franni, as Deb has suggested you can just stop your machine from stitching the LOVE YOU - once it has stitched around the red heart - to eliminate it. I have stitched this out and it is truely a lovely heart. If you desire to have it completely removed - you will need to make your request to the owner of the web site. At the bottom of this page - you can click the CONTACT US button - also include the name and mumber of the design that you want request to have altered. Hope this helps.
Franni, I ran the lace heart through my digitizing program and the "gold" thread is the last to stitch. "Love you" is the very last, so you could stop your machine as soon as it finishes the gold around the heart.