by yvonnevanwerkhoven 24 Jan 2015

I just want to thank everyone for the kind words and prayers...my heart is so broken ... and the pain almost unbearable....this grandson of mine was such a ray of sunshine but took his own life after a severe struggle with depression...not in a million years did any of us seen this coming Thanks again

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by mariahail 26 Jan 2015

May our Great Lord give you strength!!!! what a handsome young man! hugs and blessings to you and your family.

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by paulasandy 26 Jan 2015

Like the others, I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Sending you a big hug.

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by blueeyedblonde 26 Jan 2015

Again, sorry for your loss and it is very nice of you to put up a picture of him - hopefully he is now at peace.

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by holly12 26 Jan 2015

So very sorry for you and your family. Depression is such a horrible thing. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Arlene

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by leenadvt 26 Jan 2015

So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. Will keep you in my prayers.

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by designgirl 26 Jan 2015

So sorry for the loss of such a wonderful young man. We often wonder why and could I have done more and helped him. We just don't realize the problems hidden within a body that no one person can help undo until it is to late.My heart goes out to you and your family. Take care I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs Lynn

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by nannybo 26 Jan 2015

Such a goodlooking guy. prayers are with you.

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by rmj8939 25 Jan 2015

No words can help you at this time. I am so sorry for your loss.

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by lidiad 25 Jan 2015

So sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers to you all.
Lidia

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by maggiejwl 25 Jan 2015

This just breaks my heart. So sad. May you find some measure of peace and comfort in all the wonderful memories you have of him. Blessings to you and yours.

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by christracey 25 Jan 2015

so sorry to hear this sad news. Depression is such an evil thing....may you all be strong & get through this disaster.

God has him in his keeping & you have him in your hearts. Sending hugs & prayers for you all.

Tracey

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by airyfairy 24 Jan 2015

Such a handsome grandson. My heart breaks for you and the family. Try to remember the happy times you spent with this precious child. Hugs Sarah.

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by barba 24 Jan 2015

I am so sorry for your loss of such a precious handsome young grandson. I pray for comfort and healing for you and your family. Hugs, Barba

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by grandmamek 24 Jan 2015

So sorry to hear of this tragic event. My thoughts and prayers continue for you and your family. May God place his healing hands on all of you. Hugs, Mary

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by arlene 24 Jan 2015

So sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

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by tiggy000 24 Jan 2015

There is no way I can even comprehend your grief at this sad time in your life. May the prayers we send you, help heal the tears you are shedding and begin to calm your heart.

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by baldacchino 24 Jan 2015

What a wast of a life my prayers are with you Sherene X

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by lbrow 24 Jan 2015

Such a handsome young man. My heart aches for you. Know you and yours are in my prayers. Many hugs from me to you/Lillian

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by juanitadenney 24 Jan 2015

Sympathy and prayers are being sent to you and your family. So sorry for your loss of this beautiful young man!

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by pennifold 24 Jan 2015

Dear Yvonne, thankyou for this beautiful picture of your handsome grandson. No words can take away your grief, but please be assured you are being prayed for on the other side of the world. I also pray that you and your family will feel the love that that is surrounding you at this time. Memories are forever. Love never dies. Love Chris

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by Leaha 24 Jan 2015

Sympathy and prayers are being raised for you and your extended family, friends and loved ones.

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by gerryb 24 Jan 2015

I am so sorry. Our prayers will continue to be with you as you grieve the loss of a young man.

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by bowlds 24 Jan 2015

Such a sad, sad thing to have happened. Such a young, beautiful boy. I hope your family can learn to deal with this pain.
Cathy

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by rachap 24 Jan 2015

What a handsome young man. Your entire family must be totally heartbroken. Prayers are with you all.

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by mary51 24 Jan 2015

So sorry! Prayers for all the family.

