UPDATE BELOW-Our 'Honorary Cutie' is sick. Kindly asking for you to remember Avery and my daughter Ashley, in prayer. Well, the whole family can be remembered. <br /><br />
My son and grandson both had separate accidents this week, both are ok. Grandson had something fall at work, hit his arm that he had a hot welding rod in his hand, causing it to drive into his leg. The doctor said the hot rod cauterized the wound when it stuck in, so no bleeding... My son cut his pointer finger half way, where it joins the hand, having to have 6 stitches. <br /><br />
Going back to our girl. She is really sick. She really went through a hard night, a couple nights ago. Because of her health issues, she can't handle colds/mucus like we can and her deep suction pump wouldn't work, although Ashley didn't know this until she needed it. <br /><br />
I never thought I would be one to toot the praises of Facebook, but it really was a tool that helped us that night. <br /><br />
We could not 'think' WHO may have a machine Avery needed, so Ashley turned to Facebook. She asked to respond ONLY if you had a machine Avery could use, because she didn't need to go through unnecessary post, in a crisis. <br /><br />
My husband and I made a 2 hour round trip (should have been 3 1/2 hours) to pick one up. The lady met us on route that cut an hour off our trip, but in the meantime, another lady closer contacted Ashley. She knew someone willing to loan her 2, one not so good and one working properly. My other daughter that was also with Ashley, called to tell my husband to slow down, they had the machine.<br /><br />
When we returned both machines were running at the ready, one with the flexible tubing and the other with the deep suction attachment.<br /><br />
We sat by her bedside all that night. She slept but not resting well. If we could not have gotten a machine she would have had to go to hospital. The hand pump was almost useless in this episode.<br /><br />
I have to say, I admire our daughter Ashley, for taking such good care of Avery in emergency situations. We usually go to pieces afterwards, thank God she holds it together as its happening. When she called us to go, she was alone with the 3 little ones. I had just left 30 minutes before. When we got there, Ashley still had tears steaming, so I knew it had been bad and it was.<br /><br />
Some people ask, 'why don't you just take her to ER?' Avery was prescribed machines at home, so we don't have to run to ER every time Avery has a cold. What we do at home is what they do at ER, the only difference they have back up machines, if one doesn't work. We found out the filter is probably needing to be replaced. Something as simple as the filter, almost cost Avery her life that night.<br /><br />
So.....remember Mom and especially Avery and thank God for sparing Avery again. I know Ashley has done CPR and saved Avery before, but God help her, if anything happens and especially when she is alone with no help. <br /><br />
I wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving. We truly have much to be thankful for. Love-Toogie
UPDATE-11-23-16 Avery is feeling better but not completely cleared up. Thought you might want to see her being a big sister. Gus loves his sis too. Thank you for keeping her in prayer.
Marsha came that night to tend to the little ones while Ashley & I tended Avery. When my SIL came in from work, he helped with Avery too. I have to say how much I appreciate him taking care of Avery (his step daughter) with all her needs.
Life has so many twist & turns. My SIL's parents expressed how,at first they weren't sure how their son, who was marrying for the first time & at a late age, was going to adjust to married life and instant parent to two children. They also have done a good parenting him, as he has made them proud, how he has stepped up to his new role.
Unnerving is the word alright. You get through it and then your nerves are shot.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours-Toogie
Lidia
This year has been a year of 'accidents' for my family, but am thankful it was not anything worse. We have roofs over our heads and always something to eat. We have the love of family/each other. Most importantly, we have security knowing He is with us through it all and will see us through whatever His plans are for us.
Avery is improving. She seemed like her old self yesterday, after I made her get up-lol-the girl does like her sleep! It was noon and she still was sleeping.-lol-Mason and I got her in her chair, after I dressed her. When I rolled her in the family room with the other kids, I had to watch Gus. He is so happy to see her, I had to put him in her lap. They just love each other.
Thank you for your prayers and I hope you have a happy thanksgiving. Somehow, I know you will!-Toogie
Avery, and we, have had some scary times. I wonder sometimes if I am alone and something happens, if I could hold it together, as well as Ashley, and do what needs to be done. I pray I could. Thank you for caring so much about our girl.-Love Toogie
Avery is improving but at least its loosen up. She really felt better yesterday.
The Lord cares about everything, even the tiniest details. He had that machine lined up for you.
Wishing you all a full five fingered Thanksgiving and little girl an especially happy healthy one. P.S. Please let her sweet mama get a little bit of extra rest.
I stayed with all 4 of the kids yesterday and also Avery is still 'rattley' she was feeling much better. She coughs and you can hear it, but it has loosen up. In fact she laughs at herself because she is rattley.-lol-It's a sound!
I took some photos of her yesterday but they are on my IPhone or I would show you. I put Gus in her arms and both of them were tickled. He would giggle and she would smile.
May God continue to watch over you and yours. Love Chris
Glad you got the update.
Hugs to you dear Avery.