As of today the Drs say he is ok physically, but will be in the hospital for at least 3 days. He was diagnosed as Bi Polar at the age of 35 and the Drs have not been able to find a medication that doesn't make him like a zombie, so he won't take his meds. He has 3 kids who are devastated by this illness, as well as his wife who in my opinion is a saint. He was so out of control last night when she called an ambulance that the police had to handcuff him and threatened to tazer him if he didn't get in the ambulance.
I'm sorry to run on. I just don't know how to deal with him. I know the power of prayer and although we have all been praying for a solution for years it doesn't seem to have worked. I'm hoping that an Army of Prayer Warriors will help. His name is Joe and he is 46 yrs old.
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I am so sorry Maryjo. I will certainly pray for your brother and his family , all of you. It sounds like that right now, prayer is what the family needs. I am having to deal with something very similar to Bi-polar and if diagnosed by someone besides his Heart Dr, could be what is really wrong with him. Since his heart attack and going back to work, he goes from being nice to being sooo angry at the least thing. I am actually beginning to get to the point that I am scared of what he might do at any point and time. He does not feel bad physically but can no longer control his mood swings. I have even thought about making an appt. with his heart Dr. just so I can talk to him. He takes NO calls over the phone.
It is not just the patient but all those around him that suffers when a family member is having mental or physical problems with no resolution. May the Lord find his way to let him have peace of mind. I am so glad that he has a loving family that will try to help him! Hugs to you, Linda
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by maryjo
17 Apr 2010
You will have my prayers in return. It sounds to me like you definitely need to find some answers. If I were you I'd talk to the family Dr., explain the issues he is having and get his advice on how to proceed. No one should ever have to live in fear of what a loved one may do when they lose control. Sometimes it is as simple as adjusting or changing their medication. You take care as we pray together.
24961MaryJo, I am so sorry. How devastating that must be.I will pray for all of you and especially Joe to be released from the torment that he is facing. I pray that the person who will help him most will be brought into the picture and be an advocate for the treatment that Joe needs.
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by maryjo
17 Apr 2010
Oh Jerilyn, I think you have hit the nail on the head. No one has been able to get through to him in all these years.I have continually said there has to be a KEY...but none of us seems to have it. Thank you for your thoughtfulness.
158713Mary so sorry to hear this. Will keep you and Joe and family in my prayers. Hugs Yvonne
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132773Praying for Joe get better and for the children and wife that are also going through this with him!
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9141Be assured of my prayers on Joe's behalf, and for his family. I have a 34 year old daughter who is Bi Polar so I understand too well what you are all going through. No medication has worked for my daughter either; but her new therapist has done wonders for her. Don't give up hope. God knows the answer and He can reveal it. Love and Hugs.*** Marjorie
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by maryjo
16 Apr 2010
Thank you so much. It certainly sounds like you understand. I pray your daughter continues to improve.
5755MARYJO I HAVE CLINICAL DEPRESSION AND I WENT THROUGH ALL THE DEUGSMI DIDENT LIKE THE FEELING EITHER THEN I FOUND CELEXA WHO WHAT A MIRICAL FOR ME.I AM SORRY ABOUT YOUR BROTHER. MY BROTHER WAS LIKE THAT,I WAS HIS SOLE CARE GIVER.IT WAS HEARD BUT LEARDEN ALOT.. I AM GLAD HE HAS A WIFE WHO CARES AND LOVES HIM..I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND HIM AND HIS FAMILEY,,,, LOVE LUCY I PRAY GOD WILL BUT A HEADGE OF PROTECTION AROUND YOU ALL, AND THE RIGHT MEDS BE FOUND IN JESSUS NAME I PRAY,,, GOD BLESS
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by maryjo
16 Apr 2010
THANK YOU SO MUCH LUCY. I BELIEVE YOU TRULY UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION BETTER THAN MOST.
12613Maryjo, you each have my prayers.
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by maryjo
15 Apr 2010
Thank you so much Shirlene..and you and Rick certainly still have mine. I hope you have been able to get into a routine that works for you both.
211079Will certainly pray for Joe, his wife and all of you in the family. Expect miracles!
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70914Oh God, he is so young! I 'm thinking how hard it's to his wife and kids. You used the correct word: devastated to them all. I can do nothing here. But one thing I can do, I'll pray for his health and peace of mind, and God give wisdom to the doctors, in order they prescribe THE medication, that will make your brother fell great and well.
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by maryjo
15 Apr 2010
The upheaval has been going on for years. I'm hoping this is rock bottom so he'll have no where to go but up. Thanks for your support.
3980oh this is very difficult for him and for the family. will pray and try to keep the faith.hugs fo you!
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743095One day your prayers and mine will be answered. try to keep positive! Such an awful situation! Sally
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24342I will pray for your brother and all the family. Hopefully during the days in the hospital they can find something that helps. I can pray for it. Hugs Angie
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109774My prayers are with you. Dealing with mental illness is such a difficult thing. My heart goes out to your family.
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by maryjo
15 Apr 2010
Yes it is. We now believe my Mother was bi-polar before it was a well know condition. She spent most of her adult life on Valium. Thank you for your prayers.
10494Joe is now on my prayer list along with you & the rest of his family. My heart goes out to you. Lillian
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by maryjo
14 Apr 2010
Thank You Lillian, just spoke to my Dad. He talked to Joe this afternoon. He is still in the hospital, on suicide watch. The Drs have adjusted his meds so hopefully it's a step in the right direction
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