but we should be that many ahead of 2nd place! Please remember to vote everyday! If anyone does know how many members ..please let all of us know. It would be interesting to know. I guess this would include paying and non paying, I am not sure. I do know that some are not in a position to join finacially. Alot are on S.S. and Disability and that renders them running very close to not having anything left when the bills are paid, if the bills all get paid. I myself, know how hard it can be because I have so many medical bills. That is a curse of getting on up there in age and living alone. It is easier to live alone that to have a man in the house for me! I swore off men after my horrible marriage. One time was enough for me. 16 yrs of being married and 15 yrs of living in Hell taught me a lesson I will never forget. We were divorced 30 yrs. the 25 of this month and I have never given it a second thought since. He is still the same (or worse) than he was back then. I get sick to my stomach when I have to be around him but we have always been civil for our son's sake. I keep my distance when we have to be at the same place at the same time. He has learned to be good to his son but everything does come with a price there also! There always has to be something in it for him for him to do something decent! He has to brag! I am sure that I am not the only one that has found it easier to live alone that to try to share. My DIL is always trying to "fix me up" and does not understand why I will not go out with a total stranger of her picking. She is sweet but not too bright when it comes to that(and me)! I love her! but..... I would like to know how many are members at Cute. Thanks Linda