by toet 11 Jun 2013

Something to think about,.. don't stir the pot as it may be you that lands in it...I had this thought as I was about to give someone a mouthful, so I walked away.

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by noah 12 Jun 2013

My neighbor said If u give someone a piece of your mind u lose your piece of mind So true ah??hugs

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basketkase by basketkase 12 Jun 2013

Both these quotes give one the opportunity to reflect on past behavior and to ponder on present and future behavior...good stuff!!

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by lyns 12 Jun 2013

Good on you. Sometimes it's so hard to keep quiet. I try to keep in mind - If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. xx

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by marianb 11 Jun 2013

Most of the time it's the best thing to do, then calm down and tackle the problem or person from another direction

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by toet 11 Jun 2013

OK its been a day now and I'm fine. It really gets up my ribs when someone always has to have the last word. I must say it was not any of the cute family. BIG HUGS

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dennis999 by dennis999 11 Jun 2013

Phew!

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by dennis999 11 Jun 2013

Here's my own personal twist on this:

"A closed mouth gathers no feet."

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou, I like this

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by airyfairy 11 Jun 2013

Good 4 U

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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by jrob Moderator edited 11 Jun 2013

Beautiful thoughts, Heather, and you were the smart one. ;)

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enchantedstitches by enchantedstitches 11 Jun 2013

I will made a poster for my classroom adding "before you type....."
My tongue hurts because I bite it a lot, and at the same time I am counting to 200.
Thanks for the inspiration!

toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

noah by noah 12 Jun 2013

Hay someone on cute should Digitize this then give it to us all in DBC ?????hugs

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by ansalu 11 Jun 2013

Yes but sometimes it is so hard not to answer to some persons ;-D
From time to time I have to sit on my fingers to prevent me from writing comments *lol*
Always try to act with the nice saying from the movie Bambi in my mind: If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all...
Greetings, Bettina

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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by rescuer Moderator 11 Jun 2013

I had not heard this saying before. Thanks for posting it. I will add it to the things I think about before I speak or type.
I always try to remember that if I give someone "a piece of my mind" (a saying -- meaning telling someone exactly what you think) then eventually, I will have "lost my mind" (a saying -- meaning crazy) entirely.

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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by sadp 11 Jun 2013

....wise words, thank you......

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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by hsarah 11 Jun 2013

I'm learning. And it isn't easy for a big mouth like me. But it feels so good after you've done something like that.

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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by grandmamek 11 Jun 2013

Sometimes it is really hard for me to keep my mouth shut. I bite my tongue a lot!!!

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

good on you, thankyou

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by haleymax 11 Jun 2013

If we take the time to think about what is said and wait until we have thought about it for 24 hours, we may be able to comment without any feelings being hurt. As there are many different countries with Cuties, sometime the language translation may be entirely different. Hugs to all.

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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by 02kar Moderator 11 Jun 2013

Sigh. I still struggle with this.

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

me too

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by sdrise 11 Jun 2013

Best Idea you had. I bite my tongue and no one can acuse you of anything. Thanks

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toet by toet 11 Jun 2013

thankyou

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