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by toogie 11 Dec 2015 ( edited Dec 14'15 04:54 )
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Hello Cuties,

I just wanted you to know, although we are past the Thanksgiving Holiday, we cannot stop being thankful and always need to remember to count our blessings.
As in the case, of my oldest daughter that some of you know about already. I am thankful she did not break her neck Sunday afternoon, when she fell on the concrete, when the extension ladder she was on, putting up Christmas decorations collapsed on top of her. I am also thankful that her DH got home safely, after a 18 hour driving round trip to work and after only working one hour. I am counting blessing, for no car accident. I am counting our blessings, that the broken shoulder and foot she has, is not life threatening. She is getting along slowly because of the fall, breaks and bruising but next week will tell, if the bones are mending, or will need surgery. I am trusting God's will be done. I am hoping, for His complete healing for her.

Now in the second case with my youngest daughter. As some of you may already be aware, she is expecting a baby boy, the end of March. I am thankful, (the very next day after the ladder incident with her sister,) having contractions was not from too early labor. (her twins were 3 months too early) Blood work determined it was brought on by a bacterial infection. Counting blessings that medical science can determine and treat problems. Trusting God's will be, for baby to continue to grow strong in mom, for 3 more months.

Thirdly, I have been sick for eleven days with what started as a cold. First two days are normal fever/chills/ then started feeling a little better for few days. By this Sunday, I felt too bad to go to church but when #1 daughter fell, we were called to bring her to hospital.(didn't know if we could get her in car but thankfully made it) Stayed with her, brought her home, then next day stayed with #2 daughters' kids till she came back. All the days not missing work. By 9th day, I felt like I had pneumonia again.
Couldn't see dr till the 11th day, today... I am thankful to have bronchitis.-lol- Am I normal?...I heard some of your answers-lol-I am counting my blessings that it wasn't another hospital stay (and outrageous billing)...Dr gave shot/meds & said I need to take off work & just rest...now I ask, is he normal? Define rest for a mom that's still alive?-lol
I am thankful that the rest of family are doing well, even our Avery! I am counting blessings, that the men in our lives have stepped up to the plate. Marsha's even has to help bathe her...

(I remember when my friend had anurosym (mispelled I know). Her grown daughter told dad to, 'get over it' and tend to mom!'... It's been a few years now, but today I got a text from that friend. Well, actually it wasn't a text, it was just one photo. It was an embroidery design she stitched for the first time in about 3 years. You wanna know what it was?.... "For Unto Us A Child Is Born" with the nativity. ..Brought tears to my eyes! ...Also brought a truly thankful heart for a loving God, that showed mercy, and not only spared her for a little more time with us, but has made her whole again, to once again enjoy her hobby.
As we walk, fall or just slip, we need always remember He is there to go through, with us. Carry us, if need be, but get us through. As we remember this holiday Christmas, let us not forget Him, Christ IS the reason.

Well Cuties, I took my meds, like a good girl. I've rambled enough, but gonna take a breathing treatment and go to bed, if not too jittery afterward-lol-see I'm trying to get my sense of humor & old self back. I know its still there somewhere-lol-. 'Tomorrow' is another work day!
Wishing everyone Peace and Goodwill-Toogie

Comments (15)
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by tilde01 11 Dec 2015
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Toogie, you and your entire family are in my prayers. You are indeed blessed.
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
Amen! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
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by dailylaundry 11 Dec 2015
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Praise God from whom all blessings flow. Toogie, your attitude is perfect. I pray that when you wake in the morning that you feel so much better. So much to weigh your mind and heart down - I pray a quick recovery for you and yours!!! Hugs and love, Laura*
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
Your prayers were answered, I did feel much better today. Just keep remembering the girls, especially the next weeks/ months ahead.Thank you, Laura
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by marianb 11 Dec 2015
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Toogie what a time your family has had. I know your daughters need you at the moment, but you also need you to get better. Do try to rest a little I know not to tell you to rest a lot to get better after all your a mother first a patient second right.. keep well Marian
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
You understand all too well, thank you Marian.
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by pennifold 11 Dec 2015
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My dear Toogie, my heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. God is good and He will answer all your prayers and heal your bodies. My prayers are with you all. Love Chris
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
What can I say to you...maybe we are both afraid, if we slow down or stop, we may not start again! Give your back a rest Chris so it can heal, please. Hate to hear you're in so much pain.
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by cfidl 11 Dec 2015
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I would do what the doctor says - unless I am the last resort. Did he put you on a certain number of days of "do not work"? Wishing you a calm restful weekend.
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
I plan just that, but did work today. I really felt much better. I guess the injection gave me a boost, but the breathing treatment kept me up and jittery!
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by twee 11 Dec 2015
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So sorry, your life is so topsy-turvy, but I love your attitude. A sense of humor keeps us going. Your family is in my prayers.
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
Thank you...right now its the breathing meds keeping me going....don't know if I like this jittery/shakey feeling though. I don't remember being this wired, when I had double pneumonia before. Thanks for the prayers, especially for the girls in the weeks to follow.
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by 02kar 11 Dec 2015
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I've been wondering how you have been doing. My goodness you have a lot on your plate right now. Rest when you can even if it is napping when the kids are napping too. Please be careful and get well.
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
Karen, I had to laugh about the naps. Now if you would have said, "nap when hubby naps" I would be in the best of health & well refreshed!-lol-I think all the man has done, since retiring, is nap...napping when I come home from my morning route (really the man just snored all night!-lol)...napping after lunch (before I leave for my evening route)..and sometimes napping before bedtime at night! Really!!! I may sleep 5 or 6 hours a night, if I'm lucky to sleep, and no day time naps. I know you mean well but I felt much better today, hope it last. -Toogie

