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by toogie 20 Nov 2016 ( edited Nov 27'16 01:21 )
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UPDATE BELOW-Our 'Honorary Cutie' is sick. Kindly asking for you to remember Avery and my daughter Ashley, in prayer. Well, the whole family can be remembered. <br /><br />

My son and grandson both had separate accidents this week, both are ok. Grandson had something fall at work, hit his arm that he had a hot welding rod in his hand, causing it to drive into his leg. The doctor said the hot rod cauterized the wound when it stuck in, so no bleeding... My son cut his pointer finger half way, where it joins the hand, having to have 6 stitches. <br /><br />
Going back to our girl. She is really sick. She really went through a hard night, a couple nights ago. Because of her health issues, she can't handle colds/mucus like we can and her deep suction pump wouldn't work, although Ashley didn't know this until she needed it. <br /><br />
I never thought I would be one to toot the praises of Facebook, but it really was a tool that helped us that night. <br /><br />
We could not 'think' WHO may have a machine Avery needed, so Ashley turned to Facebook. She asked to respond ONLY if you had a machine Avery could use, because she didn't need to go through unnecessary post, in a crisis. <br /><br />
My husband and I made a 2 hour round trip (should have been 3 1/2 hours) to pick one up. The lady met us on route that cut an hour off our trip, but in the meantime, another lady closer contacted Ashley. She knew someone willing to loan her 2, one not so good and one working properly. My other daughter that was also with Ashley, called to tell my husband to slow down, they had the machine.<br /><br />
When we returned both machines were running at the ready, one with the flexible tubing and the other with the deep suction attachment.<br /><br />
We sat by her bedside all that night. She slept but not resting well. If we could not have gotten a machine she would have had to go to hospital. The hand pump was almost useless in this episode.<br /><br />
I have to say, I admire our daughter Ashley, for taking such good care of Avery in emergency situations. We usually go to pieces afterwards, thank God she holds it together as its happening. When she called us to go, she was alone with the 3 little ones. I had just left 30 minutes before. When we got there, Ashley still had tears steaming, so I knew it had been bad and it was.<br /><br />
Some people ask, 'why don't you just take her to ER?' Avery was prescribed machines at home, so we don't have to run to ER every time Avery has a cold. What we do at home is what they do at ER, the only difference they have back up machines, if one doesn't work. We found out the filter is probably needing to be replaced. Something as simple as the filter, almost cost Avery her life that night.<br /><br />
So.....remember Mom and especially Avery and thank God for sparing Avery again. I know Ashley has done CPR and saved Avery before, but God help her, if anything happens and especially when she is alone with no help. <br /><br />
I wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving. We truly have much to be thankful for. Love-Toogie

UPDATE-11-23-16 Avery is feeling better but not completely cleared up. Thought you might want to see her being a big sister. Gus loves his sis too. Thank you for keeping her in prayer.

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by graceandham 20 Nov 2016
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Prayers for Avery, you - Toogie, and all the family.
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you
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by rsloan 20 Nov 2016
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Whew! Another close call. It is heartening though that you had people who were willing to respond and even go the extra mile (no pun intended). Glad to hear she is doing better - prayers coming for all of you/.
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
If people have this machine, they know what you are going through and are all so ready to help. Thanks
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by sandralane 20 Nov 2016
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So glad to hear Toogie that there was someone out there with just what you needed and willing to help out. There are still good people in the world to lend a hand in an emergency. Prayers for dear little Avery, Ashley, you, and all the family,May she continue ti improve quickly. Thinking of you at this stressful time. Sandra.
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you Sandra- I will be with her tomorrow, pray we don't have an emergency.
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by marron1 20 Nov 2016
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sending prayers for Avery and the family ...Linda
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you Linda
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by noah 20 Nov 2016
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yep God is still on the throne helping ***May he be with you all hugs carolyn
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you
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by designgirl 20 Nov 2016
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Sending prayer for Avery and family.
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you
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by asterixsew 20 Nov 2016
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Toogie thanks for the update.. Life sounds as if its been very busy with your family. I'm sending positive thoughts for Avery and the rest of the family. Take care
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Yes Caroline, busy & stressful.
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by crazypatchmama 20 Nov 2016
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Toogie, you and your family will be in my prayer tonight before I go to sleep. May He continue to give you all the strength to carry on and may you have a happy Thanksgiving . Take care and God bless, Mary
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you Mary we need prayer. I will stay with the 4 kids tomorrow, as they are out of school this week. Normally they would just come here, but my husband is sick with a cold and also don't want to take Avery out, so I will go there.
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by dakota 20 Nov 2016
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You and your family are in my thoughts. Your family bond and strength is an inspiration. Be safe, healthy, and happy.
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
My sister has said before, how she wish her grown children were close as mine. I guess we did something right (lol) as parents, although I give credit to God for blessing us with them. He gave them to us, so we had an obligation to do the best we could. That's all any of us can do. When any of them have a need, everyone pitches in, helping out.
