Hello all. I am hoping I am going to be able to come in and talk more to you all in our wonderful site once again, after nearly a year of struggling with sick parents, and a sick son.
My mom and dad has lived with us, in their own flat, built onto our house, for about 8 years. My Dad started acting funny about a year ago, after receiving a heart pacemaker, and we thought it was only because of his Diabetes, and that the heart was the cause of the sugar not being too good. The last six months he has realy not been good, and ended up in hospital 5 times. The last time the doctors would not allow us to take him home,because we could not care for a 87jr old man with Diabetes, heart problems, and now Alsheimers. We managed to get him into a good care centre, and all of us are so relieved. My mom did not want us to get a carer, because she believed that she could look after him,she is 85jrs old and still very active, but it was draining us all. She is also going to the same home at the end of November, where she's gotten a lovely little flat, full of sunshine.I would just like to ask you all to keep us in your prayers, that they will be happy there, as it is a big step, and we miss them already.
Thank you Cuties for always being there for all, and for listening (reading).
Hugs and God bless all
Marietta
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This is never an easy decision to make.But they will have caregivers round the clock to watch over them. God Bless, Hugs. Stella
15982This solution is surly for the best. You probably also need some "me" time. I am sure that they will be happy in their new home. Hugs Sarah.
255050That is the best answer for all of you. Relax now and enjoy life a little - it will be easier for sure !
27028Praying for you all in this difficult transition and asking the Lord to make you all comfortable with new arrangements. God bless and keep you all in His wonderful restful care,
19452Dear Marietta,
So glad to read that you have got your parents into a caring facility. I know what you are going through and can only say that you have done the right thing. It's always hard to see any parent unwell and it's such a relief when you know they are being looked after 24/7. God bless you for all you have done over the past 8 years. Love and blessings Chris
234496I've missed you. Prayers for an easy and happy transition.;)
158715Marietta - this could not have been an easy decision. It is not easy to see your parents age and suffer with Alzheimers. My mother was stricken with this, and my daddy promised that he would never leave her. It took a toll on his life, for he gave all his time and energy to her. But, they loved each other, and were together for 76 yers. You have the opportunity to visit with your parents, knowing that they are well cared for.
44904Marietta, I can tell that you are worried - it is natural - the two of them will have the care that they need - your mother will thrive in her new surroundings and your dad may actualy improve with the round the clock care, too. I do know when I did the same thing for my Mother - it was difficult - but she had such loving care and was able to be with people her own age - it is hard only have your kids and a few friends to visit with from time to time. Once she was in the center - she was the bell of the ball - everyone looked to her for humor and creatvity. I will be praying for all of you. Visit often.
211079Life is full of challenges. It is difficult to put your parents into a care center. We had to do that with my DH mom. It was very hard, but for the best. That is what you have to focus on, doing what is best for their needs.
10494As I always say, life is full of choices, and often they are most difficult. But, once they are made, we often wish we had made them a bit earlier, before our strength became so depleted. Marietta, it seems you have tried your best, and with a lot of love, in caring for your parents. I applaud your efforts, and in time, I am sure your mom and dad will adjust and be happy. Change is difficult for all of us as we get older, but especially the age of your parents. I am sure they appreciate you, know you love them, and doing what is best for all concerned. May the Lord bless you and all your family with peace of mind, health, and happiness with each new day!
Angel
12500Your parents will be well cared for and though you will miss them they will be happier not being a burden. God bless. Hugs
Elizabeth
6339Marietta, I was so pleased when I spoke to you on the phone, that you have managed to get your Dad into a Care Centre, and that your Mom is also going to be moving into her flat at the same place at the end of November.
They should be fine once your Mom moves in.
They are not far, so you can still visit when ever.
Hugs and love
Yvonne
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by marietta
04 Nov 2011
Thanks Yvonne, yes I feel that I can relax a little now. They will be cared for better than we can at home.
132773They will have people around them their own age and caregivers round the clock to watch over them. I'm sure it was a careful thought out decision you had to make and praying their care will be excellent.
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by marietta
04 Nov 2011
Thank you, I think a lot of pressure on them and all of us has gone away, because we were really very worried about them, because my mom would not accept outside help, and could not manage, even my help.
89895Your decision could not have been easy. I hope your Mom will be very happy there and that your Dad will receive the best of care. God bless!
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by marietta
03 Nov 2011
It was not easy, but I think this was the right, although sad, decision. Thank you Anne
3457Marietta I am sure this was not a easy decision and I am glad you found a place. I pray that your parents will be happy there. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Angie
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by marietta
03 Nov 2011
I am sure they will be happy, and the centre is not far from us. Thank you Angie.
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