I hope you figured it out. I am always having to search for the little red button when I want to PM someone. Hope things go better for you today.
Hi justonlyme, I've written out how to do it for you. Good luck with it all. Love Chris
HOW TO SEND A PRIVATE MESSAGE
At the top of the page you will find your name, a flower with your number of flowers next to it, Download Center, then Inbox.
Click on the Inbox and another page will come up – over on the right hand side of the page there is a blue box with the words PRIVATE MESSAGE highlighted.
On that page there is a Box with To: this is where you put the person’s name you want to type it to – for example to write to me you put in my avatar name which is pennifold then below type in your message and hit the submit button. Make sure you put in the correct name lower case mostly, unless there is a capital letter.
When you get a PM (private mail or message) you will see a red number highlighted next to the Inbox and that indicates that you have a message. Good luck, love Chris
then click on blue box right corner private messages... Don't worry we all have them, some more than others.. hehehe