Go up to the top of your screen where is says Cute Embroidery then your log in name - a flower w a number after it - download center - the inbox. Click on inbox - this is your PM or private message. Type in the name of the cutie - (in this case it would be - debleerl). Type in your message and your email address for her. Then hit submit. This sends her a message that only she can see. Hope this helps.
PM me with your e-mail and I will send it to you. Don't forget to tell me what format you need.