by blueeyedblonde 09 Jan 2015

Wasn't sure what to put this under, so here goes.

A while ago I had shown a set of towels a lady asked for for giving to other members of her team that were bowling in a tournament. She was not happy with what I charged her - she sews so knows how much effort is put into some things. She was quite annoyed about it, but paid.
Well, I have seen her a couple times now since the tournament and this last time, she had a complette turn around and let me know how much her team members liked the towels and were showing them off and said that I should have made a bunch more and she would have been able to sell them all for me!
She even commented on towels someone else had done up but not with embroidery and she felt they would not withstand more than a couple of washes where mine would be going for a long time!
WOW! What a change!!

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by lbrow 11 Jan 2015

I went back and looked at your towels and thought they were grand. Glad this person did a turn around and recognized their worth/Lillian

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designgirl by designgirl 11 Jan 2015

I also just looked at your towels. You did a beautiful job on them. Like Lillian said "Glad she recognized your great work and worth."

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by camylow 10 Jan 2015

Perhaps she had something bad happen before she met up with you that day....it may have soured her momentarily. Time went by and all was past so she probably wasn't really focused on the price as what went on beforehand...At least that would be a good reason for her conduct.

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by pldc 10 Jan 2015

Good for you my friend! Quality shows & is worth the price in fact you were probably a bit underpriced! Now she will bite her tongue next time & sing your praises. as it deserved!~hugs~

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thank you!

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by mi30kaja 10 Jan 2015

I am sure that someone else had told her how good they were and what a great price. Bet she is jealous that she hadn't made them herself. People like this annoy me.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

They did! lol - it took going to the tournament and giving the towels to the team members and seeing their reaction and their showing them off to everyone else!

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by rosakent 10 Jan 2015

I've just gone back and had a look at the towels, they are stunning no wonder the bowlers loved them. Jo

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thanks!

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by hightechgrammy 09 Jan 2015

Wow, that was nice of her to tell you that. She obviously recognized the fine work you did!

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

That was after getting all her commpliments at the tournament for having gotten them!

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by airyfairy 09 Jan 2015

I expect that she realized all the work you had put in to making the towels

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

That was thanks to other tournament people who raved about them!

blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Made her realize the value of what she got.

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by cfidl 09 Jan 2015

That is so great to hear!

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Yes, nice turnaround!

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by noah 09 Jan 2015

yes people are fickle the wind blows were it may ****hugs

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

That they are!

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by dragonflyer 09 Jan 2015

Hmmm, if you settled on a price up front...and she thought it was to much, why did she give you the go ahead to make the rest of them?? I would hope that you secured at least a 50% deposit before you proceeded to make her order...and I would have expected her to sign off on the sample towel as acceptable....and pay the balance at the time of delivery...pretty standard practices.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

I had tried to tell her how much it would be per towel but she just brushed me off. I didn't do a sample as she had seen the ones I had done for my hubbies tournament kids and she loved them and asked for the same design but of course with the different tounament info and persons names.
I haven't done much for others as yet - it's just a little her and there for now. Most of what I do is for family and others see that.

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by sewtired 09 Jan 2015

Sure, not that hard, the machine does all the work. Ha! They don't understand the effort to find or digitize just the right design, maybe resize it, maybe add other elements, lettering, select the colors, get the right stabilizer, hoop everything and align the design. Have the right needle, make sure the tension is correct and don't forget all the work to maintain the machine in good working order. Still, with all that diligence, the machine can decide to throw a hissy fit in the middle of your stitching.
Glad she had a change of heart.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Me too!

pldc by pldc 10 Jan 2015

well said plus the cost of your supplies too We spend forever trying threads out to discover which one works the best for our machines! Some people take a little longer to realize what is involved & come to appreciate it but others never do

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by sewist1 09 Jan 2015

Maybe it was an attempt to get you to decrease the price at the time. I am glad you didn't do that. Mostly I find people who do craft themselves are aware of what goes into it. I have sometimes had people tell me I am not charging enough.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

I actually have one that tells me that. She had me make something for her and she decided how much she was going to pay - which was double what I had thought to charge her! And then also did a couple of towels for her and same thing! She was so happy with them she had a few tears escape!

pldc by pldc 10 Jan 2015

ah now clients like that make is so worth the trouble!

sewist1 by sewist1 10 Jan 2015

Yes my favourite customers are like that.

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by ctirish 09 Jan 2015

I've learned embroidery is a bigger challenge than sewing. My daughter learned the same way. Both of my girls were always saying to me.....how hard can it be? I'm glad this woman woke up.. you should ask her to write a referral or some type of letter for you to show new customers..

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

I find there are more variables in embroidery than sewing. although if you do things the way I always have - I make my own patterns - self taught. Never had luck with bought ones.lol.

pldc by pldc 10 Jan 2015

me neither lol

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by designgirl 09 Jan 2015

Finally she realized your work was very good. People don't know the time it takes to embroider an article and the cost of your machine. I just give a price and sometimes a sample of what it will look like. If I get the job, great. If not,they can go and price it elsewhere.
I have even had them come crawling back, because they did get it done elsewhere and didn't like the job they did.

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clintonmiss22 by clintonmiss22 09 Jan 2015

Yes, that's what I was hoping on my last job. The lady wanted monograms on sweatshirts, I gave her a price she was happy with, then she came back and wanted to change to those really big letters. I told her that would be more and I was secretly hoping she would go elsewhere. I only have a 5x7 hoop so I knew I was going to have to hoop multiple times, which is a pain!! She rolled her eyes and said "whatever." She was VERY pleased with the results, so guess in the end it was worth it to her.

blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Yes, it was really great to have her realize the value she actually got and was now very happy with it.

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by graceandham 09 Jan 2015

Your design work made a believer of her! (and maybe the comments of her team members.) Nice when that happens.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thanks. Yes, the team members really helped to make her come around!

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by suziequee 09 Jan 2015

At time people are just stupid. Then they might wise up. However, I would not make more for her to sell unless she prepays. Once burned, you learn. Good luck.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thanks. She did pay, she just figured it was too much. But being at the tournament did a world of good as she found out different.

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by eggyannie 09 Jan 2015

Lady next time she askes you to do something for her put the darn price a couple of dollars. and make it wrth your while doing them and yes do a few extra and tell her to let you have the names of those who would like more and get the conntacts yourself.
Normal complaint is well you don't have to pay for your time as you do it at home. my reply is yes maybe but i have to pay my rent

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thanks. I.m just glad she realized the worth of what she got and ended up being pleased,

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by pennifold 09 Jan 2015

Hi Linda, I feel that people who don't sew don't know how much time and effort is put into something "handmade" - you are worth every penny/dollar charged and more! Love Chris

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thank you. That's what had actually suprised me, as she does sew.

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by michemb 09 Jan 2015

Some just take to appreciate our hard work, I don't sweat those who don't anymore, I know what we are worth. Sound like you may have more business

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thanks. I felt bad for a while, but then decided she would eventually learn what it's worth.

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by toogie 09 Jan 2015

Some of the others, may have paid for embroidered items before, and told her what a 'deal' she got from you. That's what probably made her 'happy' again. Just my thought anyway.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 10 Jan 2015

Thanks. I think she found out what some of them paid for the towels that were done up without embroidery that she thought was inferior to what I did.

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