am taking him to the doctor's - we have no insurance and I fear for what might be going on with him - for one thing - he has lost over 65 pounds since the stroke - about 50 he did need to get rid of - but now with this and his history of bleeding with the stroke - I am so worried for him - what it means - what they will find - I am venting and ranting and I know it - but I will be calm in a minute and face the issue - I know that God will guide us through this - and if it means a high medical bill - I guess that is what will happen - but we do need to get some control over this bleeding and deal with the medical issues at hand. You all have been so kind to pray for him in the past and I would appreciate it - if you would do it again for me, too. THANKS! Shirlene

Shirlene, you and Rick are both in my prayers. I just wonder if Rick has been on any "blood thinning" medication since his stroke. this would be anything like asprin warfrin heparin. The dose of these drugs being to high could be causing bleeding. I have just realized that this post is from 2 weeks ago but it is something to be aware of.
prayers for you and Rick. people can recover from strokes.
Alice

Prayers for you and Rick!
Sometimes things just seem too much,but somehow we seem to get through.We went through similar circumstances when we retired...11 mos. later my husband was diagnosed with lung cancer. We had just moved to a new community and did not know a soul. It is a long story with a good ending. They took his right lung and 17 yrs. later he is doing just fine.
The Good Lord takes care of us in His way for His reasons.

Praying for you and Rick,
Love, Nadyne

My prayers are with you.

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by shirlener88 29 Sep 2010

thanks lulu

YOU KNOW i AM HERE FOR YOU...PRAYERS ARE HEADING UPWARDS AND OUTWARDS FOR YOU...LOVES DEANNA

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by shirlener88 29 Sep 2010

Thanks sweetie.

My thoughts are with you. Keep strong.

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by shirlener88 19 Sep 2010

Thanks dear one.

Thinking of the pair of you and hope that there is an improvement in Rick since this was posted.

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by shirlener88 18 Sep 2010

Caroline, he is doing better today - resting alot.

I don't know how I missed this, I was really sick last week and didn't stay on the internet very long, but I continue to pray for you and Rick.....I know you are relying on God but I also know worry can creep in from time to time....may God guide the doctors and give you and Rick strength for each new day....I'm so glad God doesn't give us more than we can handle, although sometimes we wonder...ultimately God does brings us through.....blessings Janet

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by shirlener88 18 Sep 2010

Janet, I do hope you are feeling better by now - as for Rick he is doing better - resting alot more than he has in the past - so I know how bad he really was, now. We do rely on our trust in the Lord. There are times when I wonder if he knows it is us that is going through all this - Hehehe! Like perhaps he thinks we are better than we are in dealing with these things?

My prayers for you and Ricky are constant. I pray that you will find a way to get the help you need. We all need help at one time or another in our lives. Much love!! H&*

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by shirlener88 17 Sep 2010

Sally, thank you so very much dear one.

Hi Shir, so very sorry to hear you and Rick are still having a rough time of it, take care hugs and prayers always .... Glenda x0x0x0

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by shirlener88 17 Sep 2010

Thanks Glenda - we appreciate them, too.

Prayers for you both and lots of love.

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by shirlener88 17 Sep 2010

Jacqueline, thank you dear.

Sending you thoughts of love and praying for the Lord to sustain you and your husband through his continued recovery. Anita

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by shirlener88 16 Sep 2010

Anita, thank you so very much.

by capoodle 16 Sep 2010

Every little bit helps as I go through the hospital and doctor bills with a fine toothed comb and when there is doubt about double items I have contacted the billing office and most of the time gotten them removed. Don't know if this could help you any. My DH still does not have a job or health insurance and I worry every day as he has heart problems and remembering that $47,000 hospital bills still brings stress to me.

You are continually in my thoughts and prayers, sweetie.
Keep us posted -- we care for you and Rick very much.
Blessings,
Diane

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Diane, thank you so very much.

I keep you and Rick in my prayers daily. I will continue to do so. Hugs, Mary

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Mary, thanks dear.

