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by toogie 04 Jul 2016 ( edited Jul 05'16 17:51 )
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Here is our annual 4th of July celebration, with my hubby's side of the family. We counted 70 adults for lunch, not including the children, and more families came in that afternoon and night. We celebrated Saturday, at his parents old home. They are both deceased, but the family has kept the home place.

My dh and couple more men start the fire, in the BBQ pit, around 6am. We eat at noon and everyone brings some sort of dish or two (see photos). We eat again around 6 pm and they play music until midnight. They must be feeling their age as this year they stopped at 11:20 pm-lol-

See my grand daughter with her fiddle? She 'played' the first two songs with them and then told her mom her fiddle was too heavy-lol- She stood in her place though and had a very serious look on her face.

After the blessing of the food and our country, everyone had plenty to eat and a good time was experienced by all. I had to include our Cutie Avery and also baby Gus as this was his first 4th. Celebrations don't interrupt his nap!-lol-Hope you enjoy the few photos I uploaded.

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by babash 04 Jul 2016
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What a great day you would have had. So much yummy looking food as well.
The little one with the Fiddle looks like she is really taking notice so she can do it right.
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by toogie 04 Jul 2016
We all did enjoy ourselves, except for the heat!
My daughter explained the care, to my grand-daughter the first time she laid her fiddle on the floor. She said it was an instrument to be played, but she had to take very good care of it, always putting back in the case when she was through. She told her someone could step on it and then it would play no more. She listens and so far, minds very well. She has been telling us she was going to play at old Momo's house when we had the 'party'-lol
by graceandham 05 Jul 2016
Well I thought we overdid it with ribs, potato salad, garlic bread, corn on the cob, baked beans and pickles! Your family is keeping Tupperware in business.
by toogie 05 Jul 2016
Your BBQ sounds good too. When its just us and our 3 kids & our grands, we have our BBQ meats, potato salad, baked beans, lettuce/tomato salad, coleslaw, a bread,and ALWAYS desert!-lol-usually banana pudding, watermelon, or peach cobbler. The grands always ask for Papa's homemade ice cream, but they only get it if its already made, after BBQ-ing he's too tired!
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by asterixsew 04 Jul 2016
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Oh my goodness what fun you all have had. The first picture is beautiful
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by toogie 04 Jul 2016
Thank you, she's watching what her mom does,I guess how she plays.
Were you able to find little Gus in the last photo?-lol
by asterixsew 04 Jul 2016
Ah yes just spotted him. Just remembered I have my laptop on and softwear added.
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by jrob 04 Jul 2016
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What beautiful memories for all of the generations to gather together and celebrate.
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
Yes, we have had some good times over the years. It has been so hot we sit huge fans up, but we jokingly said, we need to have our July4th ๐Ÿ˜…in April๐Ÿ˜‰
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by sandralane 05 Jul 2016
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Thank you Toogie for sharing your photographs with us. Looks as though everyone is enjoying themselves, what a crowd, and some lovely food as well. Sandra.
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
If anyone goes hungry, it's because they just didn't eat! There was more than enough food. Sandra the only people that were here that wasn't a child, grandchild or great grandchildren of my inlaws were a 93 year old aunt of my husbands and her son& daughter-in-law. I really need to do a head count of the kids as well. It should be well over 100 I'm sure.
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by dragonflyer 05 Jul 2016
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Beautiful photos, beautiful family, beautiful celebration...beautiful day!
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
We got a little shower late in the day but it was so hot, we needed a little cooling off. Hope your 4 th was good too, thanks.
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by gdsteliga 05 Jul 2016
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Wonderful celebration. My darling husband was taken from me two months ago. Most of the family is scattered across the country.
Allow me to share your party. Thank you
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
I'm glad you enjoyed celebrating with us, even if it was only in photos. Please accept my condolences about the loss of your husband. I'm sorry too your family doesn't live close for you to visit. All three of my children only live no more than 15 minutes away.
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by noah 05 Jul 2016
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Looks like a great time was had by all hugs
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
I think so Carolyn but sure was exhausted at end of it all!
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by grossfamilie 05 Jul 2016
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Thank you, dear Toogie, for giving an insight into your family life!
Lovely to see people of all ages - food of all kinds! This certainly was a great time being together and now wishing all of you much luck and health until you meet again next year. Happy 4th of July! Maria
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
Thank you very much Maria, but we will get together again New Years. We won't BBQ, but we will have food and music, at the old homestead.
My husband had 5 brothers and 6 sisters. The oldest will be 90 this month and the youngest is almost 66. We all have kids and grandkids. A few have great- grands. So we don't get together for Christmas but wait until New Year.
I'm glad you enjoyed my post and thank you for commenting too.
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by katydid 05 Jul 2016
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Oh! My the food . Looks like a church social!! We have Airport cookouts here that turn into that size party. Looks like fun!! Kay
