hi, I just want to thank everybody

Thank you Alma, I do not feel well, sometimes i think I am getting better, but there are some days I go back to day 1, yesterday was one of those days, crying all day long, missing him so much my heart aches, I still have not made any decision, my mind is a mess, actually my life is a total mess. Thank you all. God bless you.

Hi Mary - just catching up and thinking of you often.
What a precious, precious photo to keep forever.
AlmaG.

Thank you Shirlener, yesterday for the first itme I did not cry so much, maybe because of mind was in TS emily, thank God did not come here.

Thinking of you often - time will tell - how long my dear.

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It's good to hear from you. Hope you are having better days.

Dear Mary, This is such a lovely picture. You must find some peace in knowing how much your husband enjoyed there.
I am still praying for you. Have you heard any more about working with the children? Take care and know we are thinking of you.

Thank you all you are, like i said before angels without wings God bless you.

You're getting there; just like he wants you to!! He is smiling when he sees you enjoying each new day, so keep him smiling and embrace life!! My prayers continue for you, my dear!
Angel

Hi Mary - hope you are doing a little better. Hugs Sarah.

Mary, I think of you also and will continue to pray for you as you adjust to your life at this stage. I'm so thankful for all our friends on Cute as I know you are also. Stay strong in the Lord. Hugs, Judy

My dear Mary, I see growth in you & this is good. Acceptance is the beginning of healing as well as teaching. Good friends who care is truly a gift from God & you have many here. God Bles/Lillian

Dear Mary, so lovely to see you on here again. I agree with everyone else on here your home looks like Paradise and I can understand why your husband loved it so much.

I remember in an earlier post your family wanted you near them but all your friends are there where you are. I hope time is a healer for you and that in the future you will come to a decision of what to do.

Grieving is different in all of us. Mum said it was harder during the last 2 years of Dad's life because he was so ill. So for her this past year has been, in a way, a relief. Don't get me wrong, she still misses him, but knows she couldn't have done any more than she did.

As the chorus in the song by The Birds says -

A time to be born,
A time to die,
A time to plant,
A time to reap
A time to kill,
A time to heal,
A time to laugh,
A time to weep. Quoted from the Internet.

I pray that your grieving will ease with time. Love and blessings Chris

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by lbrow 02 Aug 2011

Chris go to Ecclesiastes 3 in the Holy Bible and you will find this quote/Lillian

by pennifold 04 Aug 2011

Thanks Lillian, yes I know it is from the Bible. I often wondered if The Byrds were a Christian Band. Love Chris

Mary it looks beautiful. I understand why you husband had loved this place. I wish I could tell you when life gets better because you don't miss your husband as much. Just try to find things that you enjoy. They might help you forget for a short time. You know we are always here to listen.

Mary I can see why you are so torn about where to live. It is gorgeous. Soak in the love we send your way and don't worry about how quickly you are supposed to advance through the stages of grief. We are all different. You are a special lady who loves deeply. That is a gift to treasure and to share.

Mary - nice picture, and no wonder your DH loved that spot. It takes a while for grieving to become somewhat easier. I know that there will always be times that you missed your loved ones.

Sending you lots of hug. The grieving process is different for everyone. Just keep praying. God is here for all of use. I still have hard days..... Love the photo that you showed us, thanks for sharing. Hug DeVon

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I see the picture in my pc why can not see it in the site?

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by asterixsew 01 Aug 2011

The site appeared to be pictureless in places for a while tonight so it was not your imagination

by asterixsew 01 Aug 2011

The picture is now up, I can see why your late husband called your home paradise

Mary it is good to hear from you. I am sorry the picture of your home does not show up but I will imagine just what a beautiful place you live in. Take care

Think of you. Love Marie

This is a picture of my home in Dominican Republic, the person in the hammock is my DH, he loved that spot so much! I miss him a lot, I have a very hard time. I read the grieving process takes time, I just wonder for how long? Thank you for all you help and confort, you are a wonderful group of angels on earth!!!

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by mary51 01 Aug 2011

Sorry the picture did not come out I have no idea why.

by marjialexa 02 Aug 2011

What a lovely paradise, I can see why you are there!

by jrob 02 Aug 2011

Ah, there's the picture....it IS paradise.

by shirlener88 03 Aug 2011

What a special place to be.

by noah 21 Aug 2011

nice picture lovely spot you have there may God be with you :):) carolyn

I hope you are doing well, Mary! I think of you often.;)