they have decided to move our littlest (respite child) from our home...They have found a placement for him closer to his school....I am not so sure this little one is going to be able to handle being moved again...They just took him off some meds this past week and he is having withdrawls showing aanger, violence, forms of self depression...I think it is not a good time to move him, but unfortuanetly I have no say in the matter...Because we have 2 placements already, they cannot let us keep him as a third.....My only hope is he will not be able to handle it and have to be placed back in our care.....He started doing really good in school getting mostly all 2's...(that is very good)....he has had a great amount of decreased tantrums and crying outbursts.....I hope this little boy finds a good loving couple that will be able to handle all the turmoil that will be about to come out....Please say a prayer for him that he does get the extended help he needs.....Remember, all the foster kids we get have some kind of mental issues and are not just ordinary children......I just Pray that somehow he will be bale to come back to us permanetly....thanks for caring and sending a heavenly prayer upwards for him......deanna
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Thinking of you and that little boy today. I know it is a sad time for both of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you that he will be able to come back.
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33871Oh, Deanna, I so will pray espically hard and long for this little one...Hopefully God will lead him back to you and your family. Prayers and many blessings, Libbie.
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11500Oh deanna I know it breaks your heart, I just can't understand why they won't listen to those who are with him everyday. When u provide daily care u know so much more than those who "think they know what is best" Prayers already going up for u & him. Lillian
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by camylow
13 Oct 2009
thanks Lillian....I am not so sure If I am the right person for his mental problems, but for caring, I know we are.....
145791Hi Deanna, just read this post. Oh! my what do "they" know. It's such a pity that he is leaving your loving environment just to move closer to his school. What about the trauma caused to his little heart and his emotions, don't they think of that!
I pray that whoever gets to look after him will love him like you and your husband has. If not then I pray that he can return to your home, where he has love, acceptance and guidance. You are very special people - and I love you for what you are doing.
Love and blessings Chris
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by camylow
13 Oct 2009
I am sure the LORD has him in his hands, so it may be this is what HE intended from the beginning....
234506I don't understand the system sometimes. If he does well, why move him. You and this little young man will be in my prayers.
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109774Im so so sorry to hear this - you will all be in my prayers & thoughts at this difficult time
Blessings Yvonne xxxx
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by camylow
13 Oct 2009
Thank you Yvonne...we only want what is best for him.....This other couple has a 18 year old boy of their own, so maybe they can devote lots of love for him also....
189oh deanna, this is sad news, let's pray for a little miracle; he gets a great other home that he will start to love.Or he can come back to you.hugs and prayers for you and family.You are special.***
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by camylow
12 Oct 2009
It would definitely be nice to have him permanetly or until he gets the correct help he needs....
743327Deanna, I am so sorry this boy has to leave you, especially since he seems to be doing a bit better in your care. I'll add my prayers to all the others. Martine
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145304You are a very special lady to do this. Will say a prayer for you all.
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2306This is just soooooooo sad, that he has a loving home and has to move away. Someting wrong somewhere. Yes we must all pray very hard that he can cope and for you too.
such kindness to help these children. Hugs Edith
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57801Prayers for you and for him; it must be so difficult to see him move out.
You are doing so well, and each time you have to part with a child it must take a little piece of your heart.
Blessings to you all.
Jacqueline
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by camylow
12 Oct 2009
it is definitely hard to have him go....They keep telling everyone not to get emotionally attatched....as if....
70914Hello Deanna, my prayers are with you and the boy, I know my little girl is watching over him. Cis
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3780Oh Deanna, my heart goes out to you and this little boy. It is so sad that he has to go through another move. Hopefully his new home will understand he's needs. If not, he will be able to return to your loving home very soon. I will be saying prayers for him. Please give him a hug and a kiss from me. Bless you both. Lynn
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by camylow
12 Oct 2009
Thank you Lynn....I get to send him off to school tomorrow and that's it.....I will try to keep in touch somehow though....
51302Deanna, I will also pray for the boy! It's sad he was in a loving caring hands, and has to move, this is not good for his heart care either. I hope he finds love in his new place. Love and blessings, Yoriko
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by camylow
12 Oct 2009
I also hope it will work for him if not that he gets back here.....Thank you Yoriko....deanna
88650Oh Deanna, it's so sad news.... I will praying for this little boy ! Hugs to you and him
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200127OH my of coarse - I will be praying for him. You are such a wonderful lady and the love you have for these children is such a blessing. *4U
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by camylow
12 Oct 2009
good evening Shirlene.....thank you for you lovely prayers for him...I wish you could see this little guy...I put a pup tent (indoor play one) up and he put it on the king size ben sleeping half in it and half out....I didn't have the heart to tell him he was to big for it......deanna
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