Ladies, I had to have my sweet Jessie dog of 18 yrs put to sleep on Fri. May 9. I couldn't talk about it earlier, but i am better now. The time came and I had to do it.

It is very hard to have your pet put down,sending hugs & flowers to help you

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by katydid 14 May 2008

Thanks,

My beloved cat Rubi has left me two years ago, she was old 19 years.
I was very sad.
Now I have a poodle toy, Kira, and I'm very happy!!!
I don't forget, ever, my Rubi....

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by katydid 14 May 2008

Did your cat go off to die? Sometimes cats do that. My favorite cat I got from my first grade teacher and died while I was a freshman in college 13 years later. I remember my mother hated to write that letter.

by epic 15 May 2008

No, she is dead in the home, to the evening she was alive (she suffered, she was ill) to the morning later she was dead.
I have not told to my daughter (she was 4 years old) immediately.I hoped that the poodle could help to forget her.She love a lot the poodle but when she discovers Rubi is dead she has cried much, so much Every day she says:"I feel the lack of Ruby!" I'm very sad when she says this.

Fee3l so sorry for you, but later you will think of all the good memories you have had with your pad. Now I can only give you a flower, hope it helps a little bit

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by katydid 14 May 2008

thank you sweetie!

katy being a person who generally cares more for animals than people I can truly feel your pain. I've been hurt in my heart so many times by our 'human' friends that when you get the conditional love a pet there is nothing that can compare. There is a wonderful poem that will help heal your heart. It will make you cry but I think you'll feel much better after, please go to www.petloss.com/poems/maingrp/rainbow.htm I hope this will help and we are all here for you.

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by katydid 14 May 2008

I just read it and I'm on my third tissue. I'm not sure I was ready for it. I also read "heaven's doggy door" on the same site. It was easier for me and meant something too! thank you for thinking about.

I'm sorry to hear that! That is a hard decision to have to make. Can tell how much you loved your Jessie - 18 years. Wow! Blessings & a flower.

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by katydid 14 May 2008

Thank you darling.

This is a hard thing to do, I've held quite a few as they cross over. I'm so sorry for you. Our pets hold such a place in our hearts, don't they? Ask so little but give so much. AllI can give you is a flower.
Joanne

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by katydid 14 May 2008

Thank you , JOANNE.

So sorry for your loss. Amber, our cat, is 22years old and I know her time is coming soon. I don't like to even think about it. *4U

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by katydid 14 May 2008

22 years. Oh my! Modern day meds, I guess. You know when we were children, pet didn't live that long. I don't have the heart to add up my vet bills.

I am sorry to hear that. I had a dog and had to do the same and it was painful. I know what you feel. Flower and XoXo

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by katydid 14 May 2008

I have taken 4 dogs in to be put to sleep over the years. I decided to stay with Jessie until the end to help finalize everything. I think it helped. It was peaceful.

I know it's sorrowful to lose what u love katy, but U did the right thing, U wouldn't want her to suffer when U can do something about it. My aunt buried her kitty of 17 yrs. & planted a rose there in her garden & placed a statue of St. Francis of Assissi there in memory of her. She has pictures as I'm sure U do & talks of the sweet things she did. Your memories will always b there 4 U. *4U

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by katydid 13 May 2008

How sweet.

I'm so very, very sorry Kay. I know your heart is so heavy. You were brave to do the right thing by your precious friend. May Jessie rest in a place of honor. Hugs to you dear one.

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by katydid 13 May 2008

Thank you. I knew it was coming, but it was hard.

There are no words to console us when we lose a loved one and though some people can never understand how much "WE" love our four legged babies, some of us do. I pray that time and precious memories will help ease the pain of your loss. My heart aches for you. Meg

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by katydid 13 May 2008

Thanks

I am so sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Our pets are so much a part of our lives and family.

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by katydid 13 May 2008

thank you.

Sorry to hear that. Pets are just like family.

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by katydid 13 May 2008

They certainly are.

I understand how you are feeling . I have lost a pomp and my pomp now is 13 yrs. old. When we lose our pet it is like losing a member of the family. We grieve but it will get better. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

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by katydid 13 May 2008

you are sweet thanks.

Have been there Katy, know how you are feeling...we become so attached to our pets..Hugs *4U

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by katydid 13 May 2008

I have constant reminders of her. I am better.

my heart goes out to you .to live with someone for 18 years is a very long time .
our puppies are little people with fur
cry your heart out but remeber all the cute times you had with her I feel your pain

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by katydid 13 May 2008

I only lived with my husband for 24 years and probably got over him faster. I guess that sounds bad. Even my daughter said I seemed happier after the divorce. thanks for caring.

Oh my gosh... I am SUCH a huge lover of my dog and she is going to be 9 next month (she's a black lab named Simply Rosie). My heart breaks for you Katy... I'm so sorry!!! It's soooooo hard to let them go, isn't it? Can I give you a virtual hug??? xoxo

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by katydid 13 May 2008

Thanks I needed that!!

sorry*

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by katydid 13 May 2008

Thank you for caring.

I'm so sorry - I know how hard it is but it's the last act of love you can do for a beloved pet. Hugs from Dianne x x x

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by katydid 13 May 2008

Thank you.

katydid, so sorry for you loss - I will be praying for you. *4U

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by katydid 13 May 2008

I am better now, but I miss her.

by shirlener88 14 May 2008

OH for sure.

Oh Katy - I am so sorry for your loss. My husband is a veterinarian and I worked in the office with him for 11 years, so I was there for many of our patients and clients when that time came. If I could I would give you a heart felt hug!!! It is such a tough decision - but a loving one!! Take care and remember good times not the last few weeks. Hugs and Luv sent your way. *4U sue

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by katydid 13 May 2008

She had been in declining health for a while but was able to get around. go out the doggie door and eat o.k..Thursday night, she seemed to have a stroke and I didn't think she would make the night. Friday morning I discovered she couldn't stand so I called the vets' office and took her in. I knew it was the right to do. I was quick and peaceful.

oh katy that is so hard and I know just how you feel, I had to do that before and it's the hardest thing I ever had to do. My heart goes out to you *****'s

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by katydid 13 May 2008

I had her for a long time, but it is hard to do. Her quality of life was gone.