what happens with this website?

I don't know why this post is brought up again. 10tje's lovely site is back again . and it's worth to visit there are a lot ofd great ideas, projects and designs to see and to download.!

qui peut etre assez bete pour saccager un site de partage. Il mériterait d'etre interdit à l'accès sur tous les sites,cela lui "ferait les pieds" comme on dit en France

Hallo das ist aber schade, sie haben uns so viel freude gemacht!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Was war das für ein Mensch?????????
Es gibt viele schreckliche Leute!!!
Vielen vielen dank für alles wir vermissen Sie sehr!!!

I don't know what happened, but I shall pray that everyone involved will find healing and peace.
Cindy B.

I was just reading 10tje's comment. Not just her own site but here too! I've been here a very long time and can't understand some people. She says it will also be her last post here on Cute. I hope not because I will miss her greatly. The person responsible for all of this needs to get a life. What have you accomplished by attacking this woman who was nothing but kind, generous and so helpful to so many? I know I've said this before but I'm saying it again. Are we not all adults? Grow up! I feel like I'm back in jr high again. 10tje I really hope you come back when the hurt subsides. The majority of us will miss you too much.

I am so saddened to hear that one of our Cuties has left our site and cancelled her website.

Life is too short - don't listen to those who hurt you "10". Just ignore whoever it is and enjoy your passion - I for one loved your work and hope that you will come back once again.

Love and blessings Chris

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Hi, I am new to this site and to the 10embridery site as well, Thanks for all of your beautiful designs and pray that you have a very blessed year. Annie

So sorry to hear this. I loved your site.

What a pity that she's taken off her site. She has wonderful designs and she was so generous with giving her designs for free to all the others.
How often does this happen even when there are women involved that have the same hobby and should support each other instead of making trouble?
Here in Germany you can see that this happens about every year once that the bad rumors start between two crafters and then a real battle starts between their "followers". I have to admit this seems to be something typical female: cuttiness :o(
So don't let them destroy your work and stay here and at your own site. Like one of the best german bloggers (Luzia Pimpinella) said: This blog is my "living-room" and I will disinvite everybody who will bother me here. Please do the same and kick them out ;o)
Greetings, Bettina

10tj I have loved visiting your site as have many others. From reading others comments here that many people hold you in very high esteeme. We have listend to what you have said. Personally I am very sorry to hear that you have been hurt by someones actions.

You have produced some great designs and hopefully will go on to produce more. You are one of the Cuties who has been a inspiration to me with your designs so freely given and in setting up your own website. I am ending with an expression from my grandparents which was 'there is nowt so queer as folk' which roughly means there is nothing as strange as people

Take care.

Sorry to hear that you have been under so much pressure 10tje, you are the only one that can make any decisions....but remember ....when 1 door closes another 1 open. Take care and best of luck to you.

Once a Cutie, always a Cuties :) I do hope you're able to come back and chat with us, 10tje :)

I enjoyed your designs and projects and will miss visiting your site. You sure are one talented lady and perhaps I should have told you this sooner to maybe help you weather the storm you were going through. I hope things get better for you soon and that you'll pop in and see all the msgs of support being left for you in our community. :) xXx

To 10tje: Some people just can't be nice. I'm sorry for this harassment and you had your site well set up. If you get over this negative action and set up another site will be there to support you.

Really really sorry to read this, wish you all the best 10tje! love Peggy

10tje,
I know it is none of my business to pop up and give advice but ....You had a nice site with alot of very great designs, you worked hard to get it set up and going so... why in the world would you just give up and let some jealous people make your decisions for you? You hang in there and do not let this person/persons get the satisfaction of taking away something that you enjoy so much!

You need to hold your head up and be very proud of all that you have done! I can not imagine why any person would want to cause so much hurt to all of us causing you to shut down the site that you worked so hard to acheive! I do know it happens because it has been an ongoing thig in a couple of Yahoo Groups for several yrs now. I got tired of the mess going on for so long and I just cancelled by membership to both of the sites. I know it hurts to work so hard to acheive a goal and when it finally happenes, someone trieds to ruin it for you. I do hope that you get all of the mess worked out and can continue what you love to do! When it comes to the point that it is more trouble than it is worth and makes your life miserable, it is time to either fight or get out! My personality is to FIGHT but I will say that I have hurt my ownself at times fighting for a lost cause.