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
It's funny you compared it to a church social, but that's about the size of it! The women mostly get to visit and catch up on each other after lunch. The men usually play horseshoes. A few times my SIL rented a water slide blowup for the kids to cool off, but not this year.
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by gerryvb 05 Jul 2016
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that must have been a wonderful celebration !!! Thanks for sharing :)
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
It was nice. It's a lot of work for us, so the next get together will be easier. It's in the winter, New Years.
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by lbrow 05 Jul 2016
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It's been a long time since I've been to a great 4th gala such as this Toogie. Love them. Thanks so much for sharing these pics with us./Lillian
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
Are you from a large family, too, Lillian? I only had 2 sisters but he has 11 siblings! My youngest always liked family re-unions with my family or with my DH's aunt/uncles. My other two kids, not so much, so Ashley really knows more of the older relatives than my older two do.
In these photos though, its just his siblings and their families. It's a bunch of us, alright!
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by mariahail 05 Jul 2016
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this is great!!!! what a lucky family!!!!!!!!!!*****************
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
I must say, I used to be so bashful, when DH brought me to meet the family. I like to never got straight, who is who. He had siblings, my parents age, and I used to call them Mr. so-in-so or Mrs so-in-so. DH would laugh at me and tell me to call them by their first name, they were his sisters and brothers. That was hard to get used too.
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by marianb 05 Jul 2016
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It would be wonderful to be part of your family celebration.. So many people, it would take all day just to say hi to everyone let alone catch up on what's happened in the last year. Marian
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
lol-try hugging & kissing them all goodbye!-lol-Dh's cousin that brought his 93 year old mother, really enjoyed himself. He only had 1 brother, so to be with all his old cousins for the day, was a real treat, he said.
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by shirley124 05 Jul 2016
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What a wonderful day you all must have had. Love the photo of your Grand daughter playing her fiddle. Hugs from 'Down Under' Shirley
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
Thanks Shirley, she a doll for sure! She only lives about 5 miles away, but I doubt she made it home, before falling asleep. She ran around and played all day with the other children.
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by sdrise 05 Jul 2016
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looks like a wonderful day!!
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
It was nice, thank you.
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by airyfairy 05 Jul 2016
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wonderful pictures and the food looks to die for
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
It was all good, I'm sure. You can't try everything or you'd be stuffed! We had BBQ pork and chicken, sausage, too. There were fresh snap beans& potatoes, tomatoes, cucumber, 6 potato salads, 2 pasta salads, 4 or 5 baked beans. There was a dish that tasted like stuffed baked potatoes that was really good.It had real bacon, green onions and cheese. It's in the long pan in photo 3, by someone with a neon yellow shirt on.There were a couple of dirty rice or rice dressings too.We had about 6 different cakes and its funny, not one repeated, even though no one knew what the other was bringing. There were pies, banana pudding, cupcakes and that coconut desert with the cherries on top. A sister-in-law said how good it was. I know there was a few dishes I missed, but we all had plenty to eat for sure.
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by rmj8939 05 Jul 2016
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That is so nice. When I was young my family did this sort of thing at holidays. I miss it very much.
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
Yes, I know we will too, as we have asked that the younger ones take over, but no volunteers. Everyone likes to come, but they don't realize the work involved, or they're too busy, etc.
We are included in the few that prepare and organize, but the few that do, range in age 65-80. My husband cut the wood for the BBQ pit and hauled it one day, by himself, then got sick afterwards, because he got too hot. My son and grandson went back with him to get the rest of the wood when they heard and both of them are highly allergic to poison ivy/oak. That usually means a doctor bill for them. Luckily not this time.
I pick up all the supplies like plates,utensils,napkins,towels, foil, seasonings for the meat. An 80 year old brother picks up the meats and brings them the day before. There are about 6 of us that prepare and season the meat. Then my dh and him load it and store it in a meat cooler, until the next morning. We count adults the next day and divide the number by the cost of the supplies and meats. We don't count children but a family of say 5, with 3 kids under twelve, eat two meals for around $12 total ($6 each). Where else can you eat for that, please tell me? That way no one has to be out a big cost and no one minds paying like this. If you break it down, its about $3 a meal and I don't know if you could eat at Burger King or Mc D's, for that!-lol
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by gerryb 05 Jul 2016
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I wanna join your family!! I was born in Ala., does that count? (I forgot where you are) Looks like a good ole Southern get together!!! Tks for sharing!
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by toogie 05 Jul 2016
I'll ask my husband if he wants to adopt you!-lol-He did want us, at one time, to foster children, but I think you are probably over 18 by now-lol
I'm from the south and Ala is South! Glad you like our 4th get-together!