Well talking about having bad day. 1st thing this morning we had a problem and Bruce was not there to help. I sure do miss me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do I have to go to work anymore??????

Take time to be sad. Take time off of work if you can and allow yourself to really grieve. I know there is an empty place in your life right now. I know it hurts to lose a friend. I also know he thought the world of you! He would want you to continue on. He believed you were strong enough when your dad passed -- and you were. You are strong enough to make it through this and you will be OK.
I believe he is still cheering for you. He is still your friend. You will get through this! We are all here for you.
Hugs!

It is so hard to have someone you love die suddenly or to linger. Your whole life and routine is changed. I think eggyannie is a wise woman. I am sure she would welcome a PM from you when you need a pick-me-up. I would welcome a PM to so I could cyber hug you right back. Honor Bruce's memory with a special volunteer project. I find I feel better when I can give a little something to others. Hang on tight and know that it will get better with time.

Hugs for you.hopoe this helps a little.

Haveing lost my hubby just over a month ago I know just how you fee. Its the little things that hit you the most and are the hardest to overcome. I think you should go to work at least part time as that will help fill the void . especially if you have been used to going out
If you stop now how will you ever go forward.
You have to push past what used to be and start with what is going to be.
For me. i fill my time doing sewing and taking the dogs out and now once a week i have started to learn line dancing. Its a start of makeing new friends and new interests and also a way of getting excersize and shedding a few pounds.
Walk past the space where he used to park and just say " hi love"
And look again at your photo...... it may be black right in front of you now but just lift your eyes anD you will see the light just waiting for you to step forward into it.
A huge cyber hug for you from one who understands.
annie in the UK

Sorry it's a bad day, but it will be over soon. Sometimes we need others outside the family click to stay sane, and working even part-time helps the days pass..

I agree with Carolyn. You probably need to go to work to be with other people. Hope your day improves. Hugs Sarah.

Yes u need to work right???BUT we want to to enjoy your day hugs to make u feell allllllll better:):)hugs

ditto to jerrilyn!

No, you have our permission to stay home and play here with us all day. Problem solved. ;)