work on the PC - the more trouble seems to happen - it was a good thing - that I had a lady scheduled to come sit with Rick for a couple hours - so I could get out of here - she even cleaned the floor and talked to Rick the whole time I was gone - however - I had decided to get a hair cut - shouldn't have done that today - I guess - the gal cut the back way too short - left the sides really long - for how short the back was - I cam home and tried working with it - to no avail - so I had to go back and get it fixed - it seemed that I couldn't get the gal that ruined it to fix it - so someone else had to do it for free - it looks better - but I am having so much trouble with the back - parts of my natural curl just want to flip out - when it should flip under - I am so wrroed - we got our taxes done and we owe a whole lot - I have no idea where that money will come from - they will have to take payments - we are on such a fixed income now - I don't know where the money is going to come for all Rick's meds - he doesn't qualify for any state or federal help - no insurance compay will take him on with his condition. I am just whinning now - I need to find something to get my mind off all of this terrible trouble. I will be on my knees praying. Love to you each.

Shirlene, I have heard all my life "it's always darkest before the dawn." God has looked after you so far & He will continue to do so of this you can be very sure. I pray for strength & peace for you & that God will ikeep you in the center of His will. You will overcome as long as He is in charge.Much love/Lillian

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by shirlener88 15 Mar 2011

Thank you my dear Lillian, love Shirlene

Oh Dear Shirlene. I feel your pain. It is in time like these that we really have to hold one another up. How? I do not know. I have also said so many prayers for our financial situation to improve, just like yours. I have been unable to work since my brain surgery and feel so bad that it is all on my husband's shoulders. I have prayed for work and every lead lands up in the ditch! I don't know why God is not answering this prayer, to ease our financial burdens. You are a good person and I am sure He will honor your requests. I have cut down on my medication to save money, to the shock and horror of my doctor. We also do not qualify for help, and now the government in Australia is imposing more taxes on us - carbon tax, flood tax etc etc. Fuel is so expensive and it puts the prices of everything up. I, like you do not know how to cope or where to turn. We have a huge mortgage on our home and we are in our 50's. Our home is modest and is not in a wealthy area. The reason is that we had to start over in our 40's when we arrived here after fleeing violence, unrest and anarchy in our country. We have no family here to help us - just the two children, my hubby and me. I know how you feel. I will keep you in my prayers. Surely it has to get better for us. I hope that Rick's health is improving daily. I too wish that I could help you. Please know that I care and I send comforting hugs your way.

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by shirlener88 14 Mar 2011

My dear Coral, I do believe that there is something in all of this for each of us to learn from - I whine from time to time - as things get bad to worse - but I also know - that in time - we will get through this - one day at a time - things are awful all over the world - I feel for you and your situation - wished I could do something for you, as well - I will pray for you and thank you for your concern.

Oh, dear Shirlene, I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles! I've already said a prayer as I read your post that all this burden will be lifted from your shoulders and I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I totally understand why the haircut bothered you - with so much on your mind - everything gets magnified. These past 8 months that my DH was out of work turned me into a "pit bull" with a very short fuse, LOL I know things will improve for you, but while you're going through it, it's hard to remember that. Wish I could do more than send hugs, prayers and ******** your way.

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by shirlener88 14 Mar 2011

Deb, hugs and prayers are just what I need - thank you.

Awww,a great big bear hug for you from across the pond..

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by shirlener88 14 Mar 2011

Thank you so very much dear.

Dear Shirlene: I feel so helpless when I hear how
things are going for you. I said a little prayer and made these cards for you from some of my photography, You are in my prayers dear.

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by shirlener88 14 Mar 2011

Cindy, you are such a dear one - thank you so very much.

Bless your heart. You deserve to whine! I hope since yesterday you were the statue, today you get to be the pigeon! A Big hug and as sweet Dilciea says, a kiss for your heart.(isn't that just the sweetest sentiment?) ;)

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

Thank you Jerrilyn, it is the sweetest sentiment.

Sending you all my prayers. Hope thing will get better soon. I wish I was closer to you I would LOVE to help with Rick for free. I have the need to help. Love DeVon

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

DeVon, I wished you were closer, too. Thanks.

Hi Shirlene, my prayers are with you. Remember, we serve a miracle working God, and it is true!! Love Shirley

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

thank you Shirley.