Marsha came that night to tend to the little ones while Ashley & I tended Avery. When my SIL came in from work, he helped with Avery too. I have to say how much I appreciate him taking care of Avery (his step daughter) with all her needs.
Life has so many twist & turns. My SIL's parents expressed how,at first they weren't sure how their son, who was marrying for the first time & at a late age, was going to adjust to married life and instant parent to two children. They also have done a good parenting him, as he has made them proud, how he has stepped up to his new role.
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by sewdoctor 21 Nov 2016
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Sorry Avery and Ashley had such a bad time. Prayers being said that she gets much better real fast!
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
I/ we appreciate your prayers. It sure gets scary, sometimes. I will be with her tomorrow, so keep us in your prayers, that she will be alright and I can handle whatever I need to.
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by ksgram1 21 Nov 2016
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....and I thought my week was hectic. So thankful that Avery is okay. We went through this many times with our granddaughter. It's totally unnerving. Prayers shall continue for your whole family. Sending you a heart full of love. Toogie, I'm thankful for "you".
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
How sweet you are!
Unnerving is the word alright. You get through it and then your nerves are shot.
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by katydid 21 Nov 2016
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Oh MY. you are on my prayer list! Kay
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by toogie 21 Nov 2016
Thank you Kay, we need all the prayers you offer.
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by momac 21 Nov 2016
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Thoughts and prayers going out to you all. Hugs from Maureen
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Maureen, we appreciate your prayers to no end. Thank you
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by marianb 21 Nov 2016
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Glad that things worked out with the machines, will keep Avery, Ashley and the boys in my thoughts and heart..
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
I am glad too Marian!
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours-Toogie
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by lidiad 21 Nov 2016
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Hugs and prayers for Avery, Ashley and the whole family.
Lidia
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Thank you so much Lidia, we really appreciate them.
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by 02kar 21 Nov 2016
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Yes, we all have much to be thankful for. And Avery is one of those precious joys. She is a special gift to so many and beloved by God. I'm grateful that so many stepped up to help save Avery. And so sorry it was such a scary and a long night for you all. Avery continues to be on my prayer list. As do you all. I know how difficult it can be to care for a child like Avery and what a blessing it is also. Keep trusting in God for strength, wisdom and protection for all. It will be a joyous Thanksgiving for you and your family after all the excitement and injuries of this past week. Please keep us informed of how everyone is doing.
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Plans are in the making for Thanksgiving. Two of the guys got turkeys from work, so I will save one for Christmas or New Years.
This year has been a year of 'accidents' for my family, but am thankful it was not anything worse. We have roofs over our heads and always something to eat. We have the love of family/each other. Most importantly, we have security knowing He is with us through it all and will see us through whatever His plans are for us.
Avery is improving. She seemed like her old self yesterday, after I made her get up-lol-the girl does like her sleep! It was noon and she still was sleeping.-lol-Mason and I got her in her chair, after I dressed her. When I rolled her in the family room with the other kids, I had to watch Gus. He is so happy to see her, I had to put him in her lap. They just love each other.
Thank you for your prayers and I hope you have a happy thanksgiving. Somehow, I know you will!-Toogie
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by sdrise 21 Nov 2016
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Prayers are with you and the family....Hope Avery will be OK soon..
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Thank you, she has improved but still not 'well'.
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by dragonflyer 21 Nov 2016
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Prayers for all, Toogie...
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Thank you Kim
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by airyfairy 21 Nov 2016
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Oh my, what a thing to go through. Avery has such a special place in my heart. It is just so difficult to imagine what you all go through when Avery is not well. Sending you all my thoughts and love. Sarah
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Oh Sarah, you're so sweet to hold Avery so dear. I feel she can't help but capture your heart, but then I might be prejudice.-lol-
Avery, and we, have had some scary times. I wonder sometimes if I am alone and something happens, if I could hold it together, as well as Ashley, and do what needs to be done. I pray I could. Thank you for caring so much about our girl.-Love Toogie
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by zoefzoef 21 Nov 2016
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Toogie,, I'm wishing all the best to you, your daughter, Avery,...everybody.. Lucky you all have each other in these hard times. And thank God that he pointed you to some other nice people in this world, willing to help you. Take care. Prayers for everyone.
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Yes, you are right, thank God.
Avery is improving but at least its loosen up. She really felt better yesterday.
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by sjbrower 21 Nov 2016
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Toogie, You never know how strong you are until you need to be....and that sounds to be very very true of your daughter Ashley. My prayers include Ashley and Avery... and you! --Sharon
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
So true Sharon and thank you very much for your prayers.
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by jrob 21 Nov 2016
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First, I can't get my mouth closed. What an adventure it is with your family. Sometimes good, sometimes like this! I'm praying for all of your sick and injured. Please tell our little Cutie we have said special prayers for her and love her so very much.
