by berny 14 Jun 2012

Need a little prayer please,4weeks ago I thought I would rearrange my sewing room,so everything came down, boxed, bagged,pushed in the corner,then we had a catastrophic 2 weeks followed by a birthday party and then my great grand daughter was christened had to travel for that,I now feel wrung out,and need the prayer to face rearranging my room

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by pldc 17 Jun 2012

I am sorry to hear of your lifes upheavel & I pray that you find the strength to face these challenges abit each day!

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by berny 17 Jun 2012

Everything seems to happen at once,I lost 2sil my son had 61/2hr op and it takes me so long to do everything these days,I go in the room for a little time every day,so some time next year I might get to sew,Ha.Ha.ha.Thank you for kind words I really appreciated them.

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by lidiad 17 Jun 2012

You have received good advice. Just take a break for the time being. When you will feel better, mentally and physically, you will feel the urge to start rearranging your sewing room. Hugs, Lidia

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by bevgrift 17 Jun 2012

My prayers for you. Sorry for your sad losses.
Hugs Bev

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by giddygoat 17 Jun 2012

Just think of all the lovely things you'll rediscover in those bags & boxes. Take it slowly & it will eventually fall into place for you. Hugs. Viv

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by kitty2011 17 Jun 2012

Hope you're feeling better now ~ love & hugs...kitty

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by hightechgrammy 17 Jun 2012

Hi Berny, You have been through too much right now to tackle the room. My advice, from someone who can get overwhelmed is this. Close the door to that room and don't even worry about putting it back together for a couple of weeks. Let your body rest. When the time is right, it will feel right and you will have the energy to do it. But for now, it's okay to give yourself a break. I'm giving you permission to give yourself a break. Rest up - you need to rest more than you need your room put back together. Hugs, Jan

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by cfidl 15 Jun 2012

You have made progress and that is all anyone can hope for... Live Laugh Download Stitch!

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by berny 15 Jun 2012

Still need that prayer,Son had 61/2hr op Thank god he is alright.no time to confront that room yet

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by sdrise 14 Jun 2012

I recently had an overhaul in my room. My hubby made me wall units which meant everything out. I was in a mess for months. Just focus on one task a day one thing to tackle... Before you know it it is done. Just keep thinking how nice and organized it will be in the end... good luck! It is worth it.Suzanne

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

Thank you.

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by capoodle 14 Jun 2012

If you haven't started yet you could use a marker, draw your room borders on the graph paper. (each square is equal to one foot or meter); Make furniture cut-outs on graph paper. Place the biggest piece on the graft paper and start moving things around until it has good flow. I've done this for many rooms because my DH says he will only move the furniture once, so I have to get it right the first time. Then you can start moving back the boxed up items.

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

Got the tables back in today,but old age is killing me,Thank you

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by sewfrenzie 14 Jun 2012

My heart goes out to you. Take a few deep breaths and hopefully you labeled those boxes so you can open the most important ones first. Good luck getting things sets up the way you want, and enjoy the end results!
Good Luck!
Diane

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

No I just gathered everything up Thought maybe few days,Thank you.

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by meganne 14 Jun 2012

If that's all you have to face Berny, Cowgirl Up and get on with it. :-)))
A very dear friend of mine from the States says that all the time and her name just happens to be Berny. Bernadette Griffith to be precise and she has a website, BertinaStudio, (I'll add the link below) and one of her free designs is just that Cowgirl UP.
Now I think of that, every time I have to do something difficult and I hear her saying it, and it puts a smile on my face.
Sure makes it easier to start a new task when you're grinning from ear to ear. :-)))
Hugs n roses, Meganne

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

I lost 2 SIL in 1 week,so maybe that is why it seems such a mammoth task,can't lose myself in embroidery,Thank you.

lidiad by lidiad 17 Jun 2012

Thank you for the Bertinastudio link, Meganne! Hugs, Lidia

pldc by pldc 17 Jun 2012

Thank you for the Bertinastudio link, Meg! Hugs Loralye

meganne by meganne 17 Jun 2012

Berny I feel for you in your tragic losses. We have all been there and there is nothing one can do to make it any easier, I lost 12 friends & family, including my Mum & my best girlfriend of over 50 years and my second husband, all in one year, the toughest of my life. It helps to share your grief with others so they can support you.
You have my sincere sympathy, Meganne

meganne by meganne 17 Jun 2012

toughest of my life.
It helps if you share your grief with your friends and let them support you and help you through this terrible time.
You have my most sincere sympathy and my empty words, that it gets easier with time. Meganne

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by nannynorfolk 14 Jun 2012

Pheeew- chaotic- take a deep breath- chill a while- then tackle your room ;) you'll get there :)
Hugs
Marie

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

Thank you,

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by 02kar Moderator 14 Jun 2012

You are so overwhelmed, poor thing. That has been a tough month for anyone to experience. Try going through just 1 box at a time. One box a day and think about the old treasures you will find that you have forgotten about.

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

That is what I will do,So no sewing.Thank you

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by oigelcox 14 Jun 2012

You have it dear. Sometimes we feel that too much is too much. Just take time to settle down before you try to attack that room. Just close the door and chill out for a while. in the meantime you have my prayers. Hugs Joyce

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berny by berny 14 Jun 2012

Thank you,Just need to sew,

hightechgrammy by hightechgrammy 17 Jun 2012

I agree, maybe you can get by without sewing :-) Rest, dear lady :-)

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