give thanks for him. I didn't understand him very well when I was a teenager. He was quite and reclusive. But I grew to understand why and to appreciate him for the quite, unasuming man he was. I miss him and love him. Today is your day Dad, I love you after all these years. He was 20 years older than my mother, and died 10 years after her.

Isn't it wonderful how certain dates bring memories flooding back. My mother died when she was fairly young and I still celebrate her birthday each year. I hope the 1st was a good day for you. Sarah.

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by twee 06 Dec 2010

Thanks, it was a great day for me. To remember keeps those loved ones near and dear to us.

I did not have my father in my early yrs. He was a Marine & in WW11. His sister raised me. He remarried & as I grew older we were very close & I loved him dearly. In his latter yrs. he had alzheimers & since I was his oldest child He always remembered me. I was the one who held him in my arms as he drew his last breath & I so look forward to seeing him again in heaven one day. I'm glad you grew to love & appreciate your dad Teri.

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

Me to, that will be a glorious reunion.

How lucky you are to have these thoughts and memories of your father. Thank you for sharing with us.;)

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

my treat

Terri this is a lovely post. Maybe your father did not understand you as a teenager either. But it is good that you did get to understand him. There are times I feel I did not know my late father. This post has made me remember my father and mother too as it is 23 days off a year since she died

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

We were the second family, and his first wife ran off with another man. He was afraid to open his heart up.

This is a very sweet post! I understand as I miss my Dad and Mom so much. Gosh, those of us who had "loveable" parents (and there are those who didn't, bless their hearts!) - we have to consider ourselves very lucky indeed!
To your Dad on his Birthday!!!!! hugs, Laura*

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

Thanks so much

Twee,
I understand your sentiments. I lost my mother and father many years ago, and it is strange how I still sense their presence at times. Such as when I am getting upset about something, I hear my mom's saying, "T'ain't no biggie, Hon, let it go!" It always calms me. My dad was a quiet man, as yours, did not say much, rarely showed affection, but, his look and tone made me feel loved. I miss them both terribly, even after all these years, and relish the moments of reflection where they are with me still!
Angel

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

What a fun saying to remember. Sounds like you had a wonderful mom.

What a wonderful tribute to your dad. I still love and miss my dad. I think he was an amazing man and he gave me so much that makes me the person I am.

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

Writing about him and remembering him, keeps him with me.

Teri dear, I do understand. I am glad to see that you honor him with your reflections back. *4U

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

Thanks my dear

What lovely sentiments Terri, I know what you are going through. Love Chris

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

Thanks

What a wonderful way to celebrate your father and memories! Big Hug to you!

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by twee 03 Dec 2010

Thanks