The Lord cares about everything, even the tiniest details. He had that machine lined up for you.
Wishing you all a full five fingered Thanksgiving and little girl an especially happy healthy one. P.S. Please let her sweet mama get a little bit of extra rest.
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Yesterday when I went, besides caring for the 4 kids, I cooked their supper/dinner. Mason likes pork chops and Nora likes cornbread and beans. I told Ashley how sweet she was. After she said grace, she started to eat and then thanked ME, for cooking her meal. I almost cried. I know with work and 4 kids, its hard to cook something that isn't quick. So at least their meal was cooked when they both got home.
by pennifold 24 Nov 2016
And I know from experience how much our daughters appreciate the help. God bless you Toogie for all you do for your family. I cried when I read your post - only just saw it now - so sorry not to have seen it earlier. I am so thankful that that machine was available, isn't God marvellous? Prayers being said for you and your beautiful family. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving, I know you have loads to be thankful for. Love Chris
by jrob 25 Nov 2016
I'm sure she wonders how she could ever do this without you. I'm glad our girl is better. That smile from little Gus would make anyone feel better.
by toogie 25 Nov 2016
Gus is such a happy and good baby. I have him and Nora now. In fact they ran Papa out of his bed last night, but even with his snoring, I would have had a better night with Papa-lol- they move around too much and I have to tell you. Gus was whining in his sleep and flinging his arms out, every time I try to give him his pacifier. I thought he was doing it because he didn't want the pacifier. Nora, half asleep, raised up in bed, found his blankie and he grasped it and hushed,went back to sleep-lol-she understood what he wanted cause she has hers too!-lol
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by lbrow 22 Nov 2016
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That we do Toogie. Tears come as I wonder what in the world have I ever done for God to be so good to me. Ashley is wonderful to be able to do what she does. I know how hard it can be when it is your own. God be with you all
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by toogie 22 Nov 2016
Lillian you make tears come to my eyes, I know you have been through a lot yourself. Even though Ashley has the education/training, like you say, it does make a difference when it's your own. How she holds it together and remembers what & how to do, has to be with His help.
I stayed with all 4 of the kids yesterday and also Avery is still 'rattley' she was feeling much better. She coughs and you can hear it, but it has loosen up. In fact she laughs at herself because she is rattley.-lol-It's a sound!
I took some photos of her yesterday but they are on my IPhone or I would show you. I put Gus in her arms and both of them were tickled. He would giggle and she would smile.
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by dragonflyer 24 Nov 2016
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Such sweeties, Toogie...So glad that Avery has turned the corner and is getting better....she captures my heart and so does little Gus!
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by toogie 25 Nov 2016
Thank you, you're so sweet, too!
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by pennifold 24 Nov 2016
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What a miracle life is and thank God for his small mercies. I'm so happy to read there was a good outcome to this emergency.

May God continue to watch over you and yours. Love Chris
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by toogie 25 Nov 2016
Beautiful sky photo! Thanks for them-T
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by asterixsew 24 Nov 2016
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Toogie thanks for the update and what delightful pictures
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by toogie 25 Nov 2016
Glad you like them and got the update.
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by marron1 24 Nov 2016
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so glad to hear Avery is feeling better,beautifull photos wishing you all a happy thanksgiving..linda
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by toogie 25 Nov 2016
Thank you Linda. I hope your day was good as well. We had plenty to eat and most of my family was here. The babies are still here. We kept Gus and Nora while mom and dad shopped all night!
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by lbrow 25 Nov 2016
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Pictures are marvelous. .So glad to hear Avery is on the mend. God is so good to us. Hope it has been a wonderful day for you today. Life is always easier when we understand God is in control and answers prayers./Lillian
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by toogie 25 Nov 2016
Thanks Lillian and I hope your day was full of family, food and good memories.
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by marianb 25 Nov 2016
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So glad to hear she feeling better, thanks for the update and the adorable photo's... love the bib saying. Marian
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by toogie 25 Nov 2016
The bib saying was a freebie from Apex a while back.
Glad you got the update.
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by airyfairy 26 Nov 2016
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Thank goodness she is feeling better. Looking so grown up.
Hugs to you dear Avery.
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by toogie 29 Nov 2016
Sometimes I can't believe how much she has grown! Thanks Sarah for your love and concern of Avery. Did Josh find a job or what's happening with him and his mom since they moved?
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by sewdoctor 26 Nov 2016
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So very happy that Avery is feeling better, little brother is cute too.
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by toogie 29 Nov 2016
Thank you AND he is GOOD-lol
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by AllRaggedy 27 Nov 2016
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So happy all is now better for Avery. God bless the individuals that came forward from Facebook and loaned your daughter their machines, and God bless the lady that drove part way to meet you with hers. You have a lot to be thankful for this Thanksgivung week.
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by toogie 29 Nov 2016
Yes, and other days too, we are blessed.