Thank you to each of you - we got the testing done and another application in the process - we will just wait and see - what the report says - I got Rick's presctiption filled and he is doing better but not yet his best. We will take this one day at a time - thanks so much for your prayers and emotional support - we couldn't ask for a better CUTE family.

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Hi Shirlene, so sorry to hear this news, my thoughts are with you and Rick:)

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Sheryl, thank you dear. We appreciate it.

Dear Shirlene, I pray every day that things will get better for the two of you. Seems like your trials are not over yet. I do hope everything starts to get better soon. Love and prayers, Mildred

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Mildred, thank you so much - we must have something that we are in need of to learn - we will get through this time, too - one day at a time.

Shirlene of course we all will pray for you guys. You are always in out thoughts

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Marthie, thank you ever so much - we do appreciate them.

Dear Shirlene, all that is serious, and i understand that you are very worried. Try to rest , take care of you 2 Rick needs that you are strong. You and Rick are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and love Claude

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Claude dear, thank you - we so appreicate you thoughtfulness. We will rest this evening.

Shirlene i will pray for you both Good is god . Maria

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Maria, I do agree, God is good. Thanks!

Shirlene you & Rick are always in my prayers. I will continue. Good luck let us know the outcome. Arlene

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Arlene, thank you so very much.

Shirlene said a prayer for you both. My heart goes out to you.

Oh sweet heart you are in my prayers. I am not sure when this happened. My life has been crazy and I have not had time to check in with everyone for a few weeks. If I could I would send a pot of gold your way, as it is though I will pray, Love and hugs
Cindy B.

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Cindy dear, it was just yesterday and what a sweet thought. I hope your young friend Triniada is doing better, too.

by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Opps, I meant Trinadad.

oh dear, never stopped praying for the both of you. It's all in the hand of the Lord,but we will send our prayers to Him to ask Him to bless and take good care of the both of you.
When Rick is resting, please try to rest yourself too.Yur rest is very important so you can be that guide for Rick.many hugs and love for you.My thoughts are with you both.

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Oh sweet Gerry, thank you very much - I will try to rest when Rick rest - but he may need much more than me - I will care for him - the best I can. Thanks!

You and Rick are ALWAYS in my prayers dear friend, I never leave your side and you never leave my thoughts.

Please try not to worry too much as it may be something as simple as hemorrhoides and may only require topical medication and a change of diet.

Pity I haven't had many people interested in buying my monogram designs as I was hoping to give you more tangible assistance from the sale of them.

Prayers are with you Sweetie.
HUgs and love, me

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Oh you sweet ray of sunshine - I love this new avatar - it fits you well. Thanks for your love and prayers, which is all we asked for or expect. Thanks, Shirlene

Oh dear Shirlene, You and Rick are on my prayer list. I know you have faith in God, so we have to trust in Him. Glad that Rick has managed to get some rest, you must also rest when he does. You need to look after yourself as well.
Hugs and Love Yvonne

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by shirlener88 15 Sep 2010

Yvonne, thank you - I love your big hug and roses - I really appreciate your prayers and I will rest - when I can. Rick is resting now, but I have work to do - Hehehe!

Thank you each - the doctor took blood - reviewed many things - gave Rick a prescription and ordered some tests - Rick is resting and we will see what tomorrow brings - we have several appointments setup and the testing is part of them. I will keep you posted and we each appreciate your kind prayers - I believe in the power of prayer and I know that God is guiding us through the whole process.

Shirlene
I did not have an opportunity to post on your earlier post about Ricks fall. My apologies.
I am a little confused, from reading your post about his fall. You said,
"I hope he didn't really injure himself - when you fall - you sometimes don't notice the little things that make it hard to walk or move around the next day."
I am shocked that the paramedics did not take this into consideration! This is most certainly negligence on their part.
I think maybe you should contact an attorney about this negligence.
In regards to high medical bills, join the club.
Unfortunately we do not live in a country that has Universal Health Care coverage.
BUT we do live in a country that there are many channels to find assistance.
If worse comes to worse, you will have to file bankruptcy to eliminate your medical debt.
IF you are already receiving any type of federal or state aid (food stamps, homestead tax credit, medicaid)
no one can garnish your wages while you are receiving any of these services.