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by jofrog2000 24 Jan 2015

I am so sorry for your loss, I ,myself, lost a niece to depression. It does hurt and will take time for you and your family to heal. My prayers.
Jo

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by Boutry 24 Jan 2015

Si j'ai bien compris ce jeune homme fait une dépression.
Nous avons eu la même expérience quand notre fils aîné a eu 20 ans.
Les médecins vont parler de médicaments pour endormir ses idées noires.
Attention!
Notre fils devait être hospitalisé tellement c'était grave....
Mais je crois en Dieu et j'ai décidé avec mon mari de le mettre en convalescence dans une communauté charismatique avec beaucoup de jeunes, il était suivi par une infirmière chaque jour matin et soir et au bout de 15 jours, il avait repris goût à la vie. Il n'y a que l'amour que pour l'aider. J'espère ne pas avoir mal compris et je vous souhaite bon courage amitiés

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by harleysville 24 Jan 2015

I am so sorry. Depression is horrible. Unless you experience it no one can really understand it. It cripples you. May God be with you all. May he be at peace.

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by susiesembroidery 24 Jan 2015

Such a beautiful child. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

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by gerryvb 24 Jan 2015

so sorry he made this decision, hope he will have peace now. Prayers and Hugs for you and family.

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by annettem 24 Jan 2015

So sorry for your loss.

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by sdrise 24 Jan 2015

My heart goes out to you and the family. Prayer are still with you all. Suzanne

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by crafter2243 Moderator 24 Jan 2015

I am so sorry. Hugs

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by toogie 24 Jan 2015

Beautiful young man...I am so very sorry for all you, and your family , must be going through. As you say, it is a tragedy.Your heart WILL eventually heal, but it will take TIME. You will always miss him, but try only to remember his life, not his death... I have you in my thoughts and prayers. May God strengthen you in the hours, days, months ahead. May you feel His love for you, in your quiet, thoughtful times. May your heart ache a little less and peace be with you soon. Sincerely,Toogie

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by edithfarminer 24 Jan 2015

A huge tragedy. I can not begin to imagine the pain and I pray that you and your family will somehow get through this terrible time.
Hugs and prayers for you all. Edith

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by jrob Moderator 24 Jan 2015

I am so very sorry for all of you. My heartfelt prayers are with you and the rest of your family as you try to get through this terrible tragedy. I pray that God will heal your broken heart.

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by grossfamilie 24 Jan 2015

Oh Yvonne, what a tragedy. All your family are in an unbearable state of pain and hope you can give some comfort to each other.
There are no words. Just wishing you could wake up next morning and say it was only a bad dream. Only I hope and pray his parents and all of your family keep memory of this lovely young boy as a treasure and will think of 24 years being with him and still united in thoughts
Love to all of you - Maria

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by graceandham 24 Jan 2015

Such a sad loss and I know you want answers. He was not thinking of you nor his parents when he did this. Depression focuses inward and he was only thinking of how miserable he was at that moment. We struggled with this as a family member attempted suicide three times in one week. He survived, improved with the help of medication and lived for many years. Nevertheless, we were left with all these tangled feelings of why and feeling abandoned, unloved.

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by judyoake 24 Jan 2015

Such a tragic loss! My heart goes out to you and your family! Prayers

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by sewdoctor 24 Jan 2015

My heart aches for you and your family, I have no "magic" words, just know that we all care. Sending Hugs...Darlene

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by dragonflyer 24 Jan 2015

So, so very sorry for your loss...prayers for you and your entire family...

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by ansienaude 24 Jan 2015

w ish i could take your pain away but i can only pray for you and your family to struggle with depression is the most difficult thing in life to overcome because when you are in your dark moments nothing seems to make sense even if your family love you to bits

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by cfidl 24 Jan 2015

My heart sank as I read this post. The tears are recognizable. There is no reason. The grief is too close.

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by kalamazoo 24 Jan 2015

What a kind looking young man. I can't imagine the depths of your grief. Continued prayers for comfort & wisdom. Depression is so misunderstood.

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by asterixsew Moderator 24 Jan 2015

Yvonne I totally feel for you. It makes me so very sad and reminds me of a dear friend and of my cousin both of whom lost sons who took their own lives. Thanks for posting a picture of him.

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by lhart 24 Jan 2015

My thought are with you and your family. Such a sad situation. What a wonderful picture you have of him.

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by michemb 24 Jan 2015

I cannot imagine what you are going through, such sorry and such a tragic ending. It is a tragedy.
Be strong, praying for all concerned
hugs
Michelle

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ff0101 by ff0101 24 Jan 2015

Depression is hard. Sorry to hear this tragic news about a young man who had so much more life to live. Sending a hug and saying prayers here for comfort during the hard days of his loss ahead. Lori

twee by twee 25 Jan 2015

So so sorry for your loss.

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