by sissibrode 23 Aug 2009

My friends


I 'm back from Paris. The doctor that I had on the phone was a little misled about the diagnosis, but the result is the same, maybe worse ....
The brains of my mom died more than 40%. We have no decision to take my brother and me ... It is the medical team decide what action, namely no therapeutic. she's currently in coma and physicians make sleep. if it were out of the coma, she would be in a vegetative state, or totally disabled (members, lyrics, etc.) with knowledge of his condition, therefore the total horror. The doctors want to slowly let go but I do not know how. I need to remind the doctor to know the details, I am a bit lost...

I spend a good part of my day to cry .... hoping it does not suffer. His companion is totally collapsed .... It is a very difficult period for us. What is good (for me) is that I could see it, touch it, tell him I love him .... even if it was not aware. With that and the doctor's explanations, I can start doing my grief : one way or another, the outcome is fatal

Thank you for all your prayers

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by cinderoak 26 Aug 2009

Still praying for you and your family in this time.

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by gerryb 25 Aug 2009

I'm so sorry about your Mom. But what would she want you and your family to do? Keep that in mind. Hang on to the good memories as they will only grow sweeter each day. Prayers with you.

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by ksgram1 25 Aug 2009

Sissi, you and your family continue to be in my prayers. May you feel peace of heart and mind, knowing that your precious Mother will not be suffering anymore. Remember the good times you had together and all the good advice that she gave you. This will help alot. Allow yourself to grieve. It's past of the healing process. Hugs ***~Marjorie

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by gerryvb 25 Aug 2009

sorry to hear, hope you can accept all this. wish you strength, hugs and prayers for you!

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by jacquipaul 25 Aug 2009

My prayers will be with you and your family. Love to you also, and I am sorry you are so far away from your Mother. God sometimes takes those we love, but has a better place for them; I believe that there is no pain or sorrow in heaven.
Love,
Jacqueline

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by sissibrode 25 Aug 2009

Cuties, my friends, thanks for all your prayers ! They made my day. Love and hugs to you. MERCI !

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sissibrode by sissibrode 25 Aug 2009

I called the doctor this morning he will do an MRI tomorrow afternoon. Brain damage has progressed. Doctors meet Thursday morning and they will certainly take the decision to stop using drugs, and the ventilator so that she can go in peace.
I think it's best for her, she could reach the house of the Lord and perhaps find my dad ???... I hope so !

manami by manami 25 Aug 2009

Sissi, aneurysms are in my family, my dad passed away with only 55 years old. He was and still is my hero! My younger sister had her aneurysms ruptured 5 years ago, and have had many surgeries. The doctors saved her life, but she is completely dependent now, a very active girl in a wheel chair, having someone to feed and take care of her is something very sad to see.
We have to accept the Lord's will, there are always good lessons to learn from it. My prayers and thoughts for your mother and your family. Love, Yoriko

sissibrode by sissibrode 25 Aug 2009

Yes, his fate is in the hands of the Lord. I agree ... but it's hard ! it's a bad cap to move ... knowing that it is best for her now. Thanks Yoriko

marjialexa by marjialexa 26 Aug 2009

She'll find your Dad, Sylvie, and her own parents, and all she's ever loved. And she'll be waiting for you when the time comes. It's all we can hold on to. They wouldn't call it Heaven otherwise. Love to you, my friend. Marji

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by shirlener88 25 Aug 2009

Sylvie dear, I am praying for acceptance of God's will for you and your family. *4U

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by pennifold 24 Aug 2009

Hi Sissi,
My heart aches for you. I pray that you and your brother will be able to get through this.

I still have my parents - although Dad has Alzheimer's Disease and is progressively getting worse day by day. So I have this to face in the future too.

I can only uphold you in God's love and know that He will take her to his home when the time comes.

Crying is good for you - it releases toxins and allows us to heal.

Love and blessings Chris

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by cinderoak 24 Aug 2009

Still praying dear one! Love to you and your family.

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by marietta 24 Aug 2009

Sissi my heart bleeds for you. We also had to make that desition about my mother in law, who was like a mother to me, and we told them to let God do what He thought best. She was in pain, and did not even know us anymore. It was such a relief to know that she had no more pain, even though after 9 years I still miss her terribly. I will pray for you, and know that God will fetch her in His time. He will not let us suffer more than needed. Wishing you strength for the time ahead. Huggs and God bless you.

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by jrob Moderator 24 Aug 2009

Sylvie, I'm so sorry and wish that I could wipe your tears and hold you hands. This is a hard road to travel. Our love and prayers will go with you all of the way.