The main thing for you to remember is that you are the most important person in this venture and you must do what makes your life easier and the happiest! Good luck to you in all you do! You hang in there and follow your dreams even if you have to find another way to do it! Hugs and blessings, Linda

Oh my, oh my, I wish this kind of thing would end...
There is so much tragedy in this world, why would anyone purposely cause more hurt. The bullies in this world have got to STOP before they bring the pain that they cause others back upon themselves twofold, it will happen and then they will not understand why their pain is so great.....they do not recognize themselves as bullies.....well maybe we should help them recognize themselves....To me a bully is someone who has no regard for anyone elses feelings but themselves...They FORCE their own opinions on others as if it is their right to do so...They place judgements on others as if it is their place to do so....They inflict mental anguish by finding others weaknesses and then take aim at that weakness as often as possible openly and through inuendos....In summary they are very unhappy & delight in being a part of causing the unhappiness of others........Cuties, this is just my reflection of a bully and I hope that we can just love one another because we are different and not dislike each others differences......Hugs..Vicki

It is so sad that people don't have better things to do with their lives, attacking you is their weakness, be strong, you have so much talent to share, don't let some petty person bring you down...just remember "what goes around, comes around"...may GOD bless you and give you courage to overcome this, we hope to see you back very soon!!!

Oh oh, trouble once again. sooooo sorry to hear that,Keep your chin up, you have MANY FRIENDS HERE.
do not let one rotten apple spoil it all!!
Take care Hugs edith

Dear 10tje,

We will miss you so much. Your site was wonderful, and it sickens me to think of people who are jealous and spiteful. I was always amazed with your talent and your generosity in sharing your beautiful designs. I was also amazed at your productivity and creativity.

Please, know that you are loved, and that I have an empty spot in my heart for you.

My prayers will be with you. I pray that God blesses your life abundantly, and gives you good fortune in all things.

Love and hugs,
Jacqueline

10, I am so sorry this has happened to you, Been there with the hurt and acuzations. I know you are bigger than letting this ruin your life on Cute. You are loved by many, don't let one or two push you out. And please don't let it make you bitter, and I am talking from experience. I do not know what has happened, but whatever, we want you and your wonderful posts. Hugs & Prayers, Judy

Whoever did what they did to upset 10tje, just remember the ole saying, what goes around comes around. I fine it very sad that there is someone out there that could do such a thing. 10tje, you will be missed and I do hope you will reconsider your decision to pull the plug on your site and to not join us here at cute. Carol

Oh MY!What has happened here? Be strong 10. We have a song that says "There's more with us than be with them, we're on the winning side"... Don't let a few people destroy what you have built up. There are hundreds of CUTIES that are supporting you. I don't know any details, but God doesn't favor those who try to destroy others, whether it is jealousy, or any other way. You will let us know when you are ready to put your website up again? Hugs, Terre

Too bad we can't know who the person or people is/are so we could have a chance to weigh in on the subject. It is unfair for someone to run someone else off like that 10tje helped me in the past also. Why does one person have to be nasty enough to run another person away from their website and this one? Jealousy has no place on a site like this where we all try and help one another learn and experiment! I hope the person who accused her of whatever gets what is coming to them, what goes around comes around!

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by fannyfurkin 11 Jan 2011

You are so right Lee.

They say there's a rotten apple in every bunch. Don't let the few negative, awful people outweigh the care, friendship and support of the rest of us. Whatever your decision-and I don't think you should leave here entirely-I thank you for all you have so generously given.
Jo

This is awful!! 10tje helped me out on a project without hesitation!! I don't understand what happened. I hope whatever it was - it gets resolved. What can we do for her? Laura

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by greysewist 11 Jan 2011

Maybe we've found our next recipient for a quilt or angels, if someone knows where to send them and is up to coordinating?

10je we love you bring your site back, I will help you and so will other cutes, I am sure.

PLEASE COME BACK> WE MISS YOU!!!! DeVon :-(

ttt because 10tje answered her herself too.

For anyone who will listen.
My site is gone.
Someone apparently thought it was fun to bother me.
I am falsely accused again.
Now I'm tired and unfortunately for you, no fun anymore.
I also do not feel like to be here at Cute.
This will be my last message.
I'm still be reached at my email address.
But people who hate me, please stay away.
Maybe my site back, but not in the same form.
a jealous person has done this to you.
Sorry, but it is no different.
10 months I've had fun.
Now that is completely gone.

Dear cuties, thanks for the ones who supported me.
goodbye.

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by 10tje 11 Jan 2011

oops, I mean sorry but it's true.instead of Sorry, but it is no different.

10embroidery@gmail.com

by persiancatlover 11 Jan 2011

i'm sorry to hear about your trouble,jallossy is a verry bad sicknes,i will miss all your beautifull works,gr connie

by manami 11 Jan 2011

10, I'm so sorry to hear that! Please put your page up again, you have a lovely site and everyone love you and your work.
I probably know what happened, it hurts, I know, and it wont get any better, so I'll be waiting for your page coming back, don't let a jealous person destroy something beautiful like your website. Love and blessings, Yoriko

by fannyfurkin 11 Jan 2011

Please put your site back 10 it is a good site and y

by fannyfurkin 11 Jan 2011

WE LOVE YOU.

