have said there isn't much they can do now.....My father-in-law lost his oldest boy in '97..he lost his oldest child , a girl last year...His brothers and sisters are slipping away (14 in all) little by little..He lost a brother 2 weeks ago and now his wife of 58 1/2 years is losing the strength to do things by herself..I hate to see her the way she is knowing theres nothing left but a little time...I know she believes in Jesus so I do not worry about her soul..She has lost so much weight in the past few days and she is on a liquid IV diet....I really believe in my heart that the Lord needs to release her from her earthly body so she can be free in her heavenly spirit....I will ask only for prayers that my father-in-law will be able to endure another lose again....

Deanna, just pray that God will relieve her pain...be that here on this earth or in her heavenly home. Either way she wins!! Then rest in the Lord. I know it's so hard to watch a loved one suffer. The only thing I can say is, you will be able to tell someone else "I know how you feel and will pray for you." Only when you walk the road, can you understand others pain. Will be in prayer for you and your family as you pass through this time. Love & hugs to you.

O sweetie it is not our will but the Lords. I am sure the Lord understand your compassionate wishes, but we are not in control. Peace to you and your family. prayers, love and *4U. Cindy

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by camylow 18 Jun 2009

thanks, just got back from the hospital again...she is so much smaller overnight...we are now doing the pain medicine Toredaul (?) Morphine wasn't working for her...I Pray the Lord relieves her from this soon...I know it his time and his will and we have to wait and all....

Camy, My prayer is always "Lord I pray that your will be done in this person's life. God has plans for all of us & that's what he wants but he also so the
Bible tells us has a permissive will, letting us, sometimes have what we desire even if it's not His will for us, just like we do our children, we let our children have things sometimes we know are not good for them but they want it so badly we give in. We r God's children, He is the same way by us & states " the effectual, fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. so pray for what u think is best for your MIL Camy & do not feel guilty. God knows what is in your heart. HUgs Lillian

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by camylow 16 Jun 2009

Thanks, Lillian I am sure when its time for her the LORD will comfort all

Sending you a special Angel to help you through this difficult time and help alleviate your feelings for your, very compassionate, thoughts.
Hugs n blessings, Meganne

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by camylow 16 Jun 2009

thank you Meganne....really appreciate that

Deanna, I will be praying for acceptance of God's will for you and your loved ones - each and all. *4U

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by camylow 16 Jun 2009

Thank you...last person to check in on her says she is doing great, still looks like a very sick lady...

God knows your needs before you even ask. Pray that His good and perfect will be done. I will pray for your entire family and for the difficulty that you are facing.

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by camylow 15 Jun 2009

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR PRAYERS...

How hard for you, your Hubby and your father-in-law. I know what you are feeling - but, all you can really do is try to provide help and strength and prayers for those you love....and be there with them as much as you can. Is Hospice helping her and your family? If not, call them ... they helped us so much! Laura

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by camylow 15 Jun 2009

THEY WILL NOT RELEASE HER FROM THE HOSPITAL UNTIL SHE FULLFILLS THE REQUIREMENTS...mY SISTER IN LAW DOES HOSPICE AND WILL BE THE ONE TO DO THE MAIN CARE (ALONG WITH THE REST OF US FOR BREAKS). THANK YOU ALSO FOR YOUR THOUGHTS

Oh, Deanna, I do hope your dear father-in-law can be strong for his wife, and take the blow of another loss. This is sooooo hard, biggest hugs go out to you, and all your family!!!! Marji

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by camylow 15 Jun 2009

THANKS MARJI, I AM WATCHING HIM IN SILENCE AND KEEPING HIM IN OUR EYESIGHT...I AM WATCHING HIM CRUMBLE YET TRYING TO BE THE HEAD OF THE BIG FAMILY...

it is not wrong at all deanna we dont like to see our loved ones in pain i know in my grannies last 6 months of life i would also pray the lord took her from her pain and when she did pass i was very sad but also relieved that she has no more pain i will be praying for u and the family

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by camylow 15 Jun 2009

i DID ALSO ASK THE lORD TO TAKE BOTH OF MY HUBBYS SIBLINGS SOONER...I CANNOT STAND TO WATCH PEOPLE IN SO MUCH PAIN...I WAS ABLE TO HOLD rANDYS HAND AS HE PAST AND ABLE TO BE WITH DEB A FEW HOURS BEFORE SHE LET GO ALSO....I NOW HAVE TO WATCH MY HUBBY DO THIS AGAIN....THANK YOU FOR YOUR REASSURANCE....

The GREATEST PRAYER is "Our Father's Prayer". His WILL and only His WILL must and will be done. This is what I stood on before my mother passed. God SPECIALIZES...it's only a TEST. Be STRONG and COURAGEOUS in the LORD. The Lord had me so rooted in grounded in him that it amazed the doctors and guards how I went through but GOD gets the GLORY!

Matthew 6:9-12
Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.
Mat 6:10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
Mat 6:11 Give us this day our daily bread.
Mat 6:12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
Mat 6:13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.

*******There is nothing TOO HARD for the LORD...My prayers are with you and your love ones *2U

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by camylow 15 Jun 2009

I HAVE BEEN GIVEN MANY BLESSINGS FROM THE LORD THIS PAST YEAR...MY HUSBAND HAS ALWAYS BELIEVED IN GOD, BUT THIS YEAR HE HAS BECOME TO KNOW HIM AND REALLY GET INVOLVED WITH THE LORD...JESUS ANDSWERED MY PRAYERS ON THIS....I AM PRAYING FOR MY CHILDREN TO STEP DOWN FROM THEIRSELVES AND CONFORM TO GOD'S PLANS...THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE...

We can only hope that the Lord will make the decision..Having just lost my brother and my mother in one weekend I have to feel that he decides and we have to believe there is a time written somewhere for all of us...God bless...

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by mad14kt 15 Jun 2009

It's never easy to lose loved ones but God Provides us the strength to face ALL our days. You are corrected...Life and death are in his hand. God said not even a bird fall without the father knowing and the very hairs on our head are numbered (Mat 10:29-30) *2U

by camylow 15 Jun 2009

WE TEND TO LOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS SO CLOSE TO EACH OTHER...THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING AND MANY PRAYERS FOR YOUR FAMILIES ALSO

Hi Deanna, Oh! my, my heart goes out to you and your husband. It's always hard watching your loved ones slipping away. I think what you have asked is only what is laid upon your heart. I'll pray for you and your husband and father in law. God bless love and blessings Chris

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by camylow 15 Jun 2009

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR CARING...