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by grandmamek 24 Aug 2009

May the good Lord provide you with the strength and wisdom that you now need during this difficult time of your life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs for you. Mary

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by mops Moderator 24 Aug 2009

I am so sorry for you. Losing a parent is hard, seeing them suffer even harder. You're in my thoughts in this very difficult time. Martine

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by manami 24 Aug 2009

Dear Sissi,
I'm so sorry for you, and I know no matter what I say, it wouldnt ease your pain. My prayers and thoughts for you and your family. Love and blessings, Yoriko

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by mammavenere 24 Aug 2009

c'est effectivement un moment difficile à passer, aussi je te souhaite beaucoup de courage à toi et sans oublier ta maman! surtout en ce moment d'anniversaire pour toi; C'est dur et les prières sont souvent aidantes, celles de tes amies sont sincères et comme dit le "qoheleth" dans la bible, il y a un temps pour tout malheureusement et heureusement en même temps,le temps de pleurer et le temps de rire qui revient bien longtemps après.Bon courage à toi et à ta famille; amitiés d'une compatriote qui s'exprime tellement mal en anglais..........

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by tinfriend 24 Aug 2009

Sissi, My heart goes out to you! I will pray that you & your brother will be guided to make the right decision! My thoughts and prayers are with you during this traumatic time! Take care!
Hugs
~S~

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by lbrow 23 Aug 2009

Sissi Having lost both my parents & a husband I can understand how you feel. I have been there. I can only tell you I know God will see you through this if you will let Him.I pray for God's grace to give you strength & help you with the grief U r dealing with. Much love & god bless you *

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by ruthie 23 Aug 2009

Sweet Sylvie, I just so wish that I could be there to give you a hug. You cry your heart out sweetie, it will help you, this kind of situation is a very difficult thing to come to terms with. Keep telling your Mum that you love her, she will hear you, and it will help her to pass away peacefully. Much love and hugs to you at this time sweetie and I am keeping you, and your Mum in my thoughts and prayers.

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by castelyn 23 Aug 2009

Sylvie, I have lost both my parents in the last 2 years, it is hard.
You are in my thoughts and prayers - Hugs Yvonne

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by bokkieborduur 23 Aug 2009

My dear friend, I feel so sorry for you , wish I can hug you, my mom died about 6 weeks ago and the pain is still there, but if it better for her to let her go. The suffering that your mom undergo is so bad. Please don't let them put her on the machines, if nothing is can help. I pray for you and your family. Hugs Marie

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by mariahail 23 Aug 2009

dear friend, let God make the decision, you put your mother in His Care and pray, pray,pray.My mother contracted Hepatitis C in 1982, after having a big surgery, she went Home to the Lord 4 years ago.The last 2 years were real bad and the last 6 months a nightmare, she was in so much pain, she suffered so much.I am glad that even when she is not here with me to pick me up when I am down, and that is very often, that she is no longer in pain.Blessings to you and your family.

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by crafter2243 Moderator 23 Aug 2009

In my thoughts I wrap my arms around you and pray for comfort and peace. Angie

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by iris2006 23 Aug 2009

Silvie, this are difficult times for you and your family. It is heartbreaking to see you mother like this. Do know that I think a lot of you and you are contantly in my mind. Love and hugs from Carla

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by jazzymag 23 Aug 2009

Sissi
I know how you feel I have lost both of my parents and it is heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

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by camylow 23 Aug 2009

I AM HERE FOR YOU.....

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by lflanders 23 Aug 2009

Sylvie, I do know how hard this is for you. It has been a long time time since my Mom passed away and she really suffered the last year she was with us. Her Dr. was her long-time Dr. and distant kin so when it came to making the decision as to what to do, I left it up to him. He knew more about what was going on than I did and I had watched her suffer for a very long time. She was only 67 but could only make it on life support. That was 23 yrs ago this month. I'll keep you and your Mom in my prayers. Be kind to yourself! Remember that you would not want to be there suffering and remember that she will be going to a much better place to spend eternity and you will see her again someday. This is not your decision to make. It is the Lords. Try to remember to be happy for the wonderful years that you have had together. My heart breaks for you and I will keep you and your Mom in my prayers! If you need to talk to someone, P.M. me and I will be glad to talk to you about this. Hugs and prayers, Linda

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by caydebug 23 Aug 2009

Oh my Sissi, I so wish there were more that could be done. I know your heart is aching and that no matter what we can say, it will not make it better. Please know that many prayers are being lifted up in your and your Mom's name. Give her a hug for all of us and a special one for you. Prayers and many of God's Blessings, Libbie

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by marjialexa Moderator 23 Aug 2009

Sylvie, I am so sorry! I know this feeling, my husband Richard died like this. Just cry, and know that we are here and praying for you. Even in a coma, they say that people are aware, the hearing is the last to go, your mother knew you were there, and that you love her. I wish I could be there to hug you, Sylvie, really truly I do. This is a hard thing to do through. My prayers are with you, Marji

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by blhamblen 23 Aug 2009

Sissi, please know that you are loved..Thoughts and Prayers are here for YOU! I missed YOU!!!

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by april22 23 Aug 2009

I am so sorry For you Sissy,Al Cuties are tinking of you.

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by suzettebritz 23 Aug 2009

Sissi, The pain that you feel, must be unbearable...

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by marthaann 23 Aug 2009

dear Sissibrode, we will pray for your mother and your family. Martha

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by dkjack 23 Aug 2009

I am sooooo sorry Sissy! You and your family are in my prayers.

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