wondered how a person could break well i found out. i am always telling people to just breath guess i forgot to do that for myself sometimes. my walls came tumbling down very hard hubbie just went back to work he has been sick so i could not work staying home taking care of it all. yes it sounds selfish but when u have 4 young kids saying mom this mom that and then hubbie with a honney this and a honney that then stuff being turned off not knowing where the next meal will come from so now i need to just take my own advice and just breath ok thank u for letting me vent and thank u to the cutties that has been wondering about me i am still around and always will be here with family i have met a few friends here and i have lost one important one but life goes on and i do miss her

Breathing is good. Maybe a little yoga too. You can always find a class on TV if you can't get out. For a lot of us sewing is our yoga/breathing! I hope things start looking up for you.

I will continue to pray for you dear one.

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Mary, I do hope you can get on top of things again. I have a DIL who only very recently had a break down and I know how hard it can be...actually she is still in hospital. I knew you had not been around here for awhile but isn't it strange that we never ask where someone is.. guess we just take it for granted all are very busy not thinking that someone may be unwell.. Hang in there girlfriend...Many hugs and even a kiss from me....

Sorry to hear about your health. We really did not know. You know that we were with you anyway. Think of us as your cheering section. Hopefully, things are a bit better now and finding it easier to cope. Prayers are with you.

Hi Mary I know exactly what you are saying this happened to me last year I did something during this time that I have to live with but I must say with the help and love of my family i am getting through it, it takes awhile but you will start to feel like your old self again. I will think of you every day little steps lead to bigger ones and I know in my heart that you will be running again soon.
Love to you Carol

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Hello MAry, it's good to see you again, Didn't know about your situation, but take one step at a time and be carefull, tkae some time for yourself when possible with for children. Do know that you are often in my thoughts and that you have been missed. Chin up and please be carefull. Hugs Carla

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Mary, I hope you are on the way to complete recovery. Take good care of yourself, take time to relax, so you'll be able to look after those precious kids! Hugs for you! Martine

M&M, I sure hope you're feeling better. I sure have missed you and your wonderful sense of humor. Glad to see you back, but do take care of yourself.

I gave you a flower but I think chocolate helps more at a time like this..:-)

xOh wish I could be there to make you a meal or just be by your side....I miss you tons here on the site...I guess I'm just thinking of myself...I'm like one of the kids...sorry! Hang in there ..one day at a time... Sometimes I'm sad about nothing...and then I'm mad at myself when I know others have a lot on their plate....Four little ones is a hand full.

Hi there my little friend, haven't been doin all that great myself but did notice you were missing...do take care of yourself, I know it is hard when you have so much going on at one time, you wonder how you will get through the day but we somehow manage, just take one day at a time...big hugs and much love Glenda x0x0x0x

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Oh Mary, I am sorry to hear your news. I was aware that you were not posting but presumed (wrongly) that you were very busy. Life sometimes is very unjust. I hope that your life is now on the up. I have a neighbour who I can only describe as coming out of postnatal depression, it is horrible and difficult to help her. Being a Mom is constant and things can overtake one. So friend thinking about you with positive thoughts to the new MM

Oh, sweet girl....I wish I had known. I guess when all goes so bleak, you can't even think to ask, but be assured that God knew what you needed BEFORE you asked and He will be there for you even when you can't see him. I am praying for you and strength for you to take care of yourself so you can handle the burden/joy you have been given.
Hugs,
Jerrilyn

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I wish I lived near you. I would run over and give you a hand. I know life can become very challenging at times when you are in the middle. My prayers are with you. Lots of hugs and flowers your way

i will back to post as soon as i get off work...pm to u then...

Mary, dear - I do hope that you are into a complete recovery - I feel so awful for you to have gone through this - life is hard - very hard - the best thing to do - is take care of you - without you - the children would be home alone - your hubby would surely have a difficult time dealing with the four of them on his own - with his health troubles - doesn't the mother of your children - the wife of your hubby - deserve to be cared for and healthy? Do it for them as well as for yourself. Keep in touch - we have missed you. *4U

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HUGS, HUGS and another HUG. Take care of yourself. Angie

I have been there many of times. I've had things turned off and even lost things but God has ALWAYS GIVEN ME MORE THAN WHAT WAS LOST in HIS TIME. It's never easy when you have children and they are in need. It's because of ALL that I have gone through that I am STRONGER today. Be encouraged and know that this is only a TEST ;D *2U

Mary, I hope you are well on the way to complete recovery. Remember take care of yourself first, get plenty of rest. Take time to relax and put some of your own needs and wants first. We want to see more of you here. You always had good advise. Hugs for you. Mary

MM Am I not your friend, why didn't u get n touch with me? Lillian

I know just how you feel I am just getting back to normal after my breakdown just before Christmas with the help of medication. It is a long slow process but remember you have to come first because if you don't look after youself you can't look after anyone else You are in my thoughts and prayers hugs Raelene

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by jrob 10 Jun 2009

Oh, Raelene, I'm so sorry I didn't know. I could have prayed for you and what better thing could be done? Please let me know if there is anything I can do. Blessings sent your way,
Jerrilyn

by raels011 11 Jun 2009

Thank you When this happens it is very hard to talk But this site and all the cuties kept me going

by clawton 11 Jun 2009

Raels, I'm sending my healing wishes to you also.

by raels011 12 Jun 2009

thank you

by kezza2sew 16 Jun 2009

Raelene, sorry to hear this about you. Life sure does deal us a hard job coping doesn't it? Live each day as it comes....and be happy.

Hang in there! I know it doesn't help when your in the midst of it, but it does pass. Try and take some time for yourself. I totally sympathize with the mom this and mom that from four small children - I've been on the edge of cracking more than once!

Hey glad to see you walls and all. Stick around and let us help in any way we can. Breathe , chin up, all those things will get better. Luv Lisa

Hang in there. You have an international family here that thinks of you often, prays for you and would love to be there in person for you. But since we can't, remember we love you.

OH MM I have missed you...sorry I haven't been there for you...If I can help in any way just say so???!!! Just TAKE CARE A YOU (as Julia Roberts said in Pretty woman)!!!

Mary, sorry to hear you havent been well, Glad my comment on community made you feel happy again. Take care & relax, take things as they come. Here you go " GROUP HUG " :)

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by marymoore 09 Jun 2009

thank u