by castelyn 07 Feb 2010

We had to have our dog (Blue) , put to sleep this morning.

He was 14 last year, and had a stroke, and he had arthritis, but he was doing ok.
But the last few weeks, we had to up his medication, for pain.
Last night , we could see that he was in pain almost all night.

He was like a child to us. And very protective towards me.
I know he has gone to a better place and no more pain for him.
We will miss him.

Hugs Yvonne

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by eleen 10 Feb 2010

Hi Yvonne

It is so bad to see your animals suffer. You were brave to have him put down. A few years ago my maltese then about 12 years started having heart problems taking medication everyday. I could not take her in and neither could my husband. In the end she died while we were at work and till today I'll never forget the expression on her little face when we found her - she must have suffered when she died - and I promised myself I will newxt time do what you had to do. I feel so sorry for you. Eleen

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castelyn by castelyn 10 Feb 2010

Thanks Eleen

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by crazystitcher 10 Feb 2010

I am so sorry, Yvonne to learn you had to make this heart-breaking decision and I know you will miss him greatly; I'm sure that when it comes to earthly guardians, you were the best that Blue could have had; he basked in your love and, although he has entered into eternity now, every time you think of him, he will be right there in your heart; I am sure that after you have grieved a while, Blue would be delighted to look down and see all that love you have to give being shared with with a new canine friend - that way he would know that all the love and wagging tails he gave back to you has given you the courage to love another dog who also needs your love.

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castelyn by castelyn 10 Feb 2010

Thank you so much - will have to see in the future about another "canine friend" maybe - Hugs Yvonne

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by nanniesara 08 Feb 2010

I am so sorry for your loss, i can truly understand that a pet is like a member of the the family. Sara

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

thank you Sara

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by moyed 08 Feb 2010

Lots of love to you, Yvonne. My furry babies are my children too and I know the pain when a decision has to be made, and the empty feeling when the physical presence is now longer with you. My last Samoyed is very old and the time will be fast approachng when she will need the ultimate love and sad decision.
When our loved ones die they become a memory, and the memory becomes a treasure forever.

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

thank you Helen

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by iris2006 08 Feb 2010

Yvonne, so sorry to hear about your loss, I know how you feel. B ut as you said it is good to know that Blue will be in better place without pain.

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Thanks Carla

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by asterixsew Moderator 08 Feb 2010

Our animals are so precious to us but we have the choice to end their suffering. Remember the good times which you had together, those memories will stay with you.

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Thanks, yes it is better than to see him suffering.

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by jacquipaul 08 Feb 2010

It is so hard to lose a pet, and even more difficult when we have to make the decision to let them go.
Our fur babies do become as little children, to us. Of course you feel like you have lost a child.
It is nice to think that these beloved pets are waiting in a place for us, free of pain and worry.
The cat in the picture looks like my Tico, who I nursed back to health twice after she was hurt by some animal or machine. We lost her after a third battle to save her life.
Love and hugs to you.
Jacqueline

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Jacqueline, thanks

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by designgirl 08 Feb 2010

So sorry for your loss, Yvonne. We had our dog put to sleep at the age of 13. She was a member of the family also. She had been in poor health for around 8 months. The last morning when she awoke you could tell something was wrong. The vet said she was here in body but her soul had died through the night. It was time to let her go. As hard as it is to see them go , it is best for them. Take care. Hugs Lynn.

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Lynn thanks

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by lbrow 08 Feb 2010

Yvonne, Seems as though my children & friends r having to do a lot of this lately & it's like losing their children. I am so sorry this had to happen but when they r suffering sometimes it's the only humane thing to do. Pain is terrible for anyone or anything & our pets depend totally on us to help them. They truly have unconditional love & they do not understand why they hurt. I know u grieve but u did the only thing U could. Lillian

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Lilian thank you

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by grandmamek 08 Feb 2010

Dear Yvonne, This is not an easy decision to reach. It is always sad to lose our loving pets. They become part of our families and we miss them as we would any of our loved ones, I know he is in Gods hands and without pain which is a much better place for him. I know you made the right decision, as this is better than seeing him suffer. Hugs, Mary

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Thank you Mary

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by marymilf41 08 Feb 2010

castelyn i am very sorry to hear i have a very hard time when a person or animal dies i had a black lab that i had to have put down in the middle of winter and we could not bury her body out on the hill till summer so i had her cremated and i have not been able to let her go yet she is still upon my book shelf i fill as though she watches over us my daughter even sat a chocalte candy by her for christmas as the family fills the same way i do so till we can let her go she will always be with us so i do understand how you fill i felt like i lost a child when she died it was not easy but i did get through it and you will to i will say prayers for you and your family may gods be with you love and hugs mary

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Thanks Mary, My husband and son buried Blue, in our garden under a tree which he loved to sleep under, with his favourite blanket and teddy.

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by auntbaba 08 Feb 2010

I'm so sorry to hear about Blue. I'm sure that he felt your love and affection just as you did his...Barb

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Thanks Barb

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by marietta 08 Feb 2010

Yvonne I was so sorry to hear about Blue's pain and having to go to sleep fore-ever. He is suffering no pain now, and you will always have fond memories. I can still, 5months later,relive the little things our little Suzie did when she was with us, and those are the fond memories that kept me going after having to have to put her to sleep too. They become our children so easily.
I think he has joined Suzie sitting at Gods feet, and looking out over us.
Lot of hugs and God bless.
Marietta

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Thank you Marietta

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by pennifold 08 Feb 2010

I'm so sorry for you Yvonne. Our previous dog was 14 and we had to have her put to sleep as she had heart disease. You are right they are like our children and it doesn't get any easier.

We now have Bella who will be 11 next month - the same breed of dog - a Sheltie (miniature Collie) as our first dog and I'm dreading the day when her turn comes.

My thoughts are with you. Love and blessings Chris

P.S. Our Bella is very protective of me too!

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Chris , thank you. My husband was thinking of getting another dog, awhile back, when Blue had his stroke. I don't know if I want to go through this again.

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by camylow 08 Feb 2010

Yvonne, So sorry to hear of your little friend loss.....GOD has him and he is playing with the utmost energy....Be happy in knowing that and it will see you through the hurt....deanna

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castelyn by castelyn 09 Feb 2010

Deanna thank you

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by emily16838 07 Feb 2010

It's so hard .....dogs are the best friends anyone could have....so sorry for your loss

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castelyn by castelyn 08 Feb 2010

Thank you

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by manami 07 Feb 2010

Yvonne, I'm so sorry for your loss! Pets become member of family, it's so sad when they are gone. Love to you, Yoriko

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castelyn by castelyn 08 Feb 2010

Thanks so much Yoriko, it will take some time ,as he sure was part of our family.

Hugs Yvonne

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by gerryvb 07 Feb 2010

sorry to read this Yvonne, it's always hard to take this decission.But you did the best you could for your beloved Blue. I know how difficult this is, I've had that situation twice , so hugs for you my dear.know you did it for him, so he wouldn't have to suffre anymore. Strenght and hugs **

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castelyn by castelyn 07 Feb 2010

Thanks Gerry, yes it was not easy , but I believe it was the right one.

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