by memasanders 18 Jun 2009

Grands are off for summer hard to keep them busy, new baby coming in July, daughter has to see lung specialist tomorrow for somekind of weird fungus in her lungs(histoplasmosis granuloma) her hunband has to take 2 weeks unpaid while plant is shut down the end of June (live pay check to pay check like everyone else) their scared, son is recovering from neck surgury but wants to be all better by the time his son is born (very impatient) Doctor says I need to slow down LOL ( good part about that is I lost 9 pounds in 6 weeks yea) Have to see him in August again if not sooner. DH want divorce and how is your day going! ps God will get us through all of us of that I'm sure!

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by shirlener88 20 Jun 2009

Ronny, I say you are very busy - I will be praying for you and your family - with all that is going on - you will all surely see something better - in the end - you will wonder - why you worried so much - all will be well - He always has something for us - when a door shuts another opens - keep that in mind my dear - PRAYER CHANGES THINGS!

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memasanders by memasanders 20 Jun 2009

Honey believe me my faith has never been stronger and I know everything is in Gods hand so I will let him steer me. Thanks for your concernGod Bless

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by pennifold 20 Jun 2009

Dear Ronny,

Wow! it never rains but it pours! I can't believe all that is going on in your family. I think your husband needs a good wake up call too by the way!

Good on you for your faith and strength in all that's going on around you. Aren't us mothers just the best?

Your doctor is right you need to take care of yourself and keep well. It's no good when the mother gets sick, because who mother's the mother?

Good on you too for losing the weight, although I don't know if it is because of stress or you are consciously doing it. Either way eating healthy and exercising is a great way of getting rid of unwanted pounds.

Are you o.k. with getting a divorce? Does your husband just want to get out of the marriage for his own sake? I hope you can work it all out. It's hard not being close to you over there, but believe me you are always in my thoughts and prayers Ronny.

God bless you and I pray you keep strong. Love and blessings Chris

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memasanders by memasanders 20 Jun 2009

I wish we were closer instead of seperated by on ocean. But I appreciate your concern. I love hearing from you. I know you're a busy Mom too.

The weight loss is involuntary. I'm not doing anything special just keep going. LOL

The doctor told my daughter there is nothing he can do for her the damage has already been done as far as her lungs. The spots have calcified. She has to be very careful from now on with colds and flu. Moma will watch out for her. LOL

You are right about who takes care of Moma sometime I wish mine was still here to call and talk to but I know she's here in spirit.

It takes a years seperation to get a divorce in SC without any other grounds. Alot can happen in a year. And if things don't change maybe it will be better for both of us. I have been going to talking to the preacher through all of this. He agrees that maybe this is best for us. So I'm putting all this in GOds hands and pray about it . That's all I can do.

I would really appreciate your prayers. I know you're with me in spirit if not in body . God Bless you and your family Chris I wish nothing but the best for you all Luv to all Ronny

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by mops Moderator 19 Jun 2009

I'm sorry to hear your life is so hectic at the moment. Your faith will get you through, I'm sure, I'll add my prayers too.

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memasanders by memasanders 19 Jun 2009

Thank you so much I am very grateful. I have the boys here with me today until tomorrow so I have a little time for sewing and computer. Trying to stay busy until my daughter calls with doctor news. God Bless Ronny

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by marjialexa Moderator 18 Jun 2009

Wow, that's a lot to have going on at once!! Your H is not a DH if he's being so selfish. I'm with Jerrilyn, I'll just add my prayers tacked on to hers. But possibly I'd aim the rain of hot ashes elswhere on his person. Your faith will get you thru, I have no doubt of that. Be well, ALL of you!! Big big hugs, Marji

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memasanders by memasanders 19 Jun 2009

Thanks for the hugs and prayers. I'm a huggy person so they are greatly appreciate it God Bless Ronny

mops by mops 19 Jun 2009

Marji, you're one for the books aiming those hot ashes on some other part of his anatomy!

memasanders by memasanders 19 Jun 2009

Believe me I thought about aiming it too but I just don't need any more hurt.

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by read180 18 Jun 2009

Sorry to hear that so much is happening in your life. I will keep you in my prayers.. Come unto me all you are weary and I will give you rest.
Hugs*4u

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memasanders by memasanders 19 Jun 2009

The Lord does look out for me and give me rest. He's the one I lean on believe me. Thank you for your prayers. God Bless Ronny

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by jrob Moderator 18 Jun 2009

Ronny, not the kind of diet I'm sure you would choose. I'm sorry you DH is being so selfish with everything else that is going on. I'm gonna pray for hot ashes to be rained down on his head and if he thinks he's not happy now, wait till my Lord gets a hold of him......;) seriously! You are in my prayers dear and yes, God will get you through.;)

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memasanders by memasanders 19 Jun 2009

My faith has never been stronger and once I get the kids through all this, I'm gonna take care of me Count on it! Thanks Love I really appreciate your concern. God Bless Ronny

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by castelyn 18 Jun 2009

You and your family will be in my prayers.
Keep strong, we are hear for you Ronny.
God Bless - Hugs Yvonne

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memasanders by memasanders 19 Jun 2009

Thank you so much I really apprecite it. God Bless
ronny

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by crafter2243 Moderator 18 Jun 2009

I hope better days are coming. Hang in there. There is a purpose somewhere.

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memasanders by memasanders 18 Jun 2009

Thanks Hon I beleive that. There is always blue skies some where.

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