Shirlene, you are in my thoughts everyday! Sometimes you need to vent and at least you can do that here. We are always here in spirit for you! Hugs Sally

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

Thanks Sally.

Shirlene, you are in out thoughts. I feel for you and hope that this coming week will be a lot better.

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

Thanks Marthie.

Shirlene - I am only seeing this post now. Hope you are feeling better today. Your hair will come right. I see your post was on Friday. People in Japan had a bad day as well with their terrible earthquake. I always think to myself, when having a bad day that there are people far worse off than me. Hugs coming your way for you and Rick.

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

Thanks Sarah - you are so right.

Not much better for me either. On March 10th (my birthday/anniversary) we had rain, then sunshine, and by 4pm it was snowing. Friday morning get a call from my daughter that she had fell hard on the sheet of ice in the parking lot and was hurting. Had to be nurse/mom and been taking care of her. Noting broke just pulled, twisted, and bruised. Can feel your aggravation on the hair cut. Had my hair cut and the young girl cutting in the next chair kept looking at me while I was complaining to the lady cutting my hair while I was saying, that was not what I asked for. Got the name of the manager and called to report the disrespect of the lady cutting my hair because she also moved the chair away from the mirror and chatted with someone waiting in the waiting room and guess who answered the phone. It was her voice the lady that messed up my hair. Guess that is why the young girl didn't come to my aid. Have done dozens of hair cuts so was able to fix the problem myself but was still annoyed. Took my dad's advise because he always said the difference between a good hair cut and a bad one is two weeks. In the end things have a way of working out. My thoughts and prayers go out to you both.

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

I know it will grow out - but a bad hair cut will always be a bad hair cut - until it is grown and fixed in some way. I am so sorry for you daugther and that you day wasn't as fun and happy as it could have been.

I am asking the Great Spirit to hold you and Rick in the palms of his healing hands and to comfort you and guide you through this troubling time. I am also sending you a GIANT HUG from me!!
Jo

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by shirlener88 13 Mar 2011

Jo thanks

Shirlene I am trying to think positive thoughts for you both. Life is sometimes so unjust. Hope your hair sorts itself out quickly and is managable

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by shirlener88 12 Mar 2011

Carolyn, thank you so very much - I am sure it will all even out - soon.

Shirlene, I'm so sorry you are having so many problems. It is always hard to deal with things when they load up on us, but I'm thankful we have a mighty God that will carry us through all our difficult times. It is never a surprise to Him and He knows just what we need to cope with each second of the day. Since we all have problems now and then, or on going problems it is so peaceful to go to the Lord and share them with Him. Also, I'm thankful for all the "Cuties" that we can share with. Stay strong and don't give up. Hugs, Judy

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by shirlener88 12 Mar 2011

Judy, I thank you for your thoughts and do go to the Lord with my troubles - over and over - He must think that I can't cope whatsoever - as I am always asking for His guidance.

God will provide in some way. He takes care of the little birds why wouldn't he take care of us. We are important to God. Ask him for guidance and he will show you the way. You are just so upset right now you can not think or see clearly. Step back to see what he has planned for you. Life happens when we are making plans. As far as the hair ....it will grow out quickly least of your worries. I will pray for you both for the help you need. I have been there so I know, Suzanne

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by shirlener88 12 Mar 2011

Suzanne, thanks dear.

I didn't read my mail - until last tonight - I just started getting all our bills from the six months - before we found out that we didn't have insurance and during the time that Rick was in the hospital in November - oh my - it sure cost alot of money for just a couple days - then all the doctor bills and test that were ran during all that time - it is just unending at this time - I can't seem to wrap my brain around how we will deal with it all. But - what can they do - we don't have anything for them to take from us - we don't have any money to pay for it and I guess there is something in this for us to learn - so I will try to keep on open mind and I will be praying for guidence in dealing with all these people.

Shirlene,
I am praying for you and Rick. I don't know your whole situation, but maybe you should see if another accountant could look over your taxes again. It seems to me that you shouldn't owe too much if any with the way your year went. I'm not an expert in the field, but it might be worth asking a friend or family member who does taxes or even someone from church. I'll keep you in my prayers.

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by shirlener88 12 Mar 2011

It is what it is - one thing I know - they didn't make a mistake. Thanks

My dear Shirlene, praying that you and Rick will be okay. Take care. Hugs Lynn

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by shirlener88 12 Mar 2011

Lynn, we will be - thank you for the prayers.