ps forgot to say, had fluid behind ear that caused the dizzys this time. That's better. Thought I may have had flu, I was so drunk/nauseated.
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by jrob 11 Dec 2015
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I understand the not being able to rest syndrome. At least today is Friday, so you can "take it easier" the next 2 days. Praying for you and your family as I know you are already being looked over.
Merry Christmas, Jerrilyn
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
That's my plan for the week-end. It's suppose to rain, but I'm staying in...most likely all day in my gown, so call if you're coming over! We can have a slumber party. I just bought an old movie, to show my grandson what True Grit with John Wayne really was. He brought the True Grit (not in my opinion) with one of the Baldwin brothers,I think, and Matt Damon, for he and I to watch. I did watch with him...now he can watch the TRUE GRIT with me...or you can, I know he won't mind.
by jrob 13 Dec 2015
I wish I could get down there. That'd be so much fun. I love John Wayne.
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by lbrow 12 Dec 2015
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Aaah Toogi . Life can be very frustrating at times I know,. but when you are leaning on His everlasting arms as you are, we can still be thankful for our blessings. Hope and pray everything falls into place for all of you and Christmas will be joyful for you all.
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
It will Lillian, and thank you...have you made anything for Christmas with that new machine? At least yours is out of the box. My co-worker got a serger for the first time, last week-end and she says she hasn't gotten a chance to play with it...And she's the one came took MY first emb machine out of the box b/c I was too intimidated by it!-lol-SHE still doesn't even have one and never did!-lol
by lbrow 13 Dec 2015
I'm making some baby things for a newborn at our church andkfcourse have orders for burps from my girls for teachers having baby showers also made some caps for a 13 yr old boy at daughters school who has lost all his hair from Chemo. He wanted some caps with ninja turtles so made the hat/caps from soft knit and embroidered a ninja on each
by toogie 13 Dec 2015
Boy, you have been busy! I would say, now don't go burn it up, let it cool off sometimes, but if Carolyn's machine still goes they can't burn up!-lol-You and she are at the races, neck and neck!-lol
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by noah 12 Dec 2015
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Well i can say is God is GQQD !!! And faithful to his own hugs and Merry C/mas Carolyn
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
Amen sister! Same to you and yours!
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by sewdoctor 12 Dec 2015
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Bless you and your family.....
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by toogie 12 Dec 2015
Oh we are, truly, and don't worry, this will all pass and thank you for your words and thoughts.
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by holly12 13 Dec 2015
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I'm sorry to hear all the things that are going wrong in your family, but you sure have the right attitude. Justplease do what the Dr. says and rest or you're going to wind up with the pneumonia again. Will keep you and your family in my prayers. Arlene
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by toogie 14 Dec 2015
Arlene, I appreciate your prayers so much , thank you. Daughter said her shoulder was bothering her tonight - been a cold rainy day here.
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by lidiad 13 Dec 2015
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Hugs and prayers for you and your family, dear Toogie!
Lidia
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by toogie 14 Dec 2015
Thank you Lidia, they are appreciated .
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by crazypatchmama 13 Dec 2015
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May God continue to bless you and look after you and your family. You are the kind of person who always looks at a glass as half full and I admire you so much for that. Enjoy looking at your projects, you are somebody special. Hugs. Happy 3rd Advent.
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by toogie 14 Dec 2015
Ah, you are so sweet, I'm glad you like my projects although it seems very few have been made lately.
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by katydid 14 Dec 2015
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Oh, my so sorry for all the miseries in your family and hope they manage to get through the Holidays without any more accidents. KAY
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by toogie 22 Dec 2015
Yeah right Kay...I had my accident (broke tibia) four days after I posted this...sigh...........