Vista was also a problem 4 me until Bernina made their software compatable and now it works like a dream. It is difficult 2 adapt 2 something new but when u have done it, it is smooth sailing.
Pretty soon they come out with WINDOWS 7. Hopefully Microsoft doesn't move things around again. I could never understand why not leaving what works where it was located before. I hope you get your drivers downlaoded soon. Hang in there you may even get used to it.