by castelyn 11 Jan 2011

So sorry to read this, 10tje. Jealousy makes them nasty. Hugs Yvonne

by dailylaundry 11 Jan 2011

I hope you know that we appreciate you and your talent! Whatever happened - is there some way we can help? Laura

by jacquipaul 11 Jan 2011

Dear 10tje, We will miss you so much. Your site was wonderful, and it sickens me to think of people who are jealous and spiteful. I was always amazed with your talent and your generosity in sharing your beautiful designs. Know that you are loved, and that many people have tender spots in their hearts for you.
My prayers will be with you.
Love and hugs,
Jacqueline

by lindalee757 11 Jan 2011

wow-I don't know the story behind the jealousy and mean behavior-but I so sorry to hear that it caused someone to do away with their site-I can't remember specific designs from your site, but I do remember you icon and knowing that you had nice stuff. Good luck and hope you come back and just thumb your nose at the haters.~linda~

by lique 11 Jan 2011

Het is altijd moeilijk als je mensen hebt die je het leven moielijk maken omdat jij talent hebt en zij graag talent zouden willen hebben. Laat je niet kisten en in een hoek jagen, je hebt veel mensen die je bly hebt gemaakt met jouw ontwerpen. Laat niet een of twee mensen jouw plezier in ontwerpen en maken bederven!

by lindalee757 11 Jan 2011

wow-I don't know the story behind the jealousy and mean behavior-but I'm so sorry to hear that it caused someone to do away with their site-I can't remember specific designs from your site, but I do remember you icon and knowing that you had nice stuff. Good luck and hope you come back and just thumb your nose at the haters

by sissibrode 11 Jan 2011

I'm so sorry to ear about that....
jealousy is a bad bad thing !!!
I love your work and thank you for your generosity 10tje !!!
Hope you will come back soon !
Hugs
Sissi

by sewdeb 11 Jan 2011

I am so so sorry that you have been attacked and maligned. I've only just recently become acquainted with your site, but it was wonderful! You are so so talented. Please don't let these nasty vindictive people force you out! We need and want you you here! *'s

by meganne 11 Jan 2011

This is very sad and a terrible thing to have happen.

The embroidery digitising world seems to be very competitive and sometimes attracts the most deranged, jealous people, though heaven only knows why.

I don't think I ever visited 10tje's site but, from everyone's comments, it sounds like one I would have enjoyed visiting so now it upsets me even more that some vicious, ignorant, low life has caused us the loss of a beloved member of our community and caused her such pain that she has decided to quit her favourite hobby.

If you know who this person is, I wish you would tell us as we don't welcome cruel, jealous people here at Cute.

I pray that you will come back and let us help you find a way to deal with this moron.
Hugs and blessings, Meganne

by shirlener88 11 Jan 2011

So sorry to hear this - I will be praying for you dear.

by reanav 11 Jan 2011

Ho scaricato, molti ricami, e mi dispiace tanto; il sito era allegro e pieno di colore come io immagino debba essere un ricamo. TORNA PRESTO 10tje

by sandralochran 11 Jan 2011

Sorry to hear what has happen to you.Hope you will return some day

by obaachan 11 Jan 2011

I am so sorry that some mean people have ruined it for all of us ! I loved your site and your designs. I hope you come back !

by embroiderymad 11 Jan 2011

I am very sorry to hear that someone was so mean to make you feel this way. You had a great site and it was wounderful of you to share your talents with us. I hope you see that more people loved your site. Don't give up that only lets them win.

by sewfrenzie 11 Jan 2011

You will be greatly missed. We all hope you come back soon. You are appreciated by far more people than the negative ones. I have seen several of your works. I would rather learn from someone with your experience than be jealous of your talent. Jealous would get me nothing, however my asking questions I learn for each and every one of you AND have a chance to develop my own talent whether is the same or as good as yours means nothing to me. Your talents are what make you and give you the followings you have. A wise person will learn from you instead of be cruel and mean. I think we all realize right now you need some time to lick your wounds so to speak, but we ask that you remember all the good caring people you have met through your site and others. And please come back soon!!

by sewist1 11 Jan 2011

Have the "embroidery police" been at it again?

by sewmom 11 Jan 2011

I love your designs and your site. I hope you can take a break and figure out how to start over. You are already missed.

by relaxsew 17 Jan 2011

So sorry to hear about your site. I never got a chance to visit it. But by the way the other cuties have talked about it, it was a good one. I know how you must have taken pride in your site. And then to have to close it. I hope the hurt will go away soon for you. Remember not all people are hurtful. I will keep you in my prayers.

by theduchess 17 Jan 2011

Sorry to hear you have closed the site. please do not stay away from here though. We are all Friends are all here.Stella

What a dreadful shame. She had a lovely website.

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by gerryvb 11 Jan 2011

I totally agree !!

by kathyjt 11 Jan 2011

I hate what every has happened. I truly hope she puts her site back up.

Hi connie, unfortunally 10tje has closed her lovely website.I sure will miss her site too!if you want more details you can pm her or send her a mail.

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by fannyfurkin 11 Jan 2011

I am really upset about this. I did not know she had closed her site, I was only talking to her a few days ago and she did not mention this. I have pm her. I hope she still comes to cute.

by persiancatlover 11 Jan 2011

dank je gerry,gr connie