prayers. I have to do this all by myself. If I don't help her to die, it will be a horrible death from suffocation. I guess Thanksgiving just isn't my holiday any more, first Bud and now Minou, within days of each other. If you don't see me around, you'll know why. I just thought I'd let you know, thanks for listening. Hugs, Marji

Thanks for putting up the pictures and glad you are enjoying yourselves

Dear Marji, I am glad to see those pictures, enjoy to be yet with your Minou, with all the love that you have one for the other, even I you know that it is not for a long time...enjoy all those days ***

Thank you all for your prayers and good wishes! My little Minou is still with us, I cooked turkey a day early just in case. She's eating a little white meat and broth, and isn't in distress yet, although she has lost so much weight, I'm afraid to pick her up lest I snap a bone. She's so fragile, but still full of fight, and looking to catch a mouse. I'm amazed she's lasted this long, but very grateful we got to spend Thanksgiving together, at least there was that. Here's a picture of us in the woods (I carried her to her favorite spot), and she wanted to climb up that tree. What a heart she has! Thanks again, all of you, for caring. Sorry I'm not around much, just being with my baby girl. Hugs, Marji

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by lbrow 27 Nov 2009

Marji I am so glad to see u back & thankful that Thanksgiving was a goodx time for you & minou. Lillian

by marjialexa 27 Nov 2009

Thanks, Lilian, she's a good girl, so pleased with her turkey. I hope she finds lots of mice and turkeys in heaven. Luv ya, M

Marji so sorry I know how upset I would be if I lost one of my boys. Big hugs for you. Lisa

Marijalexa. We all have our times of trial, yours is now.
Better times will come even if you can not believe it right now.
We all pray for you
Hugs
Edith

Marijalexa. We all have our times of trial, yours is now.
Better times will come even if you can not believe it right now.
We all pray for you
Hugs
Edith

Just to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers...hugs Marji x0x0x0x

Dear Marji, i see this message only now, i am sad for you, it is very difficult, but I am sure that you will do for your Minou the only final decision of love that you can do even if it is terrible for you. Be courageous, ypur Minou will find peace.Hugs and love for you, Claude.

just reading this now, I really feel for you Marji, hope today is a better day for you....
I to know how hard all this is for you....My love and Hugs are with you. Wish I could comfort you more....Love Kerry

Marji, so sorry to hear that you have to take this difficult decission, I understand how you must feel. You will be in my thoughts.

dear Marji, I know you will take the wright very difficult decision,A dear pet can be your closest dearest friend and it's so hard to say goodbye. So try to remember you have done your best for her and with her, remember the lovely times you had together. You will be in my prayers,I had and have pets myself and know how difficult this must be for you. hugs for you, Gerry

You and Minou will be in my prayers and thoughts. And on Thanksgiving I will thank God for the joy that Bud and Minou have given you over the years.

Marji, I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you have somebody to call to be with you during this difficult time. You are doing the right thing by not letting her suffer. I am praying for you. Hugs, Mary

I'm so sorry about your sweetie Minou. Maybe in time you can think of Thanksgiving as a time to be thankful that they are at peace.

I wish my dear friend that I could wrap you in my arms and support you through this time of need. But alas, I can only do it though cyber space (((((((((((Marji)))))))) - nonetheless - I will pray for you and Minou.

Marji, it is difficult for you at the moment. Just spend the time together remember the good times you have had. Your memories will remain. It is almost a year since I decided that life for one of my cats was no longer possible. It is such a hard decision to make but it is made with love for Minou because you care for her and do not want to keep her suffering. You are in my thoughts and we on Cute are here for you

You nad Minou will be in my prayers

Dear Marji, I'm so sorry about Minou. I know you will always remember the good moments you had with her. You have my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.
Love, Yoriko

Oh Marji,

I have no idea how to console or comfort you...
I just join you in tears.
kiss her goodbye- she was so special, and this is how your memories of her will be.
don't feel guilty because you redeem her.
men must suffer, animals don't have to- you are doing right.

and then, in a few weeks
you won't betray her, if you let a new kitten into your house and heart, it will take your mind off this sadness, for sure.
it is not about replacing her- that is impossible!
it is about distraction.
after my "lübchen" was tortured to death by the vet I thought there would never be another cat for me.
but the next day I went to the shelter (crying and sobbing, but I did) and adopted a very different looking tomcat whose pranks and tricks really cheered me up, gave some comfort and filled the void and the leaden silence.

and so I hope that joy will be back to your life soon.
HUGS----------- and again BiiiiG HUG, thinking of you!

Eva

Marji, I do know how it is to loose a close loving pet, I lost my Angelena so suddenly one day, it took me a long time to get over her death. Until now I do not want a new cat..... I send you good vibes of comfort and wishes for a calm transformation to life without her.

Oh Marji I just read this post. I am so so sorry. I truly wish I could help. I want to hug you and tell you something that makes the pain go away, but those words don't exsist. I just pray for you. Love Angie

WE ARE HERE FOR YOU...LOOK UPWARDS MARJI....HE'S HOLDING YOU...CLOSE YOUR EYES AND FEEL THE LORDS LOVING ARMS AS YOU GO THROUGGH THIS deanna

Dear Marji,

My thoughts are with you at this distressing time. I would love to be there with you to support you during the final moments. You say you have to do this by yourself, but I hope you can find someone to assist you. Please be assured of all your friends on here who are upholding you in their prayers and thoughts. Our pets mean the world to us and are such a constant companion. God bless you for all the wonderful things you do and are for them.

Love and blessings Chris

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Oh Marji my heart aches for you. I wish I lived closer so I could come & be with you. I remember when I lost my charlie with a heart attack. He had helped me so much after my husband died, sleeping with me at night so I would not be alone. Time will heal, but it really will take time. I've never had another pet since charlie died that is unless u could call my now husband one. (sorry just had to add a little humor) Charlie was never able to love him as he did my husband that passed away. I do believe he was jealous because he had had me to himself for over 5 yrs. My now husband though was the one who had to take care of things for me I just couldn't. Much love & God Bless Lillian

Oh, Marji, I am so so so sorry. I hope when I die there is someone like you there holding my hand and looking at me with love. What a beautiful way of passing. Your love is boundless and Minou knows every beautiful strand of it. Isn't there someone you can call to go with you? I'm there in spirit and when you feel all alone close your eyes and you can feel my arms giving you a gigantic hug! Love and hugs. ;)

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by kezza2sew 26 Nov 2009

such beautiful words of love as the other comments are to

Our heart is with you

I am so sorry, Marji.She will be in a better place with out pain.

Take care and will 'see' you again when you feel up to it.