him - he has no more Family Leave - no more insureance of any kind - no money - just the two of us - fending for ourselves, with very little help in knowing what to do or where to turn at this time.

Shirlener i will prying for you and Rick

Shirlene, I am so sorry that you are going through all this, but there is not much I can say that everyone else hasn't said already. I will keep you in my prayers. Arlene

Shirlene,
Is Rick a Veterian of the US military? If he is he may be eligable for some medical assistance from them. This is not charity, he earned it if he is a Vet.
Lots of prayers from Texas.
Mary

My dear Shirlene. You and Rick are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Praying good news comes your way very soon. Hugs Lynn

My goodness, thank you all for your kindness and support and most of all your prayers - I have read through your suggestions and want you to know - we have followed through on most of these on our own and the ones that we have not - we will look into - thanks for all that you have said and continue to do in supporting Rick and I through your prayers - we so appreciate it. We have recieved some food assistance from the church and feel so much better knowing that they could do that much for us - they said it was a weeks worth - but more like two or three - if we stretch it some. We are in the waiting mode at this time - I am so sorry that I made you all feel that I was in such dire straights - there are times - that it feels awful and rough - this is a time - that I do seek God's guidence and have spent the last couple hours communing with the Lord and asking for His guidence and acceptance of His will for Rick and I. Rick also has a new friend that has taken him walking - they over did it the first day - then he was busy the second - then Rick had twisted his ankle - but through this all - the two of them have been speaking via the phone and that has helped Rick out alot. We are receiving some great blessings with each day - as we get through this time - I can see - that I am the one that went away - however short it was - from God and His love - I am doing what I can and will continue to be positive and thank you each - for everything - you are all such very speical people - I am glad that we found each other. I will keep you posted - as the days or weeks go by. Unconditional Love, Shirene

Oh Shirlene, my heart goes out to you and Rick. I am so sorry to hear your news. Hopefully some of the advise given from other cuties might help. You are in my thoughts and I will continue praying for you and Rick.

Hugs and Love

Yvonne

dear shirlene, I only read this now, so sorry for late reaction( been very busy) I wished i could give you a hug now, I'll pray the Lord watches over you. Remember when God somewhere closes a door, he will open a window for you.
Love,hugs and prayers for you and Rick, my dear friend!

So sorry for all that you are going through. Know that you are in my prayers always.

Shirlene, everyone here loves you and misses you. Have faith in our prayers, God is listening! Please stop in and let us know how you are doing.

Here in our small town the church people help out untill your(our) goverment comes through !!Were is your chuch ?Can they (what church you attend)help you out till things get better??carolyn

Shirlene You have had a lot of suggestions, try to follow through on what you can. Remember it is always darkest before the dawn. I believe God has a reason for everything, I do know He is in charge but you must trust Him. Many times what we want is not what His will is for us. Keep the faith. You & Rick are still in my daily prayers. I know how hard all this is believe me I do.

My dear Shirlene, I wish I could help you. You and Rick are in my daily thoughts and prayers. Please take care. Hugs Lynn

Shirlene will be praying for you and Rick

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Sorry to hear about this. So many people gave you advise on what to do. Hang in there girl

You need to apply for the SS as soon as posible, you can do it over the phone or online, after six months of his illness he will start getting his check, Good Luck.

Dear Sweet Shirlene,
I am praying for you both and hoping that things improve. These trying situations make us stronger people. Don't let depression enter into your mind.
Love and hugs,
Jacqueline

You are included in my prayers.
From Bev

You are in my thoughts and prayers daily! Don't panick,things will get better, one day at a time.
Hugs, Nadyne

Shirlene I will be praying for you and Rick.

sending prayers for you.

