbie and all of you help encourage me and keep my spirits up when my son had his Heart Attack at 42. I turned to all of you to help get me through the worst part of that. I had out-patient surgery last week on both my legs and I had the same thing again today. I have been in alot of pain and been in bed alot with my feet propped up on 2 pillows to keep the swelling down so I have not been on the computer alot for the last week and a half. I do not know what was said nor do I want to know. I have enough to worry about right here at home without listening to someone else problems about another person. Everyone has been wonderful to me and I hope and pray this group will contine to stay that way. I kinda roll with the flow especially when everything is going so well! I see no need to make waves or start trouble just to get something going. Nobody is perfect, especially not me and I would not want someone to get started on me! This is the best group I have ever been on and I enjoy it very much! I feel like all of you are friends! I sure would miss this group if it became like some of the others. I have not come across a single person that I have not liked! Linda

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by pennifold 19 May 2009

I for one love reading your letters Linda - God's blessing on you to heal quickly and be back on here more regularly. Love and blessings Chris

by lflanders 19 May 2009

Thanks so much! I had a rough night last night and got up this morning late, running a fever. I geuss that goes along with the "ride". I am hoping and praying that this will get my legs well again. They are planning on doing this once a week until the dead skin completely subsides. I got up and tried to eat this morning but the nausea would not let me. At least I can have my juices. I am still a little loopy with the pain meds I am having to take but if it is like last week, I will be able to stop on any extra by late tonight or in the morning. Actually, I am hungry and thinking about going and fixing some toast or a bagel in the oven. Bread usually stays down okay. It is not the pain meds that are making me sick on mu tummy. It is the 2 high powered antibiotics I take at the same time twice a day that does that. I limit the pain meds because they do not seem to do that much for me to start with. I see no need in taking something that does not help! That is just invading my insides for no reason! I have to take enough just for the arthritis and muscle spasms in my back. I have always heard that the more you take, the more you need. My little Dr. that is doing the surgery is 35 and she is from Brazil. She is just precious! She is a tiny whisp of a thing and looks like she might be 22 or 23. She has more personality in her little finger than most people have all over! She is great at what she does and I am glad I ended up with her. She is a very caring person. The pain this week was/is not as bad as it was last week. I hope it continues that way!!!! I have no idea how much all of this is going to cost or how I am going to pay for all of it but I do know that the Lord will provide a way. My medicare does not seem to be okaying much of this.
It is caring prople like you that helps to make this site such a wonderful site. I do hope that all will be straightened out about the other(??) and with the least amount of hurt feelings! Thanks again for always having a good word of cheering nature just when it is needed! Hugs! Linda in Ga

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Jerri..if I see a post that starts out negatively, I stop reading and move on. I refuse to read or acknowledge the comments that might follow. I know I cannot control what others do or say.

I do enjoy the sharing of knowledge and have learned much here. That is why I joined the site and why I remain. Thanks again to all for the great ideas, designs, sharing of projects, etc. It is fun.

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by peggy 18 May 2009

NOW for a more earthy comment. I know dogs crap on my lawn, but that does not keep me from enjoying my lawn. I don't even dislike the dog, the dog is just doing what a dog does. So this great lawn, Cuteembroidery, has a few dogs crapping on it. The crap will go away, the lawn remains, only better.

by pennifold 19 May 2009

I'm laughing out loud here - that was well said. Love and blessings Chris

by caydebug 19 May 2009

You are to Cool.....

by jasanne 19 May 2009

Well Said! The analogy got me laughing!!!

I agree with everything you've said, but since for most of my life i've been teased, ignored, battered, humiliated, etc etc etc I've found that if you don't respond they give up and go away, as for the nasties here at cute we don't need you or want you, if you're that miserable, go play in traffic and leave the rest of us alone. I like this site just like it is, notices, hints, answers, freebies the whole darn thing. If you don't like all the postings you are not being forced to read them! I for one enjoy reading everything posted and very rarely, if ever, go to the bookmarks section. This is my only website where I chat, lets not let one ruin it for the many.......

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by pennifold 19 May 2009

WEll SAID - love Chris

by tinfriend 19 May 2009

I agree - I also never go to the Book mark section!
Hugs
~S~
*4U!

I fully agree !!!*

Dear Jerri, the post was not direct for me, but it was about advertising your own website on Cute was breaking the rules. It is just the way they word some comments, and we feel how strong is every word we say here. We can amazingly feel everything here, love, caring, kindness, friendship...
I'm very blessed I have so many wonderful friends here, thank you so much for your support and caring.
Love and blessings, Yoriko

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by jerrib 17 May 2009

Hi Yoriko: I didn't see what went one, just read some of the comments. It just angered me that whatever was said, was said to you. I am sure that Veronika would say something if you where doing something wrong, which I don't believe you did. How else would people know about new sites etc. You aren't the only one that has posted your site info,here and I know that everyone appreciates finding new places to go for designs. I say keep up the good work.
Bless you and have a safe trip, I hope it all works out for you. Just spending time with your loved ones will make the trip worth while.

by manami 18 May 2009

Dear Jerri, thank you so much for your caring. Love, Yoriko.

Always one bad apple in every crate.

thankyou for this post- we share, cry & laugh with one another & most of all love & care for one anothe-
hugs & sparkles from minicow

I missed that one....but I can not believe somebody will dare been ugly to Yoriko, who is the sweetest, most giving, loving person, who deserves all of our love and respect. I know that by now Yoriko has already forgiven and she is loving and praying for that person I just hope that whom ever she/he was can forgive him/herself for hurting such a GREAT LADY as our Yoriko is.

Jerri, I so agree with you. I am to the point that I log on only once a day, now instead of several times a day. And I will cut that down. I just can't see what all the fuss is about. And to go and hurt people, like Yoriko, who has given us so much in just the past 3 months (once, having 3 free alphas going at one time) is just totally uncalled for. I know that I have not belonged to this site for as long as most, but for God's sake, why act so childish. I do not post fee designs any more. Mostly because everyone else gets to them first ( thank you to all who care enough to look for them) but also because I'm afraid to ticking someone off!!!. But I donot come here for that. I come here for the friendships that have bonded. Would do so, even without the freebies, but then someone else would get upset over something else, so why bother. It's so heartbreaking to see some of the good people on Cute be blasted by others. I could care less what is thought about me. I only here for the friendships. But I get fighting mad when they hurt or say nasty things about those who work so hard for all of us and ask for nothing in return. Like I said in a previous post, when the good people are gone, then it will ge "Just another plain old embroidery site", not a family site. Prayers and God's Blessings, Libbie.

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by bikermomfl 18 May 2009

don't leave us libby, do not allow one of ignorance spoil your fun. We all love ya and enjoy ya here on cute, just ignore and pass the nasties by the majority of us are just good ole gals (guys to)

I missed something again. I love this site and all its members. All the wonderful deigns they share, helpful suggestions and good problem solvers.
I agree, if you can't say anything nice, keep your mouth shut.

Good going jerrib. This is no place for nasty people.

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by castelyn 19 May 2009

I agree _ Hugs Yvonne

I love this site and I am glad that you Cuties are all here. I love all of the talks with all of the Cuties. I really enjoy hearing from you all and all of the help and new ideas I have gotten from you. Thanks again and I hope that we all continue to respect each other & I agree with Jerrib.

HEAR! HEAR! I agree, this is a great site and I love all the postings. The support is wonderful. Lynn