I use a pellon knit iron-on stabilizer on the back of everything that will be worn. You should be able to get it at most fabric stores - and it is pretty inexpensive. It is just like cloud cover or some of the other stabilizer manufacturers product.
I use a product called Floriani. It is beautifully soft. A friend bought me back some from USA.
You can use a light mesh cutaway and then put a flexible mesh cover ironed on behind it - as Wal-Mart does.
Right now it is on speical at Shopper's Rule - it is called Cloud Cover.
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