Trying to trust in God? I would think that your faith would be undying considering you have seen time and time again His miracles on your behalf. There was an outporing of love and prayers when your mother passed and when your husband had the stroke.
You are not a widow, that is a blessing that you should not take for granted and should be thankful for everyday of your life.
Isn't it wonderful to have someplace to come and ask for prayers knowing you will be supported? You have been very fortunate to have the financial, emotional and spiritual support of so many members including the site owner with the red ">> A fund has been set up to help Rick and Shirlene!" link.
In this day and age there are so many people that have needs because of health issues or losing their jobs. Some maybe, more worse off than you. Many families have had to start living together to survive.
I have noticed from your posts that your website has been generating some business for you also, so thank God for that.
I know when I was left alone to fend for myself and my daughter I had to learn how to take care of us. I had no family or friends to help us. It was a most difficult time in my life. I trusted God to help me make it through minute by minute, day by day. Now pick yourself up dust yourself off and thank Him for the many blessings you do have.
Here are some helpful links

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by kezza2sew 17 Aug 2010

This will be a great help for Shirlene I am sure, some good friends on here...

by anangel 18 Aug 2010

Psssst,
Great advice; life is a constant challenge and
it is how we deal with those challenges that make us or break us! I have had many dark moments of doubt and despair, but kept holding on to the thread of hope. The Lord kept that thread from breaking or unraveling until I could climb out of the hole to see sunshine once again. He will for you, too, Shirlene! My prayers are with you and have faith that nothing will come your way that you and the Lord together can't handle!
Angel

Shirlene, Keeping you and Rick in our thoughts and prayers! Please keep the strong faith that you have that he will take care and provide for you and Rick during these trying times in your life! Big hug Kim

Shirlene I hope you can get some sort of money help.
I know how hard things can be when you have no money.
It would be a trying time for sure, but hang in there and pray for small mercies...love Kerry

Oh! Shirlene, I am devastated to read this news. I, like many others on here, hope that you can get help from your local church or any organisation that assists people in difficult situations.

What about your family, can't they help you out for a short while? There must be someone in some of the aid facilities that can help out too.

I continue to uphold you both daily in my prayers and I know God will guide you through this trial.

Love and blessings Chris

P.S. I too wish I could make you a huge food bundle to help you out.

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Oh, Shirlene, I wish I were close enough to bring you a pan of lasagna, a homemade pound cake, and a big hug! Just know that I would if I could.
I am praying for you and Rick, and, with your permission, I will add you to our church prayer warriors prayer list.
Just remember you are never in it alone; God is always there, and He knows exactly what you are going through. He cares for the birds of the air; He cares for you.
Blessings,
Diane

So sorry to hear of another trial you are going through....I will be praying for Gods blessing and provisions and for strength for each and everyday.....may God use His children to bless you abundantly.....Janet

Shirlene, he should be able to sign up for State of Utah unemployment. I know it is between $300 AND $400 a week a number of weeks. You take the paper work and go to the nearest unemployment office. they will help you file..My sweetie's son in law was laid off recently and he though he was too proud to ask for help, but he got unemployment until he got a job. It is better than having your power turned off. Love, Kay

Shirlene, I'm so sorry you are going through so much. But try to remember that God doesn't give us anymore than we can handle. I know it seems like you are at the end of your rope, but just HOLD ON because there is someone more powerful and stronger at the other end... I know everyone has given great advise for the disability and ssi, but don't forget your local churches also. Not just the one you attend, but others around are willing to help, along with some of the non-profits. But Jesus says if anyone ask in My name, it will be given. Let this be a time that will strengthen yours and Ricks faith. If you need any supplies for your machine, just PM me. :) Love you, my friend. Continuing to pray for God's Will in your lives. :) Hugs... Terre

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Shirlene, this such sad news today...I know you will weather the storm, thinking of you. Hugs Sally

The company my husband was working for in Tennessee didn't know they needed a license to work in North Carolina. They were doing the same work a year ago in North Carolina and a license wasn't needed. After three weeks not working they said they were fined and not going to pursue a license for North Carolina. This all happened in April. He left a job of ten years with benefits to take this work for which he only had worked six weeks. That's not long enough to get unemployment. He has degenerative arthritis in his spine and in discomfort most of the time and that is why he made the job change because being on his feet all day long had him crawling into the house every night. That was in April of this year. Before that in February our daughter lost her job in Florida and came home for an extended stay. Three weeks after she lost her job she was hired close to where we live so we have moved her in with us. In lieu of paying rent we are having her pay the internet and paying for satellite TV. So much for empty nesting. Things are not so tough for us but like you we have no health insurance and too many years away to get medicare. We are still paying off our medical bills from my two surgeries and little guy is starting his third year in college (he does have a job so we don't have to help too much). It is overwhelming and we still haven't figured it out. We are getting buy with optimistic caution and being very frugal. Heard a long time ago that things don't happen unless you make them happen. So every day we wake up and appreciate the new day and say "Things could be worse." My Blessings to you and your husband on your journey to recovery.

