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by shirley124 08 Nov 2016 ( edited Nov 10'16 13:25 )
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UPDATE. I was able to attend my dear Aunts funeral service after all. When I dropped hubby off at the skin clinic I spoke with the specialist. He is reasonably happy with the way his leg is improving. I asked how long it would be to take care of the skin cancers and he said about 45 minutes. So I left hubby in his care and went to Auntie's service. I was so happy to be able to go. It was a lovely service. <br /><br /><br /><br />

My dear Auntie who turned 100 years 2 months ago passed away last Friday morning. She died peacefully in her sleep which was a blessing. The funeral is today but sadly I will not be able to go as I have to take Hubby to have 3 more skin cancers removed at the same time as the service. Luckily these 3 skin cancers are only small and will be done under a local anaesthetic. I also need to speak with the specialist regarding his leg which has not shown much improvement since the last visit. He was sure he was going to be able to cure it. I hope he comes up with a better solution today. Hugs

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by dragonflyer 08 Nov 2016
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So sad for your loss....but she lived a long life...
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
It is a sad loss. She was a wonderful lady. She was ready to go. We have so many happy memories of her to treasure. Hugs
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by asterixsew 08 Nov 2016
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What a great age your aunt was. Will think about you today as you cannot be in two places at once. Hope all goes well with your husband
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Thanks for thinking of me. I was very fortunate as hubby,s appointment was 15 minutes before the service. I was able to speak with the specialist and he said to continue with the treatment on his leg. Said it was looking a little better. I asked how long it would take to remove the skin cancers and he said about 45 minutes. So I left hubby there and made it to the funeral place jist before the service started. I am sure the Lord was with me as I really wanted to be there. Hugs
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by graceandham 08 Nov 2016
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Think of all the wonderful years you have had with her! That is amazing and I hope you got some of those long-life genes. Set aside a time of quietness to remember your times with her. I hope you had great success with the medical folks today.
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Thanks. Please see my answer to asterixsew below. I have many happy memories of her and her late husband as well. Hugs
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by 02kar 09 Nov 2016
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I'm so sorry you didn't get to say a formal goodbye to your beloved Aunt. But thank goodness you were able to be with your hubby. My prayers are added for you and your hubby during this trying chapter.
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Many thanks. I was able to be with both as things turned out. I am sure your prayers had something to do with it. Hugs
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by pldc 09 Nov 2016
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My prayers are with you both Shirley, my deepest sympathies, ~hugs~
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Many thanks. Hugs
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by irenewayne 09 Nov 2016
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Condolences Shirley & best wishes for Hubby. Your Auntie must have seen so many changes in her life time & had many stories to tell. RIP
Irene
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Thanks Irene. Auntie had lots of stories she could have told us today but 1 day would not have been enough time to tell them all. Hugs
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by sandralane 09 Nov 2016
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My sympathy goes to you and your family, on the sad loss of your dear Aunt, She did reach a memorable milestone, and will be fondly remembered by all I am sure. Sad you could not be there, I hope you have some good news about the leg, and the skin cancer removal goes well. My husband has similar issues at the moment, so I know what you are going through. Brighter days ahead. Sandra.
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Thanks Sandra. The skin cancer removals went well and got a reasonable report on his leg. I was able to manage to get to my Aunts service which I was thrilled about. Hugs Shirley
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by pacmp 09 Nov 2016
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I am sure that your dear Aunt would understand your conflict with your husbands appointments. What a blessing to live a long life and pass easily in your sleep. ((Hugs)) for the loss you are feeling. Hoping that the fond memories you have with her will help to ease the aching in your heart at this time. I do hope that the doctors can help to get your husbands leg situation improved as well as getting the 3 skin cancers taken care of. The leg situation can be a scary situation and best not to be taken lightly. Prayers that all the medical staff and doctors will have inspiration and insight into how they can best help your husbands body. Pam
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
I was able to make the service while hubby was having the skin cancers removed. He said it would take about 45 minutes so I excused myself and hurried to the service just before the family went into the chaple. It was a lovely service and I was so pleased I could make it. I did not get to the graveside as it was time to go pick up hubby. He has to go back next week for a check. Hugs Shirley
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by airyfairy 09 Nov 2016
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I am pleased for you that you managed to get to the funeral. I am sorry for the loss of your aunt. Hugs Sarah
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Yes I was so happy I was able to go. Hugs
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by cfidl 09 Nov 2016
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It is good that you were able to go to the service. More good news about the confidence the doctor has. You have my best wishes and prayer.
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by shirley124 09 Nov 2016
Many thanks. Hugs
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by lbrow 10 Nov 2016
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Glad you were able to get to the service. Sounds though you have a good Dr. for your husband and glad he is getting better
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by shirley124 10 Nov 2016
Thanks. I was glad to be ble to get to the service. She is the last of my Aunts. Hubby is quite happy with this doctor. Has to go back next week for a check. Hugs
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by sdrise 10 Nov 2016
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glad you were able to go pay your last respect to your Auntie.. Good new too that hubby is doing better too.
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by shirley124 10 Nov 2016
Many thanks. hugs