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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016 ( edited Apr 20'16 11:52 )
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I am having a bit of a rant and rave. I have spent several mornings trying to buy myself a pair of jeans. By jeans, I mean those denim things that we used to be able to buy. In every shop all they have are jeggins and boot leg. I do not want something that is stretch and shows every lump and bump, which I have much of. You have to be a contortionist to be able to get your foot into the extremely narrow bottoms of the jeggins. I also do not want boot leg. I am not very tall and a boot leg makes me look even wider than I am. What has happened to an ordinary non stretch denim jean. I also do not want tears or jeans looking as if someone has thrown an opened bottle of bleach at them. I just cannot understand it. DH Has suggested that I buy a pair of men's straight leg. So tomorrow I might just try that...........<br /><br />

UPDATE<br /><br />
I have managed to buy a pair of jeans. I went into one of our incredibly cheap Africian chain stores. They have very little stretch, they do have a slightly narrow bottom of leg but not too bad, they are rather thin denim but best of all they fit. I just hope they do not shrink when washed. I tried on loads of men's jeans but they are just totally wrong for my shape. For all you SA girls, the shop was Pep Stores. If they do not shrink I will buy another pair. I am quite exhausted. 😴

Thought I would just post a picture of my new jeans. The bottoms are still a bit narrow but nothing like some that I have tried on. I just wanted to add that when my jeans start looking a bit worn and faded, I take them to our local dye shop. Two days later they look like new. Great for black jeans to keep their colour.

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Comments (24)
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by graceandham 18 Apr 2016
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Yes. The manufacturers don't much like us any more.
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by rescuer 18 Apr 2016
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I buy men's jeans for me and have done so for years. They fit differently...but then I am "apple shape" not "pear shape" so they work better for me anyway.
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
Although a few bulges I still have a waist, so I am apprehensive about how men's will fit
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by lin02 18 Apr 2016
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You lucky girl, you've got a very smart husband.
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
Thank you
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by noah 18 Apr 2016
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Did you try walmart ??They have your kind here??hugs
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
Carolyn, I live in South Africa - no Walmart here
by noah 19 Apr 2016
oh dear !!!didn't remember this well keep trying lol hugs from Canada
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by crafter2243 18 Apr 2016
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Good advice. Let us know how that worked out. I can not understand the fashion of ripped and tattered jeans. I keep on wanting to add patches to the grands clothing ha, ha.
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
I do not understand it either
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by bevintex 18 Apr 2016
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They seem to think we're all still 16 years old
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
And as thin as rakes
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by spendlove 18 Apr 2016
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I always used to buy men's jeans but haven't recently. At the moment I have about 10 pairs of jeans and only one needs unfastening to put on! (They are about 20 years old.) The others don't come high enough up to need unfastening so consequently I'm always pulling them up.
I wouldn't buy any without a bit of stretch as I like to be able to bend without being cut in half!
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
You are very slim Sue. The stretch does nothing for me.
by spendlove 18 Apr 2016
I have plenty of bulges and the stretch keeps them under control!
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by sdrise 18 Apr 2016
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I have bought men's jeans forever... You pick your waist ad leg measurement and viola perfect jeans. Why they don't do that with woman's jeans I will never know. I am tall and for some reason manufactures do not cater to tall gals. SO I have always bought men's jeans for the length.. Give it a try!
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
Thank you Suzanne, I am going to look tomorrow
by theduchess 18 Apr 2016
I buy Men's jeans, Mens jackets only because they cost less. and the fit is great.
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by cwal 18 Apr 2016
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I buy Gloria Vanderbilt jeans at Costco. They are only 14.99 and come in all kinds of colors including denim colored. They also come in all sizes including Womens and also in average and short. I'm 5'4'' and short fits me. I like the stretch and they hold my bulges in, but are comfortable. At 14.99 I have a variety of colors.
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
I am also the same height as you. Unfortunately we have no Vanderbilt jeans here whee I live.
by cwal 18 Apr 2016
They have them on line. They won't be as cheap as Costco, but they have a wide variety of colors.
by ktk9 18 Apr 2016
They also have stingy-cut pockets - won't hold a cell phone. Bet I've owned 30 pairs over the years but won't look for them any longer because the pockets are so small.
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by Nicky602 18 Apr 2016
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Hi Sarah,

Try Milady's or Queenspark!! Milady's has different cuts of jeans. I am a bit taller than 5'4" and there jeans work for me. Woolies was having a sale and there jeans are not bad. My mom is shorter than you and she managed to get some jeans there some weeks ago.
Hope this helps

Regards
Nicky from South Africa
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by airyfairy 18 Apr 2016
Hi Nicky, I have tried Woolworths, Miladys, Foschini, Trueworths and Edgars. Remember we are only a small town. Off to Cape Town next week so I will try there. Thank you for your post.
by Nicky602 19 Apr 2016
Good Luck ;-)
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by lucy12345 18 Apr 2016
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Good luck!!
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by airyfairy 19 Apr 2016
Thank you I need it
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by dragonflyer 18 Apr 2016
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Jeans can be challenging for sure...I am quite tall 5' 10"...so boot cut work well for me...if I want just regular old denim jeans...I buy men's jeans...
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by airyfairy 19 Apr 2016
Thanks Kim, I am off to have a look at men's jeans this morning
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by Janus48 19 Apr 2016
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When I used to buy men's jeans I found the waist too large (as men are built rather straight) ...so I would undo the stitching off ONLY the bottom of the back belt loops. Then cut a slit on the inside of the waistband where those belt loops attach...and run some elastic through to snug up the waist a bit. Stitch the elastic in place with a zigzag stitch. The re-attach the belt loop on the outside. This will give you a more fitted pair of lady jeans and the stitching doesn't show. I no longer wear jeans as I've had knee replacement and I don't like the roughness of denim. But that's what I used to do....mens jeans are generally cheaper and better quality denim and come in a much wider range of sizes. Good luck!!
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by airyfairy 19 Apr 2016
Thank you for your interesting post. When I do buy jeans, I always put a couple of darts in the back waist as the waist is always too big
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by killiecrankie 19 Apr 2016
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Have you thought of looking in charity shops or at markets to find the old fashion denim jeans.I have found that once you get to size 14 or 16 they think your thighs are enormous.I'm tall & I have run the side seams in from the bottom of the pocket down to the knee.The denim doesn't even feel like denim any more ,just thin stretchy fabric .
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by airyfairy 19 Apr 2016
I am quite heavy on the thighs so am greatful for any extra fabric. It is for this reason I hate stretch
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by kezza2sew 19 Apr 2016
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I buy mine from Target here in Australia. Very cheap and still just like the old days style, like you are after.
Hope you find something to suit. Companies forget about us die hards that just don't like change. Especially not to the standard or lack there of they are designing for today.
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by airyfairy 19 Apr 2016
The manufacturers seem to forget that there are people over 50 around who do not want young styles.
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by vickiannette 19 Apr 2016
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the 'western' shops may have a pair of Wranglers. The women's boot-cut are nice but need to check the 'high rise or low rise' which is the position of the waist-band
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by marianamin2003 19 Apr 2016
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There's some hope for those of us who do not like the narrow leg jeans and jeggings. I recently read online that wide leg jeans are making a comeback. Here's hoping....
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
We can but hope
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by jofrog2000 19 Apr 2016
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I hate the low rise jeans. Good thing jeans used to be good quality, because I'm still wearing natural waist straight leg jeans from years ago. I did find that LLBean carries them. Some Sears stores have that brand. Of course they cost 2-3 times as much, but..
Jo
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
I don't think low rise is right for any one over a certain age and shape. I also hate them.
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by spendlove 19 Apr 2016
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Any better luck today, Sarah?
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
Oh yes. Bought a pair, have washed them to get the excess colour out and to see if there is any shrinkage. They fit well so I am off tomorrow to buy another pair to keep until needed.
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by toogie 19 Apr 2016
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Sarah, you sound like me.
I wasn't needing jeans, although I only had 3 pair and EMT cut one pair off, in the ambulance.
It was shoes. I needed some new athletic shoes and since I can't get out on my own, shopping with hubby is not easy, to say the least. He thinks -go to one store, buy the cheapest ones whether you like them or not and go home-. uh..h..g..
We went to Shoe Carnival where all they have is shoes. I have a problem toe and I have to try on and make sure it doesn't hurt that foot. The other (broke leg) foot is swollen still, so its hard to just that foot. I left there with no shoes and I was more than ready to go home. Hubby just said one word to me in car and I broke into tears. I want to go shop for what I want, buy what I want ON MY OWN! ( I haven't put him in the poor house yet and this is our 48th year-lol)
After my outburst, he's ready to go to Academy and I'm in no mood to shop.... Of course, we did go, I'm the prisoner, he's driving remember? I did get a pair that I'm not very happy with. Good foot is comfortable but bothers the swollen one. oh well...we may make 49................lol
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
I do not think that many of us enjoy shopping with husbands.
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by chenille 19 Apr 2016
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I totally appreciate your dilemma! I finally actually found a pattern that works very well for me. I have made 2 pair with minor adjustments. I found that once I got the fit right they were really quite easy to make. The only problem for me is TIME!! Just a thought...you could take a basic pattern from the ones that you like for fit and go from there...just saying..
Hugs, Nadyne
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
I think you are extremely brave to tackle making jeans. I made a pair years ago in a sewing class but I would certainly not spend the time they take these days
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by lbrow 20 Apr 2016
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At 77 I'm no longer a jeans person Sarah so cannot help you. These days I prefer a softer fabric.. Just as well though I guess ,cannot for the life of me see paying all those $$$$ for something ragged looking full of rips, tears and fraying./Lillian
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by pennifold 20 Apr 2016
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So glad you found some Sarah. As for me I never wear jeans. I just don't like the feeling of the fabric. I wear trousers all the time but they are either a Jersey or crepe fabric. Love Chris
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
Chris, I live in jeans. If Klaus and I go out in the evening I will wear a pair of black Jeans.
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by cfidl 20 Apr 2016
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I have always had to peg my jeans, ever since I grew out of boys jeans. Lol! I also have to hem the entire family's jeans. I am used to not finding clothes that fit.
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by airyfairy 21 Apr 2016
Finding anything that fits is a pain these days.