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by ansalu 17 Aug 2010

I live in Germany and I'm always shocked when I'm aware how many people in the US live without a health insurance. Hope for better solution in the future for all persons in need...

by capoodle 17 Aug 2010

Unless you have health insurance where you work here in the states it is several hundreds of dollars a month to get an independent health insurance policy for a family.

Shirlene, I'm so sorry things are getting even tougher for you all. I pray for you both often and will continue to do so. Knowing God will comfort you and guide you and Rick in doing what needs to be done for help, will give you a peace that only He can give. Take one second at a time because there are times we can only cope second by second.I pray Rick is not feeling guilty because he got sick. I'm sure he hates seeing you worried and being a man he must feel he needs to take care of you and at this time he can't. I'm so sorry for him and of course you slso. I wish I could make all this better for all, but I can't. There are so many praying people here on Cutie's and we all will continue to remember you always. In Christ, Judy

You hang tough. I hope something comes along for you and you can work out of this situation. So many are going through rough times now. I know that there are programs out there to help, but just don't know how to help get you in touch with them. Check with the state, for each state is different. We continue to remember you in our prayers.

Shirlene, I wish you lots of strength for you and your husband.

My prayers & love go out to you both (((((((((HUGS)))))))))

Shirlene, You and Rick continue to be in my prayers and thoughts.File for his disability as soon as possible because it does take a while. Here in Alabama the utilities do have a share program where they will help with the bills .I am sure your state has something simular. This might get you over the hump until his Disability gets started.Check out your State programs . I know God is watching over the both of you. Love Nancy

Oh sweetheart I am so sorry to hear of all these problems. I will pray and keep praying for you. I agree keep pursuing for the disability and social security. I don't know about your state but food stamps are also worth applying for if you can. If I had a magic wand I would send a boat load of money your way, But, alias I can't find my coach or glass slippers. Hugs and prayers. Love Cindy B

Shirlene I am so sorry wish I could help you but as you know I am in a bind also.all I can do is pray and pray and pray some more.JUst remember God will not put more on you than you can handle just keep on praying he will take care of your needs I love you .Lena Mae

Rick and you will be in my daily thoughts and prayers. Carol

Oh Shirlene, I am so sorry to hear this. You are a strong woman but there is only so much that can be put upon your shoulders. I pray things turn around for you and that you can get assistance of some kind.
Debra

Shirlene you and Rick are in my prayers. I wish I could help.

You continue to be in my prayers and thoughts. If you haven't investigate the local and state assistance programs. You may need to contact them several times to be sure they are procesing your requests.

Shirlener88, Try social security disability. I went through the samething and didn't know about it. It will take awhile but if a Doctor says he is disabled and can't work he can go on it until he is 65 then he goes on his regular social security. After years of struggling and problems after another I found out about this and even received some back pay thay was coming to me. My time limit to apply almost ran out. Be sure to apply asap. I don't know your whole situation but apply.

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by lenamae 16 Aug 2010

this is right all your doctor has to do is say he can not work and they will ask him to go to one of their doctors but if he can not woek then he will be ok .I know people here that is on it and could very well work.
Lenamae

So sorry to hear this. It seems like you take 2 steps forward and 3 back. Are you having any luck with ssi or disability. I know here it takes 5 months to get ss disability, but faster for ssi. I pray you receive good news soon. God bless you both
Bev

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by shirlener88 16 Aug 2010

Not heard from them, as of yet. Thanks!

Shirlene you are in my thoughts. I really dont know what to say apart from you being in my thoughts a lot. Life is sometimes very unjust and you two have had more than your share of bad luck.