If you are not receiving any of these services, why not?

You need to apply... yesterday!

In a 2 person residency with no income, you definitely qualify.

Please remember...
"God helps those who help themselves".
As an example, if you asked me to help you plant a garden, but then just watched me as I planted the garden for you, I was not actually helping you.
I would be doing the work for you.
Many Christians fall into the trap of inactivity.
Many Christians ask God for help, but then expect God to do everything Himself.
They excuse this by pointing to the fact that God will provide according to His will and in His timing. If you are in need of assistance, ask the Lord to help you find assistance - but then be active in actually looking for the assistance.
While it is in His power to do so, it is highly unlikely that God will cause any assistance to come looking for you.
My prayers are with Rick and with you.

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Thanks for the prayers - believe me - we have applied in every directions that we can - we are waiting on them. So in the mean time - we have to pay out of pocket for everything and the pockets are bare. I am doing the footwork, believe me.

Oh My! Shirlene, I'm sorry to hear about this, but like Laura said it might be his meds. I pray it is that simple and not something else. You both are always in my prayers. God makes a way when there seems to be no way. He WILL take care of you, all He wants is your trust in Him and ASK Him for His help... He tells us He never gets tired from hearing our voice. Keep us "in the know." Love Terre

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Thank you Terre, we sure appreciate it.

Shirlene, I along with many others have not stopped praying for you and Rick. I'm so sorry he is having this problem along with everything else. Please know that I pray for you both often and will coninue to do so. In Christ, Judy

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Thank you Judy, we do appreciate it.

I don't think that we have stopped praying for you, and sometimes it does feel that we are given more than one person can deal with, but there is a plan in there somewhere. Special praryers will be said this evening. I hope that things are more positive for you tomorrow. Hugs

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Beth, thanks for the on-going love and suport - we do appreciate the prayers.

You can be asured that the prayers are there for you and Rick. I know you have faith in God so we have to trust that he will do the guiding.

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Carolyn, thank you so very much - we so appreciate it and we do know who is in charge and I do trust that the Lord will guide us, as always.

Dear Rick & Shirlene I am so sorry to hear about this again. Yes we will pray and put Rick on our prayer chain.
I know these are such hard times with no ins but let God take care you & Rick just get rest & get well.
Love you lots Virginia

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Virginia, we so appreciate your prayers. We will do.

Dear Shirlene and Rick,

I haven't stopped praying for you and I hope all will be sorted out today when you visit your doctor. I know you have a strong faith and I'll just keep asking for God to keep everything under control.

Love and blessings Chris

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Chris, thank you - I can breath abit easier tonight - we so appreciate your ongoing prayers.

Shirlene, absolutely have not stopped. God knows your needs and will meet them. I know it, I believe it.

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Jerrilyn, thank you so very much. We appreciate it.

oh my god.. I am so sorry.. prayers on the way

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Kathy, thanks dear.

I'm so sorry to see this tonight, and prayers for the Lord's healing hand to be placed on Rick to help him and you through this. Sending big hugs and praying for the very best for you both.
*4U and one for Rick, too.

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Mary Ann, thank you dear - we sure appreciate it.

Shirlene, you and Rick are always in my prayers. It is probably the meds causing this bleeding - perhaps the doctor will just need to adjust the meds. Bless you both! hugs, Laura*

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Laura, thank you so much - not sure it is the meds, however.

of course prayers for you both and great big bear hugs Love Lisa

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Lisa, thanks - we needed that.

tonight is bible study @ our church & i will get the whole church praying Hang in their Girl God is still on the throne!!!Carolyn

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Oh Carolyn, thanks so very much - oh yes, I do know that.

i will pray for you both Shirlene
very big hugs Sonja

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by shirlener88 14 Sep 2010

Sonja, thank you so very much dear.