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by toogie 07 Jun 2016 ( edited Jun 11'16 03:19 )
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Hello Cuties,<br /><br />

I have a story to tell. My daughter's MIL asked her to go with them on a trip, to help her with the driving, since her husband no longer drives except around home. <br /><br />
Now Ashley has 4 children, but she was just taking the little ones with them. The baby is a little over two months and nursing, and Nora is 2 1/2 years old.<br /><br />
They also invited a grandson, that is 16 and he brought along a friend. He has his driving permit and is a very good driver, but can only drive with a licensed driver with him. (He has learned driving in the fields, from an earlier age, as his dad is a farmer.)<br /><br />
The first leg of the trip was a 9 hour drive, stay overnight in hotel, then go to a wedding the next day.<br /><br />
Well, this should have been a 'sign' how things were to go.....<br /><br />
First, the car seats wouldn't fit where they were going to place them, so they had to put them on the far back seat.(at, the last minute the MIL didn't go in her SUV but her sons brand new SUV). There were 4 captain seats, but the two middle ones wouldn't adjust to slide forward, so that meant that my daughter had to climb into the rear seat and sit between the two car seats. There was very little leg space, because the captain chairs wouldn't move, so no one else could sit there, because all the others were too tall to fit, so she couldn't even help with the driving! She said the 16 year old drove very well, so someone was able to help the MIL.<br /><br />
Second, the first night at the hotel, the boys unloaded the luggage. Ashley had told them she wouldn't need her camera, to just leave it in the SUV. ...Well, they brought it to her room with her luggage anyway.<br /><br />
When checking out of the hotel the next morning, after getting herself and the two little ones dressed, baby nursed, she was carrying the baby, the diaper bag, the camera and keeping up with the almost 3 year old. She sat the diaper bag on the floor, the camera on the counter and held the 2 month old while checking out.<br /><br />
The wedding they went to was beautiful. It was at the grooms family home and the grounds were breath taking.<br /><br />
Thirdly, after the ceremony, her and her MIL were in line for the reception/food and the boys came and told them the FIL was ready to go. Ashley said, they didn't get to eat! She also wanted to talk/visit with some of the other guest, after driving so far but.....they left! She said FIL is like that!?//!!?? They had to then go to a restaurant to eat.<br /><br />
They drove a few more hours that day onto their last destination, spent a few days there, before coming home.<br /><br />
Upon arriving at Ashley's home, they unloaded her luggage and NO CAMERA. She tried to think where she could have left it, where was the last place she had it? <br /><br />
She remembered the counter, on the first morning they checked out, before traveling on. It had to be there! She called and called, and cried and cried, and finally was able to get a REAL person on the line. Then they told her she would have to call back, between this hour & that hour, to speak with the manager. She cried again.<br /><br />
The next day, she called the manager and he made her describe the camera, was it in a bag, etc,etc. She told it was a Canon camera with two long lens, she told him what else was in the bag. She couldn't remember the name of the bag, but it was a generic bag, she told him, not a name brand. She said she had just given birth, all her baby photos were still on it. He finally said, Yeah, we have it! Yea!!!! <br /><br />
He asked her how she planned to retrieve it, since they were already back home. She told him her aunt lived nearby and she would pick it up for her. My sister came over today and it is now on my kitchen table:)<br /><br />
The manager told her that when guest leave something, it goes into Lost & Found, for 3 weeks. After that it is given to Goodwill. Ashley said , Can you imagine my $1,000. camera being sold at Goodwill?!!!<br /><br />
I was surprised she hadn't missed it, before going home. I suppose with two little ones in tow, no husband to help, and a FIL with peculiar ways it was easy to get distracted. So glad it turned out well and she got her photos back. She said she had made a copy of all the birth photos but............the copy was in the camera bag!!! .................ps. Received this photo in a text that read, 'Gus is happy to be going home!'

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Comments (16)
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by sebsews 07 Jun 2016
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Oh my what a trip! So glad all turned out fine. Not a trip I would want to be taking.
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Hind sight , she said she wouldn't have gone at all, if she'd known Andrew could handle the driving. She could have spent her money on a better vacation, though she loved being able to go to the wedding. Just wish she could have mingled at the reception. She just couldn't believe they were leaving right after the ceremony. She said and AFTER DRIVING 9 HOURS, with babies, & renting a room! That was the whole point of the trip, to attend the wedding!!!
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by Smokey12 07 Jun 2016
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Wow, at least she got her camera back. I wouldn't be making another trip.
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Me either. I know she was stressed. We all were glad she got the camera back. It's good the hotel was great about security too. When my sister drove to the hotel, she sent her friend in, to pick it up. The manager told her it had to be my sister. So my sister went in, showed ID and they even made a copy of her drivers license. That's good I told her, that they made sure it went to the right person.
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by lbrow 07 Jun 2016
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I do believe next time I would be unable to go with them. Really glad the camera found it's way back. She is very fortunate on that part/Lillian
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Lillian, she has voiced the same opinion. She was worn out. She said, no vacation, for sure. She said getting the camera back was the high light .
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by sandralane 07 Jun 2016
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So glad everything worked out in the end, however she will think again before going with the in-laws. A very memorable trip and wedding. Sandra.
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Ashley was looking forward to talk, with the 'head' or matron of the family, at the wedding. This lady has written the sweetest letters to my SIL and my daughter. The elderly lady knew SIL all his life and was anxious to finally meet my daughter. They had just began a conversation, when they had to leave because FIL was ready. (Personally, I think as his wife, I'd had to discreetly say something, but good thing for him, I'm not!-lol)-
Yes, this is a trip she won't soon forget.
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by airyfairy 07 Jun 2016
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Whar a trip and then to loose the camera. Happy ending to the story
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Happy ending and lesson learned. So glad she got it all back.
by sharonleekesner 07 Jun 2016
Yes, the lesson learned being, don't go anywhere that the FIL is going. Hahahaha, not funny, I have one just like him and my MIL does every thing he demands, usually at the top of his voice. I mostly pretend I haven't heard him, even if my hair is blowing back from the bellowing. What a lovely daughter you have to agree to help the ingrates even if her driving wasn't needed. She's a jewel.
by toogie 11 Jun 2016
Sharon, I'm sure she will think twice about going if the FIL is going, but yes, this should be a lesson learned.

Is your MIL hard of hearing? If not, she will be!
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by pennifold 07 Jun 2016
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All I can say Toogie is Wow! what a weekend! I'm glad Ashley got her camera back though. Love Chris
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
It was actually 5 days Chris, but maybe a week-end wouldn't have been so bad.Still...........We are all very happy and thankful, she got it back.
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by 02kar 07 Jun 2016
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What a story! Thank goodness it had a happy ending. She should write it as a sitcom and sell it to a TV program. I hope she got to rest when she got home.
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
As I was writing this Karen, I thought it could have been funny at first, but then as I was putting myself in her place, I was exhausted.-lol
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by dennis999 07 Jun 2016
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I'm with Chris on this one Toogie. I was worn out even by the time they had got the seats sorted out, never mind the rest of the journey's events. Still, I am delighted that everything worked out well and that the camera and kit were recovered. An expensive camera like that would probably sell for peanuts at a charity fundraising event..........never mind the loss of all the images held on the card. I'm surprised that something as valuable as that would not be required to be handed to the police instead of being sold off in that way. Importantly, everything worked out well, even if it did involve a few understandable tears.
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Dennis, I need to tell my sister to shop that Goodwill store! At the very least, next time I visit, take me there to shop! We are so glad she got her photo equipment and images of Gus's birth back. As we all say, the images are priceless, not to mention the equipment.
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by dragonflyer 07 Jun 2016
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Pheeew, I am exhausted just reading about their week-end...glad she got her camera back! Gus is adorable!
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Thanks Kim, he's a ham! We're happy about the recovery, too.
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by gerryvb 07 Jun 2016
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pppfff, what a story.....
Good everything ended up okay.
I think she will not lose sight of the camera again.
Love the picture by the way. hugs, Gerry
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
Let's hope you are right, about keeping up with the camera. ..I love the picture too. He is cooing now and swinging those arms like he's a boxer!
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by queenofhearts 07 Jun 2016
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It is too bad that the MIL didn't stand up to the FIL and point out how ridiculous his demand to leave was. Had it been me we would not have been leaving. It is too bad that he ruined it for all the others. Even without losing the camera it would have been a vacation from hell.
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
She said MIL won't say anything, lucky he married her and not you or me-lol
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by stork 07 Jun 2016
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That was a lot of drama to go thru with kids! Glad she is back home and so is the camera!!!
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by toogie 07 Jun 2016
I think so too, too much things going wrong. At least they are back safe & somewhat sound-lol
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by graceandham 08 Jun 2016
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Three comments: 1. Gus is precious. 2. The parents of the teenage driver with the permit should be told that most states do not accept permits from other states, in other words, his permission to drive ends at the border. This can be a major problem. 3. I think MIL has forgotten how hard it is to be the mother of little ones and do anything, much less take this kind of trip!
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by toogie 11 Jun 2016
1-thanks
2-Good to know
3-MIL is too kind--FIL the peculiar one
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by gerryb 08 Jun 2016
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First - I'd like to squeeze that little pumpkin! He is soooo cute! Second - that is a hard lesson for your daughter to learn; but I bet that's the last trip unless she's in HER car & has the trip on her schedule! Whew!!! Glad she got her camera bac
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by toogie 11 Jun 2016
We're glad she got the camera too. I told her that is why when we go anywhere, her dad wants to go in his own car!----those are the cheeks that invite the squeezes, uh?
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by shozo1271 08 Jun 2016
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What an ORDEAL! didn't sound like a real fun trip :( But, Gus is adorable and happy, so all is well! *hugs and flowers*
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by toogie 11 Jun 2016
Gus is happy as long as he can eat, sleep and coo a little-lol
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by cfidl 11 Jun 2016
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Great pic of Gus! Too bad about the other stuff.
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by toogie 11 Jun 2016
Yeah, I feel bad about the spoiled times...on the other hand Gus is too little to care!