cry, but I guess that is part of the healing. We had a military funeral yesterday and today I am just wondering what I want to do next. Have to get through Christmas now. I have both my sons here for Christmas, which is great since one lives in California. I do want to wish each and everyone a Merry Christmas and great New Year.

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

They are beautiful. Thank you for shareing them with us.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year for you
Huga from April22
My grands make cookies today

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Cupcakes look yummy

Mildred, you have sure been through alot in a couple days and now you have Christmas with your boys - enjoy the extra time to heal and enjoy each other and the memory of your husband. Merry Christmas from Riverdale, Utah - USA

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you Shirlene. We are planning a quiet day here at my home. Will be 5 of us. Merry Christmas to you and your family. Mildred

Blessings to you & yours, may there be Peace in your Heart, food at your table & Love to surround you. Greetings from Canada

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you Migs. May you have great holidays.

God bless you and keep you in his arms as you go through this. I'm glad that you are not alone and have your boys with you. I hope you have some moments of gladness and remembrances of good times spent together. We are here for you.

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you very much for your good wishes.

My thoughts and prayers will be with you this holiday season. So glad your sons are there with you. Take care, and you know all of us cutes are here to lend an ear if you feel like talking. Hugs Lynn

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you Lynn for the thoughts and prayers. Happy Holidays to you and your family Mildred

All the FIRSTS are going to be difficult. Holidays, birthdays, anniversaries etc. I am glad your sons are with you. Allow yourself to grieve. It isn't a sign of weakness. Remember the good times and don't feel guilty about laughing. I was so wrapped up in my own grief I forgot to ask my children how they are doing. It will get better. Try to enjoy the togetherness of the moment. Hugs Angie

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you Angie. I know it will be difficult and I am so thankful to have both of my sons here for Christmas. My oldest lives in California and came home just in time to be with me when Joe passed. He will be here till the 1st of Jan before he has to go home. Mildred

I wish you a merry christmas and a happy new year. I can not imagine how hard it is now for you, but your sons will be there for you.

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you for the good wishes.

YESTERDAY YOU LOST YOUR BEST FRIEND,HUSBAND,LOVER AND A A CONFORTER.DONT BE ASHAMED TO CRY,SCREAM AND GET THE ANGER OUT,IT WILL HELP,,I STILL GREAVE FOR MY GRANNI WHO WAS A MOTHER TO ME 22 YEAS TODAY,IT GETS EASER,I DONT KNOW IF YOU ARE A CHRISTEN,BUT TALKING TO YOUR CHURCH FRIENDS HELPS.OR TAKING TO A COMPLET STRANGER(LIKE ME ) I WILL ALWAY BE THERE IF YOU NEED TO TALK,,MY PRAYERS ARE STILL WITH YOU.HERE IS MY EMAIL neves2@tbaytel.net GOD BLESS

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

THANK YOU. I am pretty strong when it comes to feelings and I know it is going to be difficult but I have soooo many friends, family and church to lean on to make it easier.

You are welcome, if you need someone to talk to i'm just here. We may not know each other but there are times it will help to have someone to listen. God bless you. Just think the good times when you feel down. Will pray for u. Victoria

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by tippi 24 Dec 2009

Thank you again Victoria. I just love to come here and visit all my cuties friends. Gives me a warm feeling. Mildred

Tippi take ea. day as it comes & ask god to just get u through one day at a time. Healing or acceptance will come in time I promise. It's wonderful to have both sons there for u to lean on at this time. they have strong arms. God bless ! Lillian

so nice your sons will be with you these days.so you will be together this first Christmas without your DH. We will be thinking of you and here for you, many hugs and prayers. Hope we can support you a little here.and may your Christmasdays be merry and peaceful for you and the sons.

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God will direct and order your steps. He will NEVER leave you alone. Help will be there! That's a PROMISE! Continue to heal and be STRONG. It ALL comes in time. Cherish the memories. I am reminded of something my mother said to me before she passed. It has gotten me through many of things! Be BLESSED & HIGHLY FAVORED